why when you say your feelings to a lady or viseversa u get hurt? (35)
charliez26Sebring, Florida USA26 Threads 627 Posts
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when you talk to her again ask her to chisel some ice off her heart my drink is getting warm 
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if you get your feelings hurt she wasnt worth it . if they care about you they would love to here how you feel . so i geuss it shows you what kind of person they really are . you didnt need them anyways.
just my thought
duce
just my thought
duce
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DUCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
lol....dammit all it means is that he had expectations of how she should respond and she didn't !!! whoever she is ...she is worth as much as anyone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
lol....dammit all it means is that he had expectations of how she should respond and she didn't !!! whoever she is ...she is worth as much as anyone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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ok ok mabe she is ill give you this one now are you calling me out lmfao
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ok how about this maybe he sould ask how she feels before he tells her how he feels
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Makes perfect sense to me...
It's good to take a chance and let the other person know how you feel and visa versa. It might not be what you want to hear but at least then you'll know.
It's good to take a chance and let the other person know how you feel and visa versa. It might not be what you want to hear but at least then you'll know.
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lol..... that works for me!!!
duce lemme tell ya about compassion...... it is not empathy, it is not sympathy.
it is not feeling bad for someone.....compassion is about offerig someone a way out of the negative process they are in....first of all sometimes these negative processes are VERY VALUABLE...and the person needs to be in it...to learn something... true compassion offers a way thru it but it is up to the person to grab the bull by the horns and do DO the work.
when we coddle someone with hurt feelings we are only supporting their weakness, when we offer them a perspective that is useful we are supporting their strength compassionately...
ok done...lo
duce lemme tell ya about compassion...... it is not empathy, it is not sympathy.
it is not feeling bad for someone.....compassion is about offerig someone a way out of the negative process they are in....first of all sometimes these negative processes are VERY VALUABLE...and the person needs to be in it...to learn something... true compassion offers a way thru it but it is up to the person to grab the bull by the horns and do DO the work.
when we coddle someone with hurt feelings we are only supporting their weakness, when we offer them a perspective that is useful we are supporting their strength compassionately...
ok done...lo
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I'll buy that!!..
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That would be a safe approach to try to protect yourself from being rejected. I think many times people see that as a sign of insecurity?
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Maybe it's best just not asking and go with the flow....When it needs to come out it will be natural then??...
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i wasnt giving sympathy just saying to man up and move on if her feelings arent the same as his and keep looking . he will find the one out there that wont run for when he tells them how he feels fair enuff there doc lol
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You have to take a chance to get a chance. Maybe you go in expecting to get hurt? Self fulfilling prophecy is a strong and real entity in itself. It seriously diverts spontaneous outcomes.
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Most of us tend to get overly confident and take a "Woman being nice" as "A woman wants me", as men. Again, with expectations (As I say many times before) will get you nowhere. No one will get hurt (Or atleast as bad) if you go without expectations. You can't put all your eggs in one basket. I dunno why we (Men) are raised in such a feminine way, that we fear to hear the word "No". But this has got to change. That is the worst that can happen, all things that follow after the word "No" is an issue that only you can overcome, or learn to live with. I say this only to provide the best advice, as I have made these mistakes before.
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you spoke your heart and someone always has to be first with this kinda thing.
your expectations of the response could've been to high, or you could have played that card too soon in the game. (damn I said game).
this is common to have this happen....We claim our attraction is more then just "freinds" more than just "phyiscal" we want to take it to the next level "another game term" .
however the party we said this too just does not feel your words in your actions.
the romance of the chase.... one day you the offense next day your defense.... prey or predator. give her a chance your admssion could have been surprising.
your expectations of the response could've been to high, or you could have played that card too soon in the game. (damn I said game).
this is common to have this happen....We claim our attraction is more then just "freinds" more than just "phyiscal" we want to take it to the next level "another game term" .
however the party we said this too just does not feel your words in your actions.
the romance of the chase.... one day you the offense next day your defense.... prey or predator. give her a chance your admssion could have been surprising.
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cauze sometimes we are expecting certain answers ... when those answers are different we are getting upset and such.
Ego it is, plain and simple
Think negative and you will get positive.( translation: always be prepared for the worst)
I know it is sound strange
Ego it is, plain and simple
Think negative and you will get positive.( translation: always be prepared for the worst)
I know it is sound strange
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Maybe you were moving too fast?? I dunno. How long have you known her?
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