The main reason for talking to others... (46)
smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Postsdaniela777: YES!
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smiley963: When something goes wrong,
You need to share it,
to tell about the bad experience,
to take the load off your back.
If you don't share it,
it festers,
and becomes,
like a septic wound,
that is not cleansed.
Sometimes I wonder why I bother I get more sense out of the mirrorYou need to share it,
to tell about the bad experience,
to take the load off your back.
If you don't share it,
it festers,
and becomes,
like a septic wound,
that is not cleansed.
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smiley963: And who are you lashing out to...Me...Lol...
Pointing out that would has more than one dimension isn't lashing.------ This thread is Archived ------
Tulefell: Pointing out that would has more than one dimension isn't lashing.
Who told you, that you're an Introvert, they are very big liars...------ This thread is Archived ------
smiley963: Who told you, that you're an Introvert, they are very big liars...
Took a test.Changing the subject?
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smiley963: When something goes wrong,
You need to share it,
to tell about the bad experience,
to take the load off your back.
If you don't share it,
it festers,
and becomes,
like a septic wound,
that is not cleansed.
It's up to you weather you think you've had a bad experiance, the bad experiance maybe all in your mind. When we lose out on anything its a bad thing, that comes with the greeed all humans have.You need to share it,
to tell about the bad experience,
to take the load off your back.
If you don't share it,
it festers,
and becomes,
like a septic wound,
that is not cleansed.
I don't know if talking about it makes any difference.
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Butcher559: It's up to you weather you think you've had a bad experiance, the bad experiance maybe all in your mind. When we lose out on anything its a bad thing, that comes with the greeed all humans have.
I don't know if talking about it makes any difference.
That's my thinking too! I don't know if talking about it makes any difference.
It's all a matter of perception whether the experience was good or bad.
I usually try to find humour in any experience.
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there is a difference between talking/venting and dumping......in discussing you're just kind of getting it out and in dumping you're handing it off to someone else to process for you and you feel better while someone else is stuck processing the emotions for you and they are now completely drained....i guess the difference is the emotional blast put behind it.....
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M4_Mischief: there is a difference between talking/venting and dumping......in discussing you're just kind of getting it out and in dumping you're handing it off to someone else to process for you and you feel better while someone else is stuck processing the emotions for you and they are now completely drained....i guess the difference is the emotional blast put behind it.....
Yes, there is a very big difference, and everyone always writes that I mean the worst, just to cause trouble...------ This thread is Archived ------
Tulefell: Took a test.
Changing the subject?
Then you think you're something you're Not...Changing the subject?
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M4_Mischief: there is a difference between talking/venting and dumping......in discussing you're just kind of getting it out and in dumping you're handing it off to someone else to process for you and you feel better while someone else is stuck processing the emotions for you and they are now completely drained....i guess the difference is the emotional blast put behind it.....
Talking/venting and dumping your problems on someone else is sharing your misery around, and really you want that person to feel sorry for you.If you get problems right in your own self and working it out for yourself is an education to yourself, and if the same problem arises again it will be much easier to deal with the next time round.
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Butcher559: Talking/venting and dumping your problems on someone else is sharing your misery around, and really you want that person to feel sorry for you.
If you get problems right in your own self and working it out for yourself is an education to yourself, and if the same problem arises again it will be much easier to deal with the next time round.
I don't agree.....dumping your problems yes...because it means you're dumping them in someone else rather than handling them yourself...discussing and venting just wanting to be heard is a part of any relationship....that's what communication is all about...sharing....I talk to people because I enjoy talking to them and in the course of conversation we discuss a lot of things....that's what friends do....If you get problems right in your own self and working it out for yourself is an education to yourself, and if the same problem arises again it will be much easier to deal with the next time round.
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I've Never dumped my problems on anyone...People misconstrue your comments on purpose...to cause trouble...
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they can only cause what you allow.......
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M4_Mischief: they can only cause what you allow.......
And how must I get them to post proper comments...I don't use mind control...they think and act for themselves...disregarding my requirements posted...------ This thread is Archived ------
smiley963: And how must I get them to post proper comments...I don't use mind control...they think and act for themselves...disregarding my requirements posted...
its not about that...its about allowing it to bother you in any way and the importance you attach to it...------ This thread is Archived ------
M4_Mischief: its not about that...its about allowing it to bother you in any way and the importance you attach to it...
Importance:Expect a decent answer at least, and not something that has nothing to do with the thread...
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smiley963: I've Never dumped my problems on anyone...People misconstrue your comments on purpose...to cause trouble...
Yep they all say that and they say denial is the first stage to recovery. 
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Butcher559: Yep they all say that and they say denial is the first stage to recovery.
It is no Joke...!!!------ This thread is Archived ------
I like talking to people, everyone has a story to tell.
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