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I think a key to any relationship is to actually enjoy being with the person then let the chips fall where they may...
Simple, yes?
Simple, yes?
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Cranky_Geezer: I think a key to any relationship is to actually enjoy being with the person then let the chips fall where they may...
Simple, yes?
Yes, sounds simple doesn't itSimple, yes?
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I am happy now - not when. searching/wanting a partner does not define my life at all.
"Drive and test- only cars.". not all.
"Drive and test- only cars.". not all.
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Bogart_1960: I am happy now - not when. searching/wanting a partner does not define my life at all.
"Drive and test- only cars.". not all.
I'm an old fashioned romantic bogi"Drive and test- only cars.". not all.
Was watching my aunt and uncle the other day, they are in the 60s now. They are as much in love now and still flirt and laugh together the exact same way as when I was 5.
I would love that in my life someday
Real, genuine
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irish78eyes: "Pick someone you " like" and see where it goes"
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Listening to "laws of attraction" today.
Her advice on relationships working out was
Pick someone you like and see how it goes!
To stop expecting, conditioning, and just "see how it goes". That almost all relationships work out when we stop expecting
Got me thinking....do we in relationships think "I'll be happy when..."
And not
"Just be"
What you guys think!?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?
Are we all conditioned
We do tend to complicate things by over-thinking and making plans.pppppppppppppppppppppppppppppp
Listening to "laws of attraction" today.
Her advice on relationships working out was
Pick someone you like and see how it goes!
To stop expecting, conditioning, and just "see how it goes". That almost all relationships work out when we stop expecting
Got me thinking....do we in relationships think "I'll be happy when..."
And not
"Just be"
What you guys think!?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?
Are we all conditioned
Women are definitely more guilty of that than men
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irish78eyes: I'm an old fashioned romantic bogi
Was watching my aunt and uncle the other day, they are in the 60s now. They are as much in love now and still flirt and laugh together the exact same way as when I was 5.
I would love that in my life someday
Real, genuine
that´s how/what we all want; only a few do have the opportunity to live it. I am sure you will find yours. Was watching my aunt and uncle the other day, they are in the 60s now. They are as much in love now and still flirt and laugh together the exact same way as when I was 5.
I would love that in my life someday
Real, genuine
stay that way, "old fashioned romantic "- its good for the soul/mind/body. . and its rare.
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mollybaby: We do tend to complicate things by over-thinking and making plans.
Women are definitely more guilty of that than men
I don't blame women, the mind wants and learns from conditions, male or female!Women are definitely more guilty of that than men
To just be in the moment more and allowing things to happen, let go realy
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I think A lot of People build up walls around themselves that may block their own chances of Meeting a proper Mate...Two People may get along very well on CS, be quite attracted to each other as well... Tho as you see their Profile that may say NO SMOKERS as an example.. Or within 50 Miles...Age Requirements between 50-55
and you are older or Younger...you fall in a Red Zone...Some may be slightly flexible, Some have it set in stone ( within themselves)Some may be looking for a taller Man than Her.... If You are shorter than Her...She may have it stuck in Her Head, That is not what I am looking for...Bottom line is encapsulating Thyself from Meet a Super Great Guy because of His or Her Barriers... I have seen this many times...Some step outside of their comfort zone...Test it and go Backwards...
Just My thoughts... Some are Conditioned, Some are Not...
and you are older or Younger...you fall in a Red Zone...Some may be slightly flexible, Some have it set in stone ( within themselves)Some may be looking for a taller Man than Her.... If You are shorter than Her...She may have it stuck in Her Head, That is not what I am looking for...Bottom line is encapsulating Thyself from Meet a Super Great Guy because of His or Her Barriers... I have seen this many times...Some step outside of their comfort zone...Test it and go Backwards...
Just My thoughts... Some are Conditioned, Some are Not...
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irish78eyes: I don't blame women, the mind wants and learns from conditions, male or female!
To just be in the moment more and allowing things to happen, let go realy
I get what you are saying, but that is often easier to say than to do.To just be in the moment more and allowing things to happen, let go realy
For example, if you lived in the moment, then your rule would not be your rule anymore, you'd just be living in the moment.
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Allowing an element of synchronicity into your life can certainly open up doors of opportunity.
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mollybaby: I get what you are saying, but that is often easier to say than to do.
For example, if you lived in the moment, then your rule would not be your rule anymore, you'd just be living in the moment.
Mmm your right, but I mean after the 3month thingFor example, if you lived in the moment, then your rule would not be your rule anymore, you'd just be living in the moment.
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HotrodLarrys: I think A lot of People build up walls around themselves that may block their own chances of Meeting a proper Mate...Two People may get along very well on CS, be quite attracted to each other as well... Tho as you see their Profile that may say NO SMOKERS as an example.. Or within 50 Miles...Age Requirements between 50-55
and you are older or Younger...you fall in a Red Zone...Some may be slightly flexible, Some have it set in stone ( within themselves)Some may be looking for a taller Man than Her.... If You are shorter than Her...She may have it stuck in Her Head, That is not what I am looking for...Bottom line is encapsulating Thyself from Meet a Super Great Guy because of His or Her Barriers... I have seen this many times...Some step outside of their comfort zone...Test it and go Backwards...
Just My thoughts... Some are Conditioned, Some are Not...
That's very trueand you are older or Younger...you fall in a Red Zone...Some may be slightly flexible, Some have it set in stone ( within themselves)Some may be looking for a taller Man than Her.... If You are shorter than Her...She may have it stuck in Her Head, That is not what I am looking for...Bottom line is encapsulating Thyself from Meet a Super Great Guy because of His or Her Barriers... I have seen this many times...Some step outside of their comfort zone...Test it and go Backwards...
Just My thoughts... Some are Conditioned, Some are Not...
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irish78eyes: Mmm your right, but I mean after the 3month thing
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bodleing2: Allowing an element of synchronicity into your life can certainly open up doors of opportunity.
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mollybaby: So you always live in the moment...A moment 3 months in the future
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irish78eyes: Pick someone you like and see how it goes!
To stop expecting, conditioning, and just "see how it goes". That almost all relationships work out when we stop expecting
Got me thinking....do we in relationships think "I'll be happy when..."
And not
"Just be"
What you guys think!?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?
Are we all conditioned
I don't think you can change people. If there are characteristics in a person I couldn't live with, I wouldn't expect them to change, I just would give them a pass.To stop expecting, conditioning, and just "see how it goes". That almost all relationships work out when we stop expecting
Got me thinking....do we in relationships think "I'll be happy when..."
And not
"Just be"
What you guys think!?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?
Are we all conditioned
I don't have major expectations, but I do expect honesty and that is something that isn't always a given.
I think it is important to give someone a chance to get to know them. Getting to know someone means for me to establish if I would want to start a relationship with them but not jump into bed straight away.
I'm not a "see how it goes person", I want to get an idea where things go before I get involved or get naked.
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irish78eyes: Up for discussion maybe
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mollybaby: I think we should leave everything up for discussion
OmgNot everything
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irish78eyes: That's very true
Thank You irish....It may be a lot to absorb on a quick glance....But I have seen how that stuff can Bite Back...
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Listening to "laws of attraction" today.
Her advice on relationships working out was
Pick someone you like and see how it goes!
To stop expecting, conditioning, and just "see how it goes". That almost all relationships work out when we stop expecting
Got me thinking....do we in relationships think "I'll be happy when..."
And not
"Just be"
What you guys think!?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?
Are we all conditioned