Dating in late age ( Archived) (124)

Mar 26, 2020 3:42 AM CST Dating in late age
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia67 Threads 14 Polls 6,372 Posts
Anybody who sees themselves as being in a minority group, will only give you dramas... Thats not to say somebody who meets that criteria is automatically no good, just how they see themselves and relate to others.

teddybear
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Mar 26, 2020 3:52 AM CST Dating in late age
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
pat8lanips: Anybody who sees themselves as being in a minority group, will only give you dramas... Thats not to say somebody who meets that criteria is automatically no good, just how they see themselves and relate to others.
Yeah I know..I felt sorry for him because I noticed no interaction with him long ago..He was okay with me then he latched..I'm strong when it come to strong people..But I'm weak with those who portray themselves as weak.

He bugs me by being nasty to my friends on my thread so being the captain of my ship I try so hard to keep her on course..I already lost a thread because of not being able to purchase toilet rolls.

My new motto will be to ignore.
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Mar 26, 2020 3:58 AM CST Dating in late age
Mercedes_00: Yeah I know..I felt sorry for him because I noticed no interaction with him long ago..He was okay with me then he latched..I'm strong when it come to strong people..But I'm weak with those who portray themselves as weak.

He bugs me by being nasty to my friends on my thread so being the captain of my ship I try so hard to keep her on course..I already lost a thread because of not being able to purchase toilet rolls.

My new motto will be to ignore.
make sure you buy loo rolls with strong threads ,, stops your fingers from making punctures...uh oh
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Mar 26, 2020 4:00 AM CST Dating in late age
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
michaelright: make sure you buy loo rolls with strong threads ,, stops your fingers from making punctures...
I make big fluffy balls with my toilet paper
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Mar 26, 2020 4:06 AM CST Dating in late age
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia67 Threads 14 Polls 6,372 Posts
I don't mean just one person, thats an in general thing that this one person kind of fits...

A free dating site will always attract a certain amount of folks that would struggle in real life to interract. Sometimes the reason for that is innocent enough, and its a good thing they get a chance. Sometimes the reason is completely sinister, like the tinder guy who threw the girl off the balcony...

If I be an arsehole sometimes, which I admit I can be... Its because I'm sometimes an arsehole, not because I have a disability or a scoutmaster touched my balls etc (I wasnt a scout)... And I'd prefer to be occasionally called out and try to clean up my act, than do the boo hoo poor me thing, hoping for an imaginary sympathy root.
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Mar 26, 2020 4:16 AM CST Dating in late age
Palmfrond
PalmfrondPalmfrondEaston, Pennsylvania USA4 Threads 236 Posts
i'm not into dating but i don't mind a root or the whole tree
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Mar 26, 2020 4:23 AM CST Dating in late age
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
pat8lanips: I don't mean just one person, thats an in general thing that this one person kind of fits...

A free dating site will always attract a certain amount of folks that would struggle in real life to interract. Sometimes the reason for that is innocent enough, and its a good thing they get a chance. Sometimes the reason is completely sinister, like the tinder guy who threw the girl off the balcony...

If I be an arsehole sometimes, which I admit I can be... Its because I'm sometimes an arsehole, not because I have a disability or a scoutmaster touched my balls etc (I wasnt a scout)... And I'd prefer to be occasionally called out and try to clean up my act, than do the boo hoo poor me thing, hoping for an imaginary sympathy root.
thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up

My posting history is proof I'm no saint when feeling attacked or slurred at...For example V saying suck hard ect..If I wasn't flustered over toilet roll's any other time I would of quoted him and said I punch hard laugh

But I was in a cranky mood laugh
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Mar 26, 2020 4:25 AM CST Dating in late age
Mercedes_00: What do they look like?
let me fetch a mirror....
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Mar 26, 2020 4:39 AM CST Dating in late age
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
michaelright: let me fetch a mirror....
laugh
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Mar 26, 2020 12:52 PM CST Dating in late age
RedHeadedTaurus
RedHeadedTaurusRedHeadedTaurusHere, Michigan USA17 Threads 1 Polls 8,455 Posts
According to my dad, I'm too old to be dating ... he tells me it's "too late"moping


Hugs and kisses from a safe social distance: XOX
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Mar 26, 2020 1:09 PM CST Dating in late age
Kidwell_
Kidwell_Kidwell_South East GBA Province, Buenos Aires Argentina17 Threads 2 Polls 767 Posts
The problem is not dating at 80.
Or at 16
The problem is that some people are UNDATABLE.

