Settling For Second Bests? ( Archived) (119)

Oct 8, 2019 1:48 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
longterm182: I've been happier with second best options
Hola amigo wave

Sorry I didn't see your comment.

How do you know she was second best? You mean she wasn't your "ideal" woman?
Until you have comparisons you won't know really? Will you?
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Oct 8, 2019 1:55 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
daniela777: Hola amigo

Sorry I didn't see your comment.

How do you know she was second best? You mean she wasn't your "ideal" woman?
Until you have comparisons you won't know really? Will you?
Maybe she had a sister who was better than her, maybe this sister was the ideal?
laugh
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Oct 8, 2019 1:55 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
daniela777: Hola amigo

Sorry I didn't see your comment.

How do you know she was second best? You mean she wasn't your "ideal" woman?
Until you have comparisons you won't know really? Will you?
So how many comparisons might the average person need to play with before settling for first best confused
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Oct 8, 2019 1:57 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
snowlynx: Maybe she had a sister who was better than her, maybe this sister was the ideal?
I always seemed to end up with the ugly sisterfrustrated
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Oct 8, 2019 2:03 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
michaelright: So how many comparisons might the average person need to play with before settling for first best
Hiya M...where have you been?

Sorry..I can't really answer your question as I don't make comparisons!
Everybody has their own uniqueness. wink
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Oct 8, 2019 2:04 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
michaelright: I always seemed to end up with the ugly sister
comfort hug
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Oct 8, 2019 2:07 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
snowlynx: Maybe she had a sister who was better than her, maybe this sister was the ideal?
Could be but...this doesn't mean HE was ideal for her? dunno

It takes two to tango!
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Oct 8, 2019 2:07 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
daniela777: Hiya M...where have you been?

Sorry..I can't really answer your question as I don't make comparisons!
Everybody has their own uniqueness.
I've just got a brand new shiny passport so off to NY on Monday...dancing
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Oct 8, 2019 2:12 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
michaelright: I've just got a brand new shiny passport so off to NY on Monday...
wow and what about Spain?

How long will be there for ?
Make sure you take your snow boots!
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Oct 8, 2019 2:19 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
michaelright: I always seemed to end up with the ugly sister
I hear you brother.....
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Oct 8, 2019 2:26 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
snowlynx: I hear you brother.....
It looks as if all the Irish people have gathered here tonight..

Here's to all of you


teddybear teddybear teddybear
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Oct 8, 2019 2:29 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
Hang on We need Pedro..
Where is Pedro?
Probably on the blogs? uh oh
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Oct 8, 2019 2:34 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Maybe these questions have been asked but what is ‘second best’ and what is yours or anyone’s standard reference for measuring that.

dunno


wave
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Oct 8, 2019 2:35 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
michaelright: I've just got a brand new shiny passport so off to NY on Monday...
Watch out for gypsy gangs while there
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Oct 8, 2019 2:46 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
galrads: Watch out for gypsy gangs while there
staying with my brother on long Island only for one week . That'll do.but I want to have another peep at Lucy.
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Oct 8, 2019 2:48 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
galrads: Maybe these questions have been asked but what is ‘second best’ and what is yours or anyone’s standard reference for measuring that.
Hi Gal..up to you to decide? dunno

For me it means it might not be my first choice?
E.g. if I want to buy some red shoes and I can't find any then I'll settle for another colour?

But...I won't! I'll just keep on searching or...maybe I'll find them when I'm not searching.dunno
Maybe I'll just see them one day at some unexpected moment?wink
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Oct 8, 2019 2:51 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
michaelright: staying with my brother on long Island only for one week . That'll do.but I want to have another peep at Lucy.
Lucy? Who is she? Your second best..or your first?wink
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Oct 8, 2019 2:51 PM CST Settling For Second Bests?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
daniela777: Are you struggling to find the right partner?
Nope, those struggling days are long over simply because it was too much of a struggle and heartaches. wave
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Oct 9, 2019 7:43 AM CST Settling For Second Bests?
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
2intrigued: Nope, those struggling days are long over simply because it was too much of a struggle and heartaches.
I understand the feeling! bouquet
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