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Jan 11, 2007 3:44 PM CST the connection
joeslick
joeslickjoeslickalbion, Michigan USA23 Threads 189 Posts
what i am looking for is someone to light that same candle that burned when i met my ex.i knew she was the one for me .unfortunatly only one candle got lit
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Jan 11, 2007 4:50 PM CST the connection
um... How long have you been here?


What else besides a candle does she have to have?kiss
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Jan 11, 2007 5:22 PM CST the connection
joeslick
joeslickjoeslickalbion, Michigan USA23 Threads 189 Posts
poor choice of words i guess. what i meant was it was a gut feeling that i needed to be with this girl
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Jan 11, 2007 11:31 PM CST the connection
Sunrise
SunriseSunriseLebanon, Oregon USA14 Threads 224 Posts
I think and you might not like it but if you are looking for someone to light the candle someone else has already lit then you have not blown out the first one and are not ready to lit a different candle. And trying to compare another person to the one you are trying to replace is not fair to her or you because it will never be the same. I think you have to be willing to remember the love you had but not let it influence the next one. It isn't fair keep living with what if's and if only. You can only live in the moment. And the only thing you can control is the present moment.hug
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Jan 11, 2007 11:34 PM CST the connection
wwry13
wwry13wwry13newton, Iowa USA44 Threads 568 Posts
some people think you can feel a connection after 5 minutes of meeting or after 1 date. how is that so? confused
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Jan 11, 2007 11:37 PM CST the connection
LonelyInBC31
LonelyInBC31LonelyInBC31Battle Creek, Michigan USA199 Threads 1 Polls 2,760 Posts
Hello Mr.Michigander! Good luck with your search!!
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Jan 11, 2007 11:37 PM CST the connection
Sunrise
SunriseSunriseLebanon, Oregon USA14 Threads 224 Posts
I have had long term friendships that I felt instantly connected to. It is unreal when it happens and beautiful. I think our hearts can sometimes tell when there is someone special in your presense.
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Jan 11, 2007 11:38 PM CST the connection
wwry13
wwry13wwry13newton, Iowa USA44 Threads 568 Posts
so have i. but would you only have one date cuz you dont feel that way after one date? in my honest oppion 1st dates dont really count when people are nervous.
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Jan 11, 2007 11:43 PM CST the connection
Sunrise
SunriseSunriseLebanon, Oregon USA14 Threads 224 Posts
I was pretty young and had relationships with them for a very long time. I am not sure about the now thing am still waiting for a second date with someone.

As for other types of relationships I think you can have a connection with another person that can be instant and very meaningful.
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Jan 11, 2007 11:46 PM CST the connection
cardsfan23
cardsfan23cardsfan23somewhere, USA23 Threads 4,228 Posts
well man good luck to ya but im telling you that some women here are kinda bad..so watch outdrinking
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Jan 12, 2007 12:27 AM CST the connection
Frenchgirl2know
Frenchgirl2knowFrenchgirl2knowChicago, USA29 Threads 2,548 Posts
Go and join Mr abc55 petition...rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 12, 2007 12:51 AM CST the connection
ladydancerdivine
ladydancerdivineladydancerdivinejackson, Ohio USA19 Threads 256 Posts
it can happen though, it seems impossible, but i do believe in love at first sight... and sometimes if you have a long enough date, the nerves melt away.... maybe you need to experience something new
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Jan 12, 2007 1:42 AM CST the connection
Lionhearted1967
Lionhearted1967Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts
True!
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Jan 12, 2007 1:43 AM CST the connection
Lionhearted1967
Lionhearted1967Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts
Most definately!
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Jan 12, 2007 1:47 AM CST the connection
adj4u
adj4uadj4unorth central, USA4,943 Posts
sorry to hear ya only have one candle

time to disgaurd that candle and get a new one

not many want to play on a burnt candle

when you get a new one you will be ready to moveon till then

yer x is still controlling part of you


just a thought but what do i know



cheers
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Jan 12, 2007 5:11 AM CST the connection
dancingfarmer
dancingfarmerdancingfarmerColumbia, Connecticut USA41 Threads 752 Posts
He doesn't need another candle, just someone to light the one that went out. Joe wants to feel the kind of love that Kirtie Allie talks about in the movie "It takes Two" where she says its the "can't eat, can't sleep, home run hit out of the ballpark kind of feeling."

Unfortunately, we never how when that kind of feeling will appear. For some it never does, for others, several times in a lifetime. Another thread says 3 times.

Wishing you happy feelings during your wait for your love....Nancy
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