For all of you people who maybe wondering if this site really works, the simple answer is yes!
I have been on this site since 2006, didn't find the love of my life yet but i have shared loving relationships and made many (real life) close friends thanks to CS.
I have traveled to many states in the USA, Spain, Scotland and Canada to meet ladies from this site and many have returned to meet me again Ireland. I also have met many amazing Irish ladies here in my home country of Ireland.
In my experience, i suggest you have more than one photo in your profile with at least one of the photo's being a full facial, smiling shot without sunglasses. The smile is a must. Keep it light and funny when it comes to describing yourself and describing your desired partner.
Safety concerns is a worry for us all and maybe even more so for the ladies. There is a very safe way of meeting someone here on this site. (If you feel you need some tips..post here or simply message me.) If fear is going to be a barrier that stops you from communicating with people on the site you should keep your expectations very low by not expecting much from the site. If you are truly looking for a loving relationship, let yourself have some fun and dive in because you do have to do a little work in getting yourself noticed. The love of your life will not just come magically knocking at your door.
I would like to point out that i am not a member of the CS staff site and i do not speak on behalf of the site. I am just a regular (long term) member of the site just like you.
I do remember how daunting it can be to join a site and not be sure how safe it is.. In 14 years i have learnt a lot and i would be only too happy to share and help anyone who has any questions that may be causing them some dilemma.
Please feel free to post your questions here or... you are more than welcome to message me if you do not wish your question to be public.
martyg: For all of you people who maybe wondering if this site really works, the simple answer is yes!
I have been on this site since 2006, didn't find the love of my life yet but i have shared loving relationships and made many (real life) close friends thanks to CS.
I have traveled to many states in the USA, Spain, Scotland and Canada to meet ladies from this site and many have returned to meet me again Ireland. I also have met many amazing Irish ladies here in my home country of Ireland.
In my experience, i suggest you have more than one photo in your profile with at least one of the photo's being a full facial, smiling shot without sunglasses. The smile is a must. Keep it light and funny when it comes to describing yourself and describing your desired partner.
Safety concerns is a worry for us all and maybe even more so for the ladies. There is a very safe way of meeting someone here on this site. (If you feel you need some tips..post here or simply message me.) If fear is going to be a barrier that stops you from communicating with people on the site you should keep your expectations very low by not expecting much from the site. If you are truly looking for a loving relationship, let yourself have some fun and dive in because you do have to do a little work in getting yourself noticed. The love of your life will not just come magically knocking at your door.
I would like to point out that i am not a member of the CS staff site and i do not speak on behalf of the site. I am just a regular (long term) member of the site just like you.
I do remember how daunting it can be to join a site and not be sure how safe it is.. In 14 years i have learnt a lot and i would be only too happy to share and help anyone who has any questions that may be causing them some dilemma.
Please feel free to post your questions here or... you are more than welcome to message me if you do not wish your question to be public.
Wishing you all great success in love .
MartyG
So, you´ve been on here for 14 years and I´m supposed to take your advice on how to get a date?
martyg: For all of you people who maybe wondering if this site really works, the simple answer is yes!
I have been on this site since 2006, didn't find the love of my life yet but i have shared loving relationships and made many (real life) close friends thanks to CS.
I have traveled to many states in the USA, Spain, Scotland and Canada to meet ladies from this site and many have returned to meet me again Ireland. I also have met many amazing Irish ladies here in my home country of Ireland.
In my experience, i suggest you have more than one photo in your profile with at least one of the photo's being a full facial, smiling shot without sunglasses. The smile is a must. Keep it light and funny when it comes to describing yourself and describing your desired partner.
Safety concerns is a worry for us all and maybe even more so for the ladies. There is a very safe way of meeting someone here on this site. (If you feel you need some tips..post here or simply message me.) If fear is going to be a barrier that stops you from communicating with people on the site you should keep your expectations very low by not expecting much from the site. If you are truly looking for a loving relationship, let yourself have some fun and dive in because you do have to do a little work in getting yourself noticed. The love of your life will not just come magically knocking at your door.
I would like to point out that i am not a member of the CS staff site and i do not speak on behalf of the site. I am just a regular (long term) member of the site just like you.
I do remember how daunting it can be to join a site and not be sure how safe it is.. In 14 years i have learnt a lot and i would be only too happy to share and help anyone who has any questions that may be causing them some dilemma.
Please feel free to post your questions here or... you are more than welcome to message me if you do not wish your question to be public.
Wishing you all great success in love .
MartyG
Thanks for your post maybe I could learn some things from you I am a new member and I have been getting these horrible, nasty messages from ladies I choose to ignore cos I read the sites instructions on the page and know what's up with that but it's still hard finding a good lady.
I was contacted by men who like to travel and have an entertaining romantic weekend or several days with women they meet online, but I'm not interested in that. I suppose that people who are interested in those sorts of thing can really find that here (and everywhere online). There were other men on this site telling similar stories about how they travelled a lot, met some nice ladies, spent a month in one country, two in another, a week somewhere else... That's not hard to find online.
But a relationship, something real and steady, a long-term commitment - that's a different story.
Bnaughty: Why don´t you consume his wares, I don´t know where he´s been
Get your mind out of the gutter. My point is that you're being unpleasant without cause and that's not naughty but simply nasty... If you have nothing valid to contribute to this thread or at least be adequately human then you should simply sit this one out before you do more to show how little people should think of you.
Almost happy St. Patrick.s day...what a situation we are all going through and now it is truly see ya sometime in the future.....difficult to make plans with most of us being restricted in more ways than one....geezz....bars and restaurants closed down ugh!!
sweetiefireball: Almost happy St. Patrick.s day...what a situation we are all going through and now it is truly see ya sometime in the future.....difficult to make plans with most of us being restricted in more ways than one....geezz....bars and restaurants closed down ugh!!
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I have been on this site since 2006, didn't find the love of my life yet but i have shared loving relationships and made many (real life) close friends thanks to CS.
I have traveled to many states in the USA, Spain, Scotland and Canada to meet ladies from this site and many have returned to meet me again Ireland.
I also have met many amazing Irish ladies here in my home country of Ireland.
In my experience, i suggest you have more than one photo in your profile with at least one of the photo's being a full facial, smiling shot without sunglasses.
The smile is a must.
Keep it light and funny when it comes to describing yourself and describing your desired partner.
Safety concerns is a worry for us all and maybe even more so for the ladies.
There is a very safe way of meeting someone here on this site.
(If you feel you need some tips..post here or simply message me.)
If fear is going to be a barrier that stops you from communicating with people on the site you should keep your expectations very low by not expecting much from the site.
If you are truly looking for a loving relationship, let yourself have some fun and dive in because you do have to do a little work in getting yourself noticed.
The love of your life will not just come magically knocking at your door.
I would like to point out that i am not a member of the CS staff site and i do not speak on behalf of the site.
I am just a regular (long term) member of the site just like you.
I do remember how daunting it can be to join a site and not be sure how safe it is..
In 14 years i have learnt a lot and i would be only too happy to share and help anyone who has any questions that may be causing them some dilemma.
Please feel free to post your questions here or... you are more than welcome to message me if you do not wish your question to be public.
Wishing you all great success in love .
MartyG