secretagent09: Are you interested in going to a gym to work out? You'll not only work your body but also your brain which will give you confidence that you are a worthwhile person. You don't need to be a body builder just use it as an activity to improve your attitude and create self-esteem.
I'm training in martial arts for all that, and self defense.
philmaster: I wonder if I should at least tell my classmate how I felt.
Did you start this thread mostly to ask opinion about whether you should tell your classmate?
Because you're not really responding positively to any of the suggestions on moving forward that are being proposed to you.
If you're not even being honest with uourself even as you try to work out what to do how are you going to make an honest decision?
Approaching a married woman to share your feelings is not cool and not honourable!
You didn't do the right thing by not speaking to her when she was free, may be you can do the right thing now by NOT speaking with her because she's not free and as you feel good about yourself for having made an emotionally mature decision, let go and get on with yout life with a clear conscions. And feel proud of yourself
Selenite: Did you start this thread mostly to ask opinion about whether you should tell your classmate?
Because you're not really responding positively to any of the suggestions on moving forward that are being proposed to you.
If you're not even being honest with uourself even as you try to work out what to do how are you going to make an honest decision?
Approaching a married woman to share your feelings is not cool and not honourable!
You didn't do the right thing by not speaking to her when she was free, may be you can do the right thing now by NOT speaking with her because she's not free and as you feel good about yourself for having made an emotionally mature decision, let go and get on with yout life with a clear conscions. And feel proud of yourself
Selenite: Did you start this thread mostly to ask opinion about whether you should tell your classmate?
Because you're not really responding positively to any of the suggestions on moving forward that are being proposed to you.
If you're not even being honest with uourself even as you try to work out what to do how are you going to make an honest decision?
Approaching a married woman to share your feelings is not cool and not honourable!
You didn't do the right thing by not speaking to her when she was free, may be you can do the right thing now by NOT speaking with her because she's not free and as you feel good about yourself for having made an emotionally mature decision, let go and get on with yout life with a clear conscions. And feel proud of yourself
No, this is just something I put out there. I really didn't even know what people would say.
philmaster: I've had a nostalgic feeling lately. Been nostalgic thinking about high school. It reminded me of the romantic feelings I had for one of my classmates. I have to admit, thanks to my stupidity, I never told her. Now, she's married with two kids. Oh well, like the title says, its my own fault.
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