No one has promised us a pot of gold, and some of us don't look for the bigger and better rainbow. There is peace and contentment in coming to the point in life and self-awareness, that what we have and cherish right not is enough. Our happiness is a state of mind and is up to each of us to nurture that.
I do hope you will accept this next comment in the spirit intended: There is a CS rule about flooding the forums. When you continue to create multiple new threads every day, you are blocking others' threads by burying them. Maybe be more cognizant of that?
wonlongpongSunderland, Tyne and Wear, England UK486 posts
Kaybee50: First, good morning to you.
No one has promised us a pot of gold, and some of us don't look for the bigger and better rainbow. There is peace and contentment in coming to the point in life and self-awareness, that what we have and cherish right not is enough. Our happiness is a state of mind and is up to each of us to nurture that.
I do hope you will accept this next comment in the spirit intended: There is a CS rule about flooding the forums. When you continue to create multiple new threads every day, you are blocking others' threads by burying them. Maybe be more cognizant of that?
smiley963OPJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa3,651 posts
Kaybee50: First, good morning to you.
No one has promised us a pot of gold, and some of us don't look for the bigger and better rainbow. There is peace and contentment in coming to the point in life and self-awareness, that what we have and cherish right not is enough. Our happiness is a state of mind and is up to each of us to nurture that.
I do hope you will accept this next comment in the spirit intended: There is a CS rule about flooding the forums. When you continue to create multiple new threads every day, you are blocking others' threads by burying them. Maybe be more cognizant of that?
Good Evening Kaybee:- Since I have joined in December, I have generally created 1 to 5 threads a day, generally after hours, now. I have Never been accused by flooding the threads and blocking others... Your attitude just changed from day to night, towards me...not funny... Does make me wonder, for the sudden change... Honesty IS my policy... If my honesty cannot be seen, it's because there is no want to... Because I differ in thinking to you, it does not make me wrong by a long shot...
smiley963: Good Evening Kaybee:- Since I have joined in December, I have generally created 1 to 5 threads a day, generally after hours, now. I have Never been accused by flooding the threads and blocking others... Your attitude just changed from day to night, towards me...not funny... Does make me wonder, for the sudden change... Honesty IS my policy... If my honesty cannot be seen, it's because there is no want to... Because I differ in thinking to you, it does not make me wrong by a long shot...
My attitude hasn't changed. Because I express a view that you may not agree with, does not make me your enemy. One thread a day, ok. More than that? It's flooding the forums. When you flood the forums, it causes others' threads to become buried and not seen. This action prevents the forums from being diverse, with many different flavors to choose from. Thus, the forums will slowly die due to the lack of diversity.
wonlongpongSunderland, Tyne and Wear, England UK486 posts
Kaybee50: My attitude hasn't changed. Because I express a view that you may not agree with, does not make me your enemy. One thread a day, ok. More than that? It's flooding the forums. When you flood the forums, it causes others' threads to become buried and not seen. This action prevents the forums from being diverse, with many different flavors to choose from. Thus, the forums will slowly die due to the lack of diversity.
smiley963OPJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa3,651 posts
Kaybee50: My attitude hasn't changed. Because I express a view that you may not agree with, does not make me your enemy. One thread a day, ok. More than that? It's flooding the forums. When you flood the forums, it causes others' threads to become buried and not seen. This action prevents the forums from being diverse, with many different flavors to choose from. Thus, the forums will slowly die due to the lack of diversity.
Flooding the forums with threads day after day against the wishes of the majority shows either an obsessional character, narcissistic tendencies, or a degree of immaturity. Or all three. A break would be nice.
smiley963OPJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa3,651 posts
Kaybee50: Smiley, I am a member who can clearly see what is happening here and have extended a kind word to you.
Please consider what I have shared with you so that this experience can be a positive one for all of us here at CS.
Kaybee, You have just allocated Moderator status to yourself... I cannot see where do you allocate yourself the right from, to force me to do this? Which you are trying very hard to accomplish...
Get a Moderator, to tell me what I have done wrong, and I will do it then...
smiley963: Kaybee, You have just allocated Moderator status to yourself... I cannot see where do you allocate yourself the right from, to force me to do this? Which you are trying very hard to accomplish...
Get a Moderator, to tell me what I have done wrong, and I will do it then...
smiley963: Kaybee, You have just allocated Moderator status to yourself... I cannot see where do you allocate yourself the right from, to force me to do this? Which you are trying very hard to accomplish...
Get a Moderator, to tell me what I have done wrong, and I will do it then...
I am a site member who can read the rules, and by doing so, remain respectful of other members.
CS rule #13: No flooding. This causes other threads of members to sink down the lists and get missed by readers. Be considerate, use common sense and enter a reasonable number of threads per day.
smiley963OPJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa3,651 posts
Kaybee50: I am a site member who can read the rules, and by doing so, remain respectful of other members.
CS rule #13: No flooding. This causes other threads of members to sink down the lists and get missed by readers. Be considerate, use common sense and enter a reasonable number of threads per day.
And YOU decide it is flooding? Well I don't agree with You, at all...
Kaybee50: My attitude hasn't changed. Because I express a view that you may not agree with, does not make me your enemy. One thread a day, ok. More than that? It's flooding the forums. When you flood the forums, it causes others' threads to become buried and not seen. This action prevents the forums from being diverse, with many different flavors to choose from. Thus, the forums will slowly die due to the lack of diversity.
IMO its noting to do with making loads of threads a day..! we all have a choice to make a post in which thread we fancy too..........
pedro27: IMO its noting to do with making loads of threads a day..! we all have a choice to make a post in which thread we fancy too..........
Agree. The people who complain the most and with the most personal attacks should help effect the change they feel necessary by posting threads of their own.
wonlongpongSunderland, Tyne and Wear, England UK486 posts
LucyMaud: Agree. The people who complain the most and with the most personal attacks should help effect the change they feel necessary by posting threads of their own.
So they can be bumped down into oblivion by the two nutters?
wonlongpong: So they can be bumped down into oblivion by the two nutters?
If you'd stop and actually think for half a second, you'd understand that the more people who post threads, the more diversity. Pedro and Smiley don't post an excessive number of threads. It's "people" like you who feel the need to post on their threads who actually bump them to the top.
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I have just experienced this, to it doesn't need repetition...
We are always looking for the bigger and better rainbow...
Where is that pot of gold that you were promised?
Are we really that gullible...?
When we have experienced Love:-
We either believe it will be bigger and better...
or it won't happen again at all...