When something is Broken - Do you throw it away or fix it...? ( Archived) (34)

May 25, 2019 10:15 AM CST When something is Broken - Do you throw it away or fix it...?
InstincThis
InstincThisInstincThishere, Utah USA14 Threads 1 Polls 2,045 Posts
I throw things, just in hopes.. You'll go.. bend over-- and pick it up? . wink
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May 25, 2019 10:15 AM CST When something is Broken - Do you throw it away or fix it...?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
smiley963: Sweetie, that sounds like a very sad story...
It was a very sad story for consumers in america in 1985. . wave
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May 25, 2019 10:17 AM CST When something is Broken - Do you throw it away or fix it...?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
smiley963: Yes, I'm talking about human beings first of all:-

Why do we all break up relationships,
because we think that there are better available...

How many times did you try,
before you found the better one...?
Fixing people...?!
Mmmm...no...
If you don't realise you are broken, nothing can fix you...
And it's not about finding the better one but growing a sense of what is your "thing"...and do not settle for anything that just suits you for the moment...
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May 25, 2019 10:21 AM CST When something is Broken - Do you throw it away or fix it...?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
InstincThis: I throw things, just in hopes.. You'll go.. bend over-- and pick it up? .
It is very far from SA to USA...Your imagination is working overtime...
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May 25, 2019 10:23 AM CST When something is Broken - Do you throw it away or fix it...?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
galrads: It was a very sad story for consumers in america in 1985. .
Everywhere there are sad stories, not many people are prepared to listen and help...
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May 25, 2019 10:24 AM CST When something is Broken - Do you throw it away or fix it...?
TerryBull
TerryBullTerryBullLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 881 Posts
A can of coke is hardly a sad story. Still being upset 33 years later is sad
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May 25, 2019 10:25 AM CST When something is Broken - Do you throw it away or fix it...?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
pKrema: Fixing people...?!
Mmmm...no...
If you don't realise you are broken, nothing can fix you...
And it's not about finding the better one but growing a sense of what is your "thing"...and do not settle for anything that just suits you for the moment...
We all have different requirements, but the broad outline stays the same everywhere...
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May 25, 2019 10:25 AM CST When something is Broken - Do you throw it away or fix it...?
InstincThis
InstincThisInstincThishere, Utah USA14 Threads 1 Polls 2,045 Posts
smiley963: It is very far from SA to USA...Your imagination is working overtime...


oh.


ok
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May 25, 2019 10:39 AM CST When something is Broken - Do you throw it away or fix it...?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
Is it sad if your animal is not feeling well, or your fruit trees not blossoming...?
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May 25, 2019 9:11 PM CST When something is Broken - Do you throw it away or fix it...?
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
its not my job to fix anybody....I don't want to be with someone who I see as needing to be fixed either....that is a fixation with potential when decisions need to be based on the here and now and if it isn't working in the now that means we're probably not compatible and we both should move....and when it comes to fixing issues within a relationship it takes two and takes more than just im sorry's but real changes.....the man I choose to be with I will be able to accept as he is right off the bat cause I don't do maybees and mights and if only's..... I don't live in the future I live in the now so we gotta be good there with each other.....wave
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May 26, 2019 10:47 AM CST When something is Broken - Do you throw it away or fix it...?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
M4_Mischief: its not my job to fix anybody....I don't want to be with someone who I see as needing to be fixed either....that is a fixation with potential when decisions need to be based on the here and now and if it isn't working in the now that means we're probably not compatible and we both should move....and when it comes to fixing issues within a relationship it takes two and takes more than just im sorry's but real changes.....the man I choose to be with I will be able to accept as he is right off the bat cause I don't do maybees and mights and if only's..... I don't live in the future I live in the now so we gotta be good there with each other.....
See that's where we differ mainly...I think of possibilities...thus the future...I am never happy with just now...
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May 26, 2019 1:42 PM CST When something is Broken - Do you throw it away or fix it...?
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
that's where i live....the past is gone so its not real and the future isn't here yet so its not real either.....the way i see it is this....if we aren't compatible and things aren't great now then we/they are not going to be....this we'll be compatible if you change bit is erroneous....what if the person doesn't wanna change?...what happens when/if those changes don't come?....wave
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May 26, 2019 2:03 PM CST When something is Broken - Do you throw it away or fix it...?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
M4_Mischief: that's where i live....the past is gone so its not real and the future isn't here yet so its not real either.....the way i see it is this....if we aren't compatible and things aren't great now then we/they are not going to be....this we'll be compatible if you change bit is erroneous....what if the person doesn't wanna change?...what happens when/if those changes don't come?....
People don't really change ever...they might start living pretending...

Remember the Leopard...
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May 26, 2019 2:05 PM CST When something is Broken - Do you throw it away or fix it...?
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
smiley963: People don't really change ever...they might start living pretending...

Remember the Leopard...
exactly my point.....wink
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