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May 24, 2019 7:36 AM CST The main reason for talking to others...
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
When something goes wrong,
You need to share it,
to tell about the bad experience,
to take the load off your back.

If you don't share it,
it festers,
and becomes,
like a septic wound,
that is not cleansed.

wave conversing wave conversing
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May 24, 2019 7:41 AM CST The main reason for talking to others...
InstincThis
InstincThisInstincThishere, Utah USA14 Threads 1 Polls 2,045 Posts
smiley963: When something goes wrong,
You need to share it,
to tell about the bad experience,
to take the load off your back.

If you don't share it,
it festers,
and becomes,
like a septic wound,
that is not cleansed.
* i got salt. free salt for your septic wound.
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May 24, 2019 7:43 AM CST The main reason for talking to others...
There's a lot of ways to clean without talking.
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May 24, 2019 7:46 AM CST The main reason for talking to others...
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
InstincThis: * i got salt. free salt for your septic wound.
And you can keep that, thanx...
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May 24, 2019 7:47 AM CST The main reason for talking to others...
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
Tulefell: There's a lot of ways to clean without talking.
Close yourself up in a soundproof room, and shout to your heart's content...You still need to talk...
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May 24, 2019 7:47 AM CST The main reason for talking to others...
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
Bad experience is not something that should be shared to help yourself get over it...
It might make you feel better because of the sympathy you receive from others but it doesn't help you see where did you go wrong...
The thinking and healing is a lonely process, you stand up against yourself...
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May 24, 2019 7:48 AM CST The main reason for talking to others...
smiley963: Close yourself up in a soundproof room, and shout to your heart's content...You still need to talk...
Being an introvert, I really don't.
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May 24, 2019 7:51 AM CST The main reason for talking to others...
InstincThis
InstincThisInstincThishere, Utah USA14 Threads 1 Polls 2,045 Posts
smiley963: And you can keep that, thanx...
shock You don't.... want free stuff?..




(again.. the internet - proving its a fake reality) laugh
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May 24, 2019 7:51 AM CST The main reason for talking to others...
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
pKrema: Bad experience is not something that should be shared to help yourself get over it...
It might make you feel better because of the sympathy you receive from others but it doesn't help you see where did you go wrong...
The thinking and healing is a lonely process, you stand up against yourself...
Now there I totally disagree with you...ever thought why we are able to talk, and animals do it too...
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May 24, 2019 7:51 AM CST The main reason for talking to others...
InstincThis
InstincThisInstincThishere, Utah USA14 Threads 1 Polls 2,045 Posts
Tulefell: Being an introvert, I really don't.
prove it.- just.... one month
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May 24, 2019 7:53 AM CST The main reason for talking to others...
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
Tulefell: Being an introvert, I really don't.
It is really essential to get it off your back, and share...but you can write it down as well, but someone you trust still need to read it, when you feel comfortable with it...
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May 24, 2019 8:41 AM CST The main reason for talking to others...
smiley963: It is really essential to get it off your back, and share...but you can write it down as well, but someone you trust still need to read it, when you feel comfortable with it...
It's essential to get over it. Period.

In your own pace and manner.

If you can't manage a failure without burdening someone else with it, then we'll... I hope that this someone else is comfortable with the experience. Otherwise you are abusing people's good will.
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May 24, 2019 8:56 AM CST The main reason for talking to others...
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
Tulefell: There's a lot of ways to clean without talking.
I agree with this!thumbs up
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May 24, 2019 9:01 AM CST The main reason for talking to others...
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
pKrema: Bad experience is not something that should be shared to help yourself get over it...
It might make you feel better because of the sympathy you receive from others but it doesn't help you see where did you go wrong...
The thinking and healing is a lonely process, you stand up against yourself...
True!
Healing can be done in silence with a meditation for example at an energetic level?

Also...a "bad" experience can be transformed into a humorous one by looking at it from another perspective.
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May 24, 2019 9:04 AM CST The main reason for talking to others...
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
smiley963: It is really essential to get it off your back, and share...but you can write it down as well, but someone you trust still need to read it, when you feel comfortable with it...
Yes..you can write it down...read it aloud...and burn it!
.nobody has to read it!
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May 24, 2019 9:11 AM CST The main reason for talking to others...
methuzelah
methuzelahmethuzelahTampa, Florida USA296 Threads 1,633 Posts
Trump can't talk to anyone, he's a MORONthumbs up
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May 24, 2019 9:16 AM CST The main reason for talking to others...
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
Tulefell: It's essential to get over it. Period.

In your own pace and manner.

If you can't manage a failure without burdening someone else with it, then we'll... I hope that this someone else is comfortable with the experience. Otherwise you are abusing people's good will.
And who are you lashing out to...Me...Lol...
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May 24, 2019 9:21 AM CST The main reason for talking to others...
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
daniela777: Yes..you can write it down...read it aloud...and burn it!
.nobody has to read it!
What does Share mean to You...Yourself...
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May 24, 2019 9:33 AM CST The main reason for talking to others...
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
smiley963: What does Share mean to You...Yourself...
If you stay away from people, or don't allow them to influence you in any way, Thus: No emotional affect...then you need no-one...to talk to...
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May 24, 2019 9:48 AM CST The main reason for talking to others...
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
smiley963: What does Share mean to You...Yourself...
YES!
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