galrads: Is it a good idea or bad idea to ever tell someone else early in a relationship that you are crazy about them? And is it ok to be scared of rejection if you do? Any rules
Say whatever you like, and don't ever be afraid of any consequences, and never take close to heart whichever the outcome may be - there are many options, you can choose. Never let anyone, no matter who she may be, get the best of you. I know you will be fine because you are asking!
It's a bad idea. It's fine to tell someone, early in a relationship that you enjoy being with them and hope to take it further... but "crazy about them?" What does that even mean? Infatuation? Lust? Can't be love? Especially when a couple of those emotions are easily mistaken for each other and can be fleeting. At least wait until you are sure about your feelings about someone else and also sure that at least some of those feelings are reciprocated, before saying anything that might come off too intense, desperate, stifling or naive. Letting things progress naturally is always the best way to go. Thing is, if she feels the same, women will most likely let you know.
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Regards!