There, I said it.
You were thinking about it.
Weren't you?
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Mar 26, 2020 9:51 PM CST Dating in late age
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
im pretty sure the net was built just for this time in life....the only safe social distancing date right now is probably by skype.....laugh
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Mar 27, 2020 12:49 AM CST Dating in late age
Twinkle42
Twinkle42Twinkle42Yogyakarta, Indonesia1 Threads 17 Posts
HI Selenite, I am happy for you and your date. I agree with you that we should for focus on who we are. I think "keeping" some facade to hold his attention is one act that need so much energy and so much risk of loosing the sincerity of the relationship itself.

I don't know the age of your date but I guess his age is in "mature age" standard. would be difficult if he is under 40 I guess...

thank you for your advice kiss kiss
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Mar 27, 2020 12:50 AM CST Dating in late age
Twinkle42
Twinkle42Twinkle42Yogyakarta, Indonesia1 Threads 17 Posts
Mercedes_00: Had enough of you..Bloody Corona and your pouncing around like a bloody dog on heat.
I bet he is just under 30 laugh laugh laugh laugh
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Mar 27, 2020 12:54 AM CST Dating in late age
Twinkle42
Twinkle42Twinkle42Yogyakarta, Indonesia1 Threads 17 Posts
Kidwell_: The problem is not dating at 80.
Or at 16
The problem is that some people are UNDATABLE.

There, I said it.
You were thinking about it.
Weren't you?
Hahahhaa.... UNDATABLE. Most males I met are UNDATABLE hahahaha... I love this term laugh laugh laugh laugh thumbs up thumbs up
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Mar 27, 2020 12:55 AM CST Dating in late age
Twinkle42
Twinkle42Twinkle42Yogyakarta, Indonesia1 Threads 17 Posts
M4_Mischief: im pretty sure the net was built just for this time in life....the only safe social distancing date right now is probably by skype.....
Right, virtual is corona free.... laugh
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Mar 27, 2020 2:30 PM CST Dating in late age
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
Twinkle42: HI Selenite, I am happy for you and your date. I agree with you that we should for focus on who we are. I think "keeping" some facade to hold his attention is one act that need so much energy and so much risk of loosing the sincerity of the relationship itself.

I don't know the age of your date but I guess his age is in "mature age" standard. would be difficult if he is under 40 I guess...

thank you for your advice
43 ... yes mature with it ... helps ... wave
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Mar 27, 2020 2:42 PM CST Dating in late age
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
Twinkle42: Hi there...

I was 42 when I joint Connecting Singles, and this year, 2020, I would celebrate my 50 year-birthday and I plan to celebrate my birthday by doing solo travel to some place. I had been in relationship and now I am alone again. Don't ask me why. C'est la vie...

In my 50-year-old age, somehow I feel that I have reached a certain wisdom and comprehension about love and life. Then some friends ask me if I am ready to mingle again after couple of years I was really really alone and find a new love? What amaze me is that.... I could not answer my friends' question... especially, I consider that I am not that young anymore...

Guys, please tell, what is dating in late age look like?

hugs and kiss,
Erika
Dating at after 50 is less complicated if you know what you want; is more complicated as the amount of people available is smaller and most people carry lots of baggage.

do your research; define what you want.

no hugs; no kisses.
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Mar 27, 2020 5:39 PM CST Dating in late age
RedHeadedTaurus: According to my dad, I'm too old to be dating ... he tells me it's "too late"


Hugs and kisses from a safe social distance: XOX
Dads don't know everything. wink

You are NOT too old to date!
You are adorable, intelligent, and fun.
I'm older than you and I date.
It's fun.
I keep my expectations in the "fun" mode, without the pressure of anything else, and I've had all types of relationships and developed wonderful friendships with the most amazing men.
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Mar 27, 2020 5:42 PM CST Dating in late age
Kidwell_: The problem is not dating at 80.
Or at 16
The problem is that some people are UNDATABLE.

There, I said it.
You were thinking about it.
Weren't you?
It's not that they're "undatable".
Everyone is datable.
It's just that there it is a rare thing to feel that rare undefinable connection with someone.
There is someone out there who would find your undatable person quite datable. wine
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