My Own Fault (31)
philmasterWahiawa, Hawaii USA33 Threads 16 Polls 131 PostsI've had a nostalgic feeling lately. Been nostalgic thinking about high school. It reminded me of the romantic feelings I had for one of my classmates. I have to admit, thanks to my stupidity, I never told her. Now, she's married with two kids. Oh well, like the title says, its my own fault. 
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Hopefully you will find someone to help complete your life, You're still young enough that you stand a good chance of finding one that will make you just as happy...
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HotrodLarrys: Hopefully you will find someone to help complete your life, You're still young enough that you stand a good chance of finding one that will make you just as happy...
I guess we'll see right?------ This thread is Archived ------
philmaster: I guess we'll see right?
I read your profile, You said you were about to get done with your College. Is their no Ladies there that you can connect with? That would be Awesome, because they would be right in your vicinity, Just something to consider...
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Everything is as it should be ...
How do you know?
Because if things should be different, they would be!
Take your realisations as a way of showing you how you wish to handle things differently if similar opportunity arose. The awareness serves us to be prepared rather than sad!
How do you know?
Because if things should be different, they would be!
Take your realisations as a way of showing you how you wish to handle things differently if similar opportunity arose. The awareness serves us to be prepared rather than sad!
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HotrodLarrys: I read your profile, You said you were about to get done with your College. Is their no Ladies there that you can connect with? That would be Awesome, because they would be right in your vicinity, Just something to consider...
Well, I think I've said this before, but I have the worst luck with women. It seems like the only ones who'll talk to me are already married. Plus, I've come to realize that college is not the best place to even develop friendships. I guess it could depend on the people. Experiences are different for everybody. 
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philmaster: Well, I think I've said this before, but I have the worst luck with women. It seems like the only ones who'll talk to me are already married. Plus, I've come to realize that college is not the best place to even develop friendships. I guess it could depend on the people. Experiences are different for everybody.
College is a great place to meet people!Get involved on clubs and societies.
There is often one especially for mature students as well.
Sport, as well as other activities, brings people together as they share a common bond and interest.
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philmaster: I have to admit, thanks to my stupidity, I never told her. Now, she's married with two kids. Oh well, like the title says, its my own fault.
Don't waste your time dwelling on it. Your profile says you are only 37. That's no age at all; you've still got plenty of time left to make loads more mistakes. 
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Oh wouldn't I love to be back at college
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philmaster: Well, I think I've said this before, but I have the worst luck with women. It seems like the only ones who'll talk to me are already married. Plus, I've come to realize that college is not the best place to even develop friendships. I guess it could depend on the people. Experiences are different for everybody.
We tend to make our own "luck." You seem defeated and lacking in confidence. Neither of these qualities are attractive to single women. Time for a change in lifestyle? Find something that will change your outlook into a more positive one and perhaps your "luck" will change.------ This thread is Archived ------
mollybaby: College is a great place to meet people!
Get involved on clubs and societies.
There is often one especially for mature students as well.
Sport, as well as other activities, brings people together as they share a common bond and interest.
Already checked on the clubs. There are no clubs that I'm interested in. Its my last semester anyway, there is no point.Get involved on clubs and societies.
There is often one especially for mature students as well.
Sport, as well as other activities, brings people together as they share a common bond and interest.
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philmaster: Already checked on the clubs. There are no clubs that I'm interested in. Its my last semester anyway, there is no point.
Your choice 
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philmaster: Already checked on the clubs. There are no clubs that I'm interested in. Its my last semester anyway, there is no point.
Are you interested in going to a gym to work out? You'll not only work your body but also your brain which will give you confidence that you are a worthwhile person. You don't need to be a body builder just use it as an activity to improve your attitude and create self-esteem.------ This thread is Archived ------
secretagent09: Are you interested in going to a gym to work out? You'll not only work your body but also your brain which will give you confidence that you are a worthwhile person. You don't need to be a body builder just use it as an activity to improve your attitude and create self-esteem.
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I wonder if I should at least tell my classmate how I felt.
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philmaster: I wonder if I should at least tell my classmate how I felt.
To what end? She's married with two kids. That's not cool, in my opinion.------ This thread is Archived ------
philmaster: I wonder if I should at least tell my classmate how I felt.
Nope. She is a married woman with children. You need to respect her lifestyle. You can tell a therapist, a priest, a friend but please don't tell her. It will make her very uncomfortable.------ This thread is Archived ------
philmaster: I wonder if I should at least tell my classmate how I felt.
The one that's married with two kids? 
No
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Cranky_Geezer: We tend to make our own "luck." You seem defeated and lacking in confidence. Neither of these qualities are attractive to single women. Time for a change in lifestyle? Find something that will change your outlook into a more positive one and perhaps your "luck" will change.
Totally agree... lack of confidence makes us not only feel weak, but it also makes us look weak..
Just a few changes could make all the difference in the world.
Most times it can be in the company that we keep, being around positive people usually bring positive results...
Negative people, negative results....
No people, no results...
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philmaster: I wonder if I should at least tell my classmate how I felt.
Eh no don't do that, she might leave her husband lol Look forward, thinking positive and looking forward attracts, if you don't like the gym how about a dance class or tennis club or something
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