Mind over body - the DNA of love. ( Archived) (46)

Jan 23, 2020 6:39 PM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
OnlyLiveTwice
OnlyLiveTwiceOnlyLiveTwiceValletta, Majjistral Malta162 Threads 29 Polls 1,446 Posts
I have just received a message from a stranger on CS. The message was so intellectually fascinating, all other parameters immediately fell by the wayside. Can one fall in love with a mind, instead of a face or a body?

I wrote back, "You're more than a pretty face."
She wrote back, "I am that too."

smitten
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Jan 24, 2020 2:25 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
OnlyLiveTwice
OnlyLiveTwiceOnlyLiveTwiceValletta, Majjistral Malta162 Threads 29 Polls 1,446 Posts
AI_1984: Oh yes, that too!

But they get to see that much later, much much later...
AlienIntellect, you are such a tease.
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Jan 24, 2020 2:42 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
AI_1984
AI_1984AI_1984Pueblo del Mar, Murcia Spain12 Threads 769 Posts
OnlyLiveTwice: AlienIntellect, you are such a tease.
Not really...
They have to fall in love with my mind first, before seeing the rest of the body.
Otherwise they will be completely turned off! grin
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Jan 24, 2020 2:43 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
OnlyLiveTwice
OnlyLiveTwiceOnlyLiveTwiceValletta, Majjistral Malta162 Threads 29 Polls 1,446 Posts
AI_1984: Not really...
They have to fall in love with my mind first, before seeing the rest of the body.
Otherwise they will be completely turned off!
We of a certain age understand each other completely. cheers
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Jan 24, 2020 4:13 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
OnlyLiveTwice: As with Christmas presents, it is often the case that not only is the wrapping far more attractive than the gift itself, but the gift is a boring scarf with a faux Burberry print. In other words, cheap and nasty. Packaging is not everything.
I would never be given a gift like that snooty

Anyway, what I was saying was that although their personality and intelligence are of highest importance, they are not do important that physical attributes count for nothing.
I like an attractive package and am not afraid to say it snooty
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Jan 24, 2020 4:13 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
mollybaby: I would never be given a gift like that

Anyway, what I was saying was that although their personality and intelligence are of highest importance, they are not so important that physical attributes count for nothing.
I like an attractive package and am not afraid to say it
Fixed
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Jan 24, 2020 4:23 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
OnlyLiveTwice
OnlyLiveTwiceOnlyLiveTwiceValletta, Majjistral Malta162 Threads 29 Polls 1,446 Posts
mollybaby: I would never be given a gift like that

Anyway, what I was saying was that although their personality and intelligence are of highest importance, they are not do important that physical attributes count for nothing.
I like an attractive package and am not afraid to say it
As do we all.
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Jan 24, 2020 4:28 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
OnlyLiveTwice: As do we all.
Seemingly not those who only fancy the brain dunno
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Jan 24, 2020 4:29 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
OnlyLiveTwice
OnlyLiveTwiceOnlyLiveTwiceValletta, Majjistral Malta162 Threads 29 Polls 1,446 Posts
mollybaby: Seemingly not those who only fancy the brain
Seemingly.

rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 24, 2020 7:11 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
OnlyLiveTwice
OnlyLiveTwiceOnlyLiveTwiceValletta, Majjistral Malta162 Threads 29 Polls 1,446 Posts
Ok, we seem to have quorum here. We all want a nice package. But what's the tipping point between a lovely mind and an average package? Are we prepared to compromise?

Ladies, we need to know.
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Jan 24, 2020 7:19 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
OnlyLiveTwice: Ok, we seem to have quorum here. We all want a nice package. But what's the tipping point between a lovely mind and an average package? Are we prepared to compromise?

Ladies, we need to know.
Are we talking package or packaging? writing
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Jan 24, 2020 7:23 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
OnlyLiveTwice: Ok, we seem to have quorum here. We all want a nice package. But what's the tipping point between a lovely mind and an average package? Are we prepared to compromise?

Ladies, we need to know.
i think it's more about synergy, than compromise
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Jan 24, 2020 7:25 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
OnlyLiveTwice
OnlyLiveTwiceOnlyLiveTwiceValletta, Majjistral Malta162 Threads 29 Polls 1,446 Posts
jono7: i think it's more about synergy, than compromise
Synergy....the etymology thereof: 'energy plus sin.'

That sounds about right.


laugh
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Jan 24, 2020 7:26 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
RedHeadedTaurus
RedHeadedTaurusRedHeadedTaurusHere, Michigan USA17 Threads 1 Polls 8,455 Posts
mollybaby: Are we talking package or packaging?
The package within the packaging, I'd presume …
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Jan 24, 2020 7:26 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
jono7: i think it's more about synergy, than compromise
Hi Jono

Apologies for leaving you out of my other list. help
laugh

You are always on the list, stated or unstated hug
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Jan 24, 2020 7:27 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
OnlyLiveTwice
OnlyLiveTwiceOnlyLiveTwiceValletta, Majjistral Malta162 Threads 29 Polls 1,446 Posts
mollybaby: Are we talking package or packaging?
Oh behave.

I'll say it if you can't. Nothing beats a big dong.

A big dong plus climax = ding-dong.

Oh, let the bells ring out!

laugh
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Jan 24, 2020 7:30 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
OnlyLiveTwice: Oh behave.

I'll say it if you can't. Nothing beats a big dong.

A big dong plus climax = ding-dong.

Oh, let the bells ring out!
I shall behave so moping

As for your question, yes the mind can beat an average body as long as that average body isn't repulsive to me, and he cares about it.
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Jan 24, 2020 7:31 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
mollybaby: Hi Jono

Apologies for leaving you out of my other list.


You are always on the list, stated or unstated
oh.... good to know...
i thought i had lost my sense of humour....laugh

no apology necessary grin hug
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Jan 24, 2020 7:35 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
OnlyLiveTwice
OnlyLiveTwiceOnlyLiveTwiceValletta, Majjistral Malta162 Threads 29 Polls 1,446 Posts
mollybaby: I shall behave so

As for your question, yes the mind can beat an average body as long as that average body isn't repulsive to me, and he cares about it.
I agree. I have once been bowled over by a vivacious, scintillating Colombian, so effusive and communicative, that all else became academic. That said, she did possess an awesome rack. That did play a part in the chemistry, to be fair.

On the other hand, are five fingers.

laugh
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Jan 24, 2020 9:08 AM CST Mind over body - the DNA of love.
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
OnlyLiveTwice: Synergy....the etymology thereof: 'energy plus sin.'

That sounds about right.
For me emtional intelligence and kindness have become super important. Academic intelligence and knowledge that have not been processed into human significance are of no interest to me. Reference material can be found all over the net, I don't need 'a walking dictionnary, thesaurus or reference book' to hug and share my life with.
And then there's the eyes and the story they tell...
And then there's the sense of humour and how life's little frustrations are handled...
And then there's do we have similar lifestyles and are they compatible ...
And then there's enjoying one another's company...
And then there's that spark ...
And then physically, the one thing I find difficult to imagine myself with is a man who is physically flabby... how could he dance flamenco or tango with me if he's flabby?
I prefer the wiry look to the chubby boyish look. But what I like most is an attractive mind and personality
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