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Jun 9, 2019 1:33 PM CST Crazy and Scared
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Is it a good idea or bad idea to ever tell someone else early in a relationship that you are crazy about them? And is it ok to be scared of rejection if you do? Any rules



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Jun 9, 2019 4:54 PM CST Crazy and Scared
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
you can tell them anything you want but try not to have any expectations of an outcome and don't think of it as rejection...think of it as non-compatibility....cause that's what it boils down to.....wave
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Jun 9, 2019 5:56 PM CST Crazy and Scared
Tuesday2018
Tuesday2018Tuesday2018mayo, Mayo Ireland1 Threads 230 Posts
Depends on the context, how it's said and why it's being said (not as obvious as it may seem)....some people can say anything and get away with it....most can't..

And if you have to ask total strangers online then it's probably a bad idea...brash, hearty, unabashed confidence clearly isn't a strength....
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Jun 9, 2019 6:01 PM CST Crazy and Scared
Friskyone
FriskyoneFriskyoneSanta Fe, New Mexico USA271 Threads 26 Polls 4,631 Posts
galrads: Is it a good idea or bad idea to ever tell someone else early in a relationship that you are crazy about them? And is it ok to be scared of rejection if you do? Any rules
Good thread.

I feel like M4 if you don't have expectations then you won't have disappointments either. For me, I do a lot of listening and observing at the same time, I like to lay my cards on the table that way I know where I stand. Either it works out or it's time to bail....next.

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Jun 9, 2019 6:02 PM CST Crazy and Scared
I've found the quickest and easiest way to get myself deleted is to send a message saying, "Hello".

BAM! Instant deletion.
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Jun 9, 2019 6:09 PM CST Crazy and Scared
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Tuesday2018: Depends on the context, how it's said and why it's being said (not as obvious as it may seem)....some people can say anything and get away with it....most can't..

And if you have to ask total strangers online then it's probably a bad idea...brash, hearty, unabashed confidence clearly isn't a strength....
Really? Yeah well i wont argue about those strength deficits but i speak with strangers about anything all the time especially while Im having dinner in a pub or restaurant, anywhere but a confessional. laugh

Anyways, I find myself like John Gilbert’s role did in a garden scene with Greta Garbo in the silent film ‘flesh and the devil’ when Im with her..

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Jun 9, 2019 6:34 PM CST Crazy and Scared
Tuesday2018
Tuesday2018Tuesday2018mayo, Mayo Ireland1 Threads 230 Posts
galrads: Really? Yeah well i wont argue about those strength deficits but i speak with strangers about anything all the time especially while Im having dinner in a pub or restaurant, anywhere but a confessional.

Anyways, I find myself like John Gilbert’s role did in a garden scene with Greta Garbo in the silent film ‘flesh and the devil’ when Im with her..
So you go around telling total strangers, you've just met in a pub, that you're crazy about them??...Bet that goes down well! lol...

Do you look deep into their eyes, whilst you declare how crazy you are??.............about them I mean...
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Jun 9, 2019 6:48 PM CST Crazy and Scared
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Tuesday2018: So you go around telling total strangers, you've just met in a pub, that you're crazy about them??...Bet that goes down well! lol...

Do you look deep into their eyes, whilst you declare how crazy you are??.............about them I mean...
Yes, I do all that in wall mart too while I crap my pants. wave
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Jun 9, 2019 7:30 PM CST Crazy and Scared
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
galrads: Is it a good idea or bad idea to ever tell someone else early in a relationship that you are crazy about them? And is it ok to be scared of rejection if you do? Any rules
Just follow your heart and face the fear of rejection because you never know. wave
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Jun 10, 2019 4:35 AM CST Crazy and Scared
Bogart_1960
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Jun 10, 2019 5:01 AM CST Crazy and Scared
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
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Jun 10, 2019 5:02 AM CST Crazy and Scared
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
galrads: Is it a good idea or bad idea to ever tell someone else early in a relationship that you are crazy about them? And is it ok to be scared of rejection if you do? Any rules
Sweetie, I can't see any woman Not being Crazy about you...
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Jun 10, 2019 5:02 AM CST Crazy and Scared
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
galrads: Is it a good idea or bad idea to ever tell someone else early in a relationship that you are crazy about them? And is it ok to be scared of rejection if you do? Any rules
If you declare your love early on it’ll get things off to a flying start.. safe in the knowledge you don’t really mean it. It was just a compliment the truth is you could take or leave it.
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Jun 10, 2019 8:10 AM CST Crazy and Scared
Bogart_1960
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Jun 10, 2019 8:27 AM CST Crazy and Scared
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
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Jun 10, 2019 8:34 AM CST Crazy and Scared
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
ChesneyChrist: If you declare your love early on it’ll get things off to a flying start.. safe in the knowledge you don’t really mean it. It was just a compliment the truth is you could take or leave it.
rolling on the floor laughing
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Jun 10, 2019 8:36 AM CST Crazy and Scared
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
I prefer you as your Honest Straight forward self...it's not good to pretend...when it's Not pretending after all...
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Jun 10, 2019 8:40 AM CST Crazy and Scared
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
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Jun 10, 2019 11:55 AM CST Crazy and Scared
Bogart_1960
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Jun 10, 2019 12:03 PM CST Crazy and Scared
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Post # 20 rolling on the floor laughing
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