Is it a good idea or bad idea to ever tell someone else early in a relationship that you are crazy about them? And is it ok to be scared of rejection if you do? Any rules
you can tell them anything you want but try not to have any expectations of an outcome and don't think of it as rejection...think of it as non-compatibility....cause that's what it boils down to.....
Depends on the context, how it's said and why it's being said (not as obvious as it may seem)....some people can say anything and get away with it....most can't..
And if you have to ask total strangers online then it's probably a bad idea...brash, hearty, unabashed confidence clearly isn't a strength....
galrads: Is it a good idea or bad idea to ever tell someone else early in a relationship that you are crazy about them? And is it ok to be scared of rejection if you do? Any rules
Good thread.
I feel like M4 if you don't have expectations then you won't have disappointments either. For me, I do a lot of listening and observing at the same time, I like to lay my cards on the table that way I know where I stand. Either it works out or it's time to bail....next.
Tuesday2018: Depends on the context, how it's said and why it's being said (not as obvious as it may seem)....some people can say anything and get away with it....most can't..
And if you have to ask total strangers online then it's probably a bad idea...brash, hearty, unabashed confidence clearly isn't a strength....
Really? Yeah well i wont argue about those strength deficits but i speak with strangers about anything all the time especially while Im having dinner in a pub or restaurant, anywhere but a confessional.
Anyways, I find myself like John Gilbert’s role did in a garden scene with Greta Garbo in the silent film ‘flesh and the devil’ when Im with her..
galrads: Really? Yeah well i wont argue about those strength deficits but i speak with strangers about anything all the time especially while Im having dinner in a pub or restaurant, anywhere but a confessional.
Anyways, I find myself like John Gilbert’s role did in a garden scene with Greta Garbo in the silent film ‘flesh and the devil’ when Im with her..
So you go around telling total strangers, you've just met in a pub, that you're crazy about them??...Bet that goes down well! lol...
Do you look deep into their eyes, whilst you declare how crazy you are??.............about them I mean...
galrads: Is it a good idea or bad idea to ever tell someone else early in a relationship that you are crazy about them? And is it ok to be scared of rejection if you do? Any rules
Just follow your heart and face the fear of rejection because you never know.
smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa3,651 posts
galrads: Is it a good idea or bad idea to ever tell someone else early in a relationship that you are crazy about them? And is it ok to be scared of rejection if you do? Any rules
Sweetie, I can't see any woman Not being Crazy about you...
galrads: Is it a good idea or bad idea to ever tell someone else early in a relationship that you are crazy about them? And is it ok to be scared of rejection if you do? Any rules
If you declare your love early on it’ll get things off to a flying start.. safe in the knowledge you don’t really mean it. It was just a compliment the truth is you could take or leave it.
ChesneyChrist: If you declare your love early on it’ll get things off to a flying start.. safe in the knowledge you don’t really mean it. It was just a compliment the truth is you could take or leave it.
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