I just wished that I was good at talking with women. I don't know what to say to get someone to message me back. I usually tell her I think that she is pretty and ask if she wants to talk with me. Most of the time they don't message me back. What should I do to impress women?
slouchypaul: I just wished that I was good at talking with women. I don't know what to say to get someone to message me back. I usually tell her I think that she is pretty and ask if she wants to talk with me. Most of the time they don't message me back. What should I do to impress women?
Perhaps you are talking to the wrong women. In your profile where the section About Me is, this is what you wrote:
"I like playing video game, cleaning the house, camping, and drinking beer."
There's nothing wrong with what you like to do. The key is to talk to someone who likes to do the same things you like to do.
Buy a magazine or go online for advertisements about camping trips.
Involve yourself with groups of men and women who like to play video games.
As far as the drinking beer, a lot of men and women like to drink beer. Just don't overdo that.
Definitely keep cleaning the house. Some women out there would love that.
Aug 12, 2019 7:10 AM CST What is the best thing to do to get a woman to like me?
honeybee1960Rotorua, Bay of Plenty New Zealand2 Posts
honeybee1960Rotorua, Bay of Plenty New Zealand2 posts
Hey there... Firstly try not say u look pretty etc etc Because it sounds rather creepy. Women get put off.and won't trip is back.... Have open questions not close ones.. And may be...change yr profile a bit Good luck Cheers md
slouchypaul: I just wished that I was good at talking with women. I don't know what to say to get someone to message me back. I usually tell her I think that she is pretty and ask if she wants to talk with me. Most of the time they don't message me back. What should I do to impress women?
slouchypaul: I just wished that I was good at talking with women. I don't know what to say to get someone to message me back. I usually tell her I think that she is pretty and ask if she wants to talk with me. Most of the time they don't message me back. What should I do to impress women?
.,.....try. Wearing.....,.as pisspot. On. Your head...
slouchypaul: I just wished that I was good at talking with women. I don't know what to say to get someone to message me back. I usually tell her I think that she is pretty and ask if she wants to talk with me. Most of the time they don't message me back. What should I do to impress women?
You don't care about losing the upfront investment because you're loaded.
That's the character. On the one hand you're putting in more effort than she puts into you(especially early on), but it doesnt matter if you don't get paid because you have plenty of reserves already. You have plenty of other women. Singledom is the context where man must be more interesting than woman, pay better attention than the woman but all this giving is not a reason to feel poor or to feel that she owes you something - even though it is one-sided and you are paying.
Sit up straight is a timeless one. Doesn't matter what time in the evening it is or which face of your personality you are showing there are some constants in the variety of contrast women love, good posture is one of them. Although in reality you could be a starving artist, not looking or feeling like a poor person is key. The reality that you are poor wouldn't matter until it comes to marriage. You're more of a somebody than her no matter the money.
It's some rich, some poor. Although you're the bigger personality you are not the main focus of attention. From the poor you take a bit of rough with the masculine ideal that you are expendable without beggars can't be choosers, and from the rich you take importance and indifference the turning of the tables and the feminine side. A willingness to stick your neck out and parry the blows(taken from the poor)combined with higher standards without the being so easily upset. You need to be choosy, but unlike the choosy so often are you must be able to cope with circumstance you didn't choose.
A quality that looks like confidence, but functions more like courage. Contrary to appearances you are making an effort we must not equate effortlessness with making no effort. True confidence won't do what needs to be done. She likes to see you squirm a little most women are not as pro-psychopath as they sound, they like to have at least some influence over you. Find that happy medium between trying too hard and being completely unattainable.
And remember it doesn’t matter how short or bald you are or how one-sided and frankly rigged the early stages of dating a woman is, the line is it’s not ideal.
You could be hiv+ and crippled from the neck down, the line is it’s not ideal.
Don’t whine about your personal problems. You can moan about the world in an abstract sense - and I strongly suggest the blame for things falls on neither you nor her but on something immaterial like the ether. The ether is to blame - but you can’t whine about your personal problems. The traditional guys guy beats the modern man here.
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