Do you really know what you want? ( Archived) (26)

Jun 22, 2019 1:48 PM CST Do you really know what you want?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
Have you been totally honest with yourself what you actually want from life...?
Recently I was shocked to discover that I've been shunning what I really want the most...
But even more shocked to find out my best friends were not surprised to hear what it was...
Do we sabotage ourselves unconsciously ?
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Jun 22, 2019 1:51 PM CST Do you really know what you want?
mikey4691
mikey4691mikey4691Knoxville, Tennessee USA8 Threads 6,868 Posts
pKrema: Have you been totally honest with yourself what you actually want from life...?
Recently I was shocked to discover that I've been shunning what I really want the most...
But even more shocked to find out my best friends were not surprised to hear what it was...
Do we sabotage ourselves unconsciously ?
What were you shunning??
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Jun 22, 2019 1:54 PM CST Do you really know what you want?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
pKrema: Have you been totally honest with yourself what you actually want from life...?
Recently I was shocked to discover that I've been shunning what I really want the most...
But even more shocked to find out my best friends were not surprised to hear what it was...
Do we sabotage ourselves unconsciously ?
We tend to allow into our conscious, what our mental health can handle, else it's just denial to everyone mentioning it...
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Jun 22, 2019 1:58 PM CST Do you really know what you want?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
mikey4691: What were you shunning??
Let say it is something that puts me in a more "ordinary" position...from the one I am in now...status and ambition wise...
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Jun 22, 2019 2:01 PM CST Do you really know what you want?
I'm still not sure what I want but have a good idea of what I don't want.
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Jun 22, 2019 2:02 PM CST Do you really know what you want?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
smiley963: We tend to allow into our conscious, what our mental health can handle, else it's just denial to everyone mentioning it...
I know that we live using 95 % of our unconscious mind, meaning we rarely make everyday decisions consciously...
Living by the power of paradigms ...it is kind of scary...
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Jun 22, 2019 2:04 PM CST Do you really know what you want?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
Track16: I'm still not sure what I want but have a good idea of what I don't want.
That's pretty bad Track...
You have to turn that around...
If you don't have a clear idea of what you want how you gonna achieve it and be truly happy?!
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Jun 22, 2019 2:59 PM CST Do you really know what you want?
Stan_147
Stan_147Stan_147Roseburg, Oregon USA1 Threads 1,018 Posts
46 and 2
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Jun 22, 2019 7:10 PM CST Do you really know what you want?
deedee123xo
deedee123xodeedee123xoLimerick, Ireland15 Threads 3,538 Posts
pKrema: Have you been totally honest with yourself what you actually want from life...?
Recently I was shocked to discover that I've been shunning what I really want the most...
But even more shocked to find out my best friends were not surprised to hear what it was...
Do we sabotage ourselves unconsciously ?
You can know what you want as much as you want, until that day you meet someone or have a chance encounter and it flips your world upside down....i live for those days.
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Jun 22, 2019 8:19 PM CST Do you really know what you want?
raphael119
raphael119raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA19 Threads 3 Polls 5,181 Posts
deedee123xo: You can know what you want as much as you want, until that day you meet someone or have a chance encounter and it flips your world upside down....i live for those days.
I want a heine !peace banana devil devil
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Jun 23, 2019 9:35 AM CST Do you really know what you want?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
deedee123xo: You can know what you want as much as you want, until that day you meet someone or have a chance encounter and it flips your world upside down....i live for those days.
Chance encounters are not suppose to influence you that easily...not when you know what you really want...
They usually provoke impulsive decisions, mostly regrettable after a while...
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Jun 23, 2019 9:37 AM CST Do you really know what you want?
Being too stringent in your absolutes, you'll be spending a lot of nights at home alone.
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Jun 23, 2019 10:17 AM CST Do you really know what you want?
LucyMaud
LucyMaudLucyMaudunknown, Alberta Canada153 Posts
pKrema: Have you been totally honest with yourself what you actually want from life...?
Recently I was shocked to discover that I've been shunning what I really want the most...
But even more shocked to find out my best friends were not surprised to hear what it was...
Do we sabotage ourselves unconsciously ?
I think what we want from life changes as we grow within ourselves and as we mature. In the last year I discovered a new path that had absolutely never even occurred to me. It's exciting and terrifying at the same time. Yes I think we do sabotage ourselves consciously and unconsciously. A lot has to do with how we see ourselves, and sometimes it's just that we're in a rut. Very interesting topic!
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Jun 23, 2019 11:54 AM CST Do you really know what you want?
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
It does not matter what we did or wanted in our life in the past because all we can change is tomorrow as what really matters is what we want to do today for tomorrow.

life can questions us back into living. I know what I don't want and what I want in life.
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Jun 23, 2019 12:08 PM CST Do you really know what you want?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
Bogart_1960: It does not matter what we did or wanted in our life in the past because all we can change is tomorrow as what really matters is what we want to do today for tomorrow.

life can questions us back into living. I know what I don't want and what I want in life.
Of course it matters what we did and wanted in the past...
It's all part of our realisation later...if one ever comes...
Everything from your past is part of you...
If you are only certain in what you don't want then you are in a static state...
Concentrating on what you want makes the motion...
JMO
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Jun 23, 2019 12:10 PM CST Do you really know what you want?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
LucyMaud: I think what we want from life changes as we grow within ourselves and as we mature. In the last year I discovered a new path that had absolutely never even occurred to me. It's exciting and terrifying at the same time. Yes I think we do sabotage ourselves consciously and unconsciously. A lot has to do with how we see ourselves, and sometimes it's just that we're in a rut. Very interesting topic!
Agreed wine
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Jun 23, 2019 12:36 PM CST Do you really know what you want?
MisterForYou
MisterForYouMisterForYouValletta, Majjistral Malta87 Threads 16 Polls 962 Posts
Do I really know what I want? - No
Am I worried about this? - No
Should I be worried about this? - No
Will I die tomorrow? - No
Are you worried the sun won't rise? - No
Can you change the course of destiny? - No
Do you want another slice of pizza? - Yes

laugh pizza
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Jun 23, 2019 1:11 PM CST Do you really know what you want?
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
pKrema: Of course it matters what we did and wanted in the past...
It's all part of our realisation later...if one ever comes...
Everything from your past is part of you...
If you are only certain in what you don't want then you are in a static state...
Concentrating on what you want makes the motion...
JMO
I agree with what you say. In fact, it does not conflict with my statement.

Past is ours and we can not change it; but we can learn from our experience and change the route of our journey, and not repeating the same mistakes. Our actions today can reflect in what we can change for tomorrow.

By knowing what I don't want makes me more aware of what I want, as I dont have to deal with the negativeness of those "not wanting": It allows me to concentrating in what I want.

I know what I want.always. wave
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Jun 23, 2019 1:23 PM CST Do you really know what you want?
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
wear sunscreen



when you get the choice to sit it out or dance, choose dance.wine
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Jun 23, 2019 1:28 PM CST Do you really know what you want?
PeKaatje
PeKaatjePeKaatjeAnkeveen, North Holland Netherlands59 Threads 3 Polls 6,334 Posts
Yes, I know what I want.
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