Dating after separation... ( Archived) (27)

Mar 28, 2020 11:09 AM CST Dating after separation...
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
guess all of us has been there.
Im new to it, got separated few months ago and moved out last month.
We were together 10 years with my ex and we have child together.
We were not happy with eachother but still im quite sad.

What now? Whats next?

How did you recovered after divorce, brake up, separation...

Have a nice weekend all and wash your handskiss cheers
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Mar 28, 2020 11:21 AM CST Dating after separation...
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
A month?

Give yourself time to get fully over one relationship before going into another.
Learn to.live by yourself, get to know yourself, and be independent before even considering another relationship.
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Mar 28, 2020 11:23 AM CST Dating after separation...
mollybaby: A month?

Give yourself time to get fully over one relationship before going into another.
Learn to.live by yourself, get to know yourself, and be independent before even considering another relationship.
would u smoke a joint with me molls?peace
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Mar 28, 2020 11:24 AM CST Dating after separation...
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
mollybaby: A month?

Give yourself time to get fully over one relationship before going into another.
Learn to.live by yourself, get to know yourself, and be independent before even considering another relationship.
Absolutelv kiss
Thank you for the comment.

Not searching at the moment. Just feeling quite low.
I know this site from many years ago and i know its a good place for chat.

Have a nice weekend cheers
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Mar 28, 2020 12:03 PM CST Dating after separation...
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
markizamkd25: guess all of us has been there.
Im new to it, got separated few months ago and moved out last month.
We were together 10 years with my ex and we have child together.
We were not happy with eachother but still im quite sad.
What now? Whats next?
How did you recovered after divorce, brake up, separation...
Have a nice weekend all and wash your hands
Welcome back

yup been there , not in Denmark tho but the other part
what next ,how to recover ...
i guess time is the best healer
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Mar 28, 2020 12:13 PM CST Dating after separation...
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia67 Threads 14 Polls 6,372 Posts
There is no dating after separation, thats it, all over red rover... The whole idea is out of the question as its no longer possible... Its like nearly finishing a packet of jelly beans and there's a sxungey black one in the
bottom nobody wants. .. Well thats how it is, and now you're one of us.
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Mar 28, 2020 12:19 PM CST Dating after separation...
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Dedovix: Welcome back

yup been there , not in Denmark tho but the other part
what next ,how to recover ...
i guess time is the best healer
thumbs up
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Mar 28, 2020 12:19 PM CST Dating after separation...
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
Dedovix: Welcome back

yup been there , not in Denmark tho but the other part
what next ,how to recover ...
i guess time is the best healer
Hello Bobane peace
Good to be back...maybe doh grin
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Mar 28, 2020 12:20 PM CST Dating after separation...
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
pat8lanips: There is no dating after separation, thats it, all over red rover... The whole idea is out of the question as its no longer possible... Its like nearly finishing a packet of jelly beans and there's a sxungey black one in the
bottom nobody wants. .. Well thats how it is, and now you're one of us.
confused blues hole
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Mar 28, 2020 12:22 PM CST Dating after separation...
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia67 Threads 14 Polls 6,372 Posts
Just trying to be helpfuul.
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Mar 28, 2020 12:23 PM CST Dating after separation...
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
markizamkd25: guess all of us has been there.
Im new to it, got separated few months ago and moved out last month.
We were together 10 years with my ex and we have child together.
We were not happy with eachother but still im quite sad.

What now? Whats next?

How did you recovered after divorce, brake up, separation...

Have a nice weekend all and wash your hands
I’m still working through things in my head over a breakup that happened about six months ago and I’m not ready to venture out yet. My ex exclusive, well she’s been more on my mind since coronavirus became a big concern here.

wave
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Mar 28, 2020 12:53 PM CST Dating after separation...
Marki is back!
Welcome back!thumbs up wine
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Mar 28, 2020 1:03 PM CST Dating after separation...
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
markizamkd25: guess all of us has been there.
Im new to it, got separated few months ago and moved out last month.
We were together 10 years with my ex and we have child together.
We were not happy with eachother but still im quite sad.

What now? Whats next?

How did you recovered after divorce, brake up, separation...

Have a nice weekend all and wash your hands
This lockdown could be used to think things through, determine your options, and make a plan for the rest of your life.
You seem like a survivor to me, you did the right thing reaching for other people on CS, most of us have been kicked in the teeth at some time. You can come back to happiness, it's not easy, but if I can do it you can too.

Good luck, Tomcat.teddybear teddybear hug bouquet
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Mar 28, 2020 1:48 PM CST Dating after separation...
Ocee102
Ocee102Ocee102unkown, California USA10 Threads 1,399 Posts
markizamkd25: guess all of us has been there.
Im new to it, got separated few months ago and moved out last month.
We were together 10 years with my ex and we have child together.
We were not happy with eachother but still im quite sad.

What now? Whats next?
Evaluate the possibilities.


There'll be things that weren't available to you in your marriage that are available to you now.
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Mar 28, 2020 1:53 PM CST Dating after separation...
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Ocee102: Evaluate the possibilities.


There'll be things that weren't available to you in your marriage that are available to you now.
Welcome back, Ocee bouquet
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Mar 28, 2020 2:24 PM CST Dating after separation...
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden103 Threads 5 Polls 3,295 Posts
My friend (who, it turned out, was a very wise woman) told me after I've divorced: "Get someone at once. If you don't do it now, you never will."

She was right: after a few months of kinda "mourning" my failed marrage, when the most of practicalities fell in place, I discovered that being single is very convenient.

There is a lot of advantages in being in a relationship, but convenience of being single wins hands down every time.

So if you want another relationship, do get it right now. Good luck!
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Mar 28, 2020 3:16 PM CST Dating after separation...
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
Conrad73: Marki is back!
Welcome back!
OMG you are still here lips teddybear
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Mar 28, 2020 3:18 PM CST Dating after separation...
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
Tulefell: My friend (who, it turned out, was a very wise woman) told me after I've divorced: "Get someone at once. If you don't do it now, you never will."

She was right: after a few months of kinda "mourning" my failed marrage, when the most of practicalities fell in place, I discovered that being single is very convenient.

There is a lot of advantages in being in a relationship, but convenience of being single wins hands down every time.

So if you want another relationship, do get it right now. Good luck!
I think im going after second option also hug
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Mar 28, 2020 3:19 PM CST Dating after separation...
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
tomcatty: This lockdown could be used to think things through, determine your options, and make a plan for the rest of your life.
You seem like a survivor to me, you did the right thing reaching for other people on CS, most of us have been kicked in the teeth at some time. You can come back to happiness, it's not easy, but if I can do it you can too.

Good luck, Tomcat.
Awww thank you. To be honest when i think better im already winner been out of that relationship hug
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Mar 28, 2020 8:40 PM CST Dating after separation...
deedee123xo
deedee123xodeedee123xoLimerick, Ireland15 Threads 3,538 Posts
You could always become Tom's new Rainbow smitten
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