To tell or not to tell: that's the question ( Archived) (50)

Apr 8, 2020 12:45 PM CST To tell or not to tell: that's the question
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden103 Threads 5 Polls 3,298 Posts
Three situations:

1. A man with his "gate" open.

2. A woman with one of her stocking with loose loop sliding down.

3. A person with an obvious health condition (not life threatening, but quite inconvenient), that you know the remedy for.


Would you tell them that they have their zip open, that their stocking needs replacement, that they should consider this or that cure?

Why? Why not?
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Apr 8, 2020 12:49 PM CST To tell or not to tell: that's the question
Tulefell: Three situations:

1. A man with his "gate" open.

2. A woman with one of her stocking with loose loop sliding down.

3. A person with an obvious health condition (not life threatening, but quite inconvenient), that you know the remedy for.


Would you tell them that they have their zip open, that their stocking needs replacement, that they should consider this or that cure?

Why? Why not?
I'd offer the lady some assistance with her sock and tell her they need removing........
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Apr 8, 2020 12:50 PM CST To tell or not to tell: that's the question
Melody1671
Melody1671Melody1671Maracaibo, Zulia Venezuela2,376 Posts
I would do number 1 and 2 without any problems but discreetly... Why?... Because I would love anyone to tell me if I were them... BUT discreetly, because the intention is not to make them feel embarrassed in front of anyone... Number 3, I would only do it with people I am close to... I think it's a little more delicate subject... bouquet wave
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Apr 8, 2020 1:01 PM CST To tell or not to tell: that's the question
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden103 Threads 5 Polls 3,298 Posts
Melody1671: I would do number 1 and 2 without any problems but discreetly... Why?... Because I would love anyone to tell me if I were them... BUT discreetly, because the intention is not to make them feel embarrassed in front of anyone... Number 3, I would only do it with people I am close to... I think it's a little more delicate subject...
Let's slightly change the situation:

1. It's your boss.

2. It's your dear friend flirting (and making progress) with a man she's fancied for quite a while and she has no spare pair of stockings to change. She's unaware of the situation, happy and natural. He?... Do they care?

3. Totally agree.
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Apr 8, 2020 1:13 PM CST To tell or not to tell: that's the question
Melody1671
Melody1671Melody1671Maracaibo, Zulia Venezuela2,376 Posts
Tulefell: Let's slightly change the situation:

1. It's your boss.

2. It's your dear friend flirting (and making progress) with a man she's fancied for quite a while and she has no spare pair of stockings to change. She's unaware of the situation, happy and natural. He?... Do they care?

3. Totally agree.
1. Nothing changes... I would call him in private and tell him I would love to be told if that happened to me and I appreciate him and I care... If it was a stranger, I would just say I would love anyone to let me know if that happened to me, because I would really appreciate it... And I am a person that truly cares... And I help anyone I run into on a daily basis... Human or animal...

2. Same... I would ask the guy to just give me ten seconds with her and I would quickly wish her the best of luck and I would say: "Hey girl, I love you and I love that you are getting what you want... If you are happy, I am happy... By the way, you have a run in your stockings... Try to sit this or that way... Go het him, tiger! laugh)...

Bottom line... It doesn't change anything... I care and I love to help... And that doesn't depends or is conditioned by others... It's me... bouquet wave
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Apr 8, 2020 1:14 PM CST To tell or not to tell: that's the question
Melody1671
Melody1671Melody1671Maracaibo, Zulia Venezuela2,376 Posts
Melody1671: 1. Nothing changes... I would call him in private and tell him I would love to be told if that happened to me and I appreciate him and I care... If it was a stranger, I would just say I would love anyone to let me know if that happened to me, because I would really appreciate it... And I am a person that truly cares... And I help anyone I run into on a daily basis... Human or animal...

2. Same... I would ask the guy to just give me ten seconds with her and I would quickly wish her the best of luck and I would say: "Hey girl, I love you and I love that you are getting what you want... If you are happy, I am happy... By the way, you have a run in your stockings... Try to sit this or that way... Go het him, tiger! )...

Bottom line... It doesn't change anything... I care and I love to help... And that doesn't depends or is conditioned by others... It's me...
Ooops... Doesn´t depenD... giggle
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Apr 8, 2020 1:16 PM CST To tell or not to tell: that's the question
Melody1671
Melody1671Melody1671Maracaibo, Zulia Venezuela2,376 Posts
Melody1671: 1. Nothing changes... I would call him in private and tell him I would love to be told if that happened to me and I appreciate him and I care... If it was a stranger, I would just say I would love anyone to let me know if that happened to me, because I would really appreciate it... And I am a person that truly cares... And I help anyone I run into on a daily basis... Human or animal...

2. Same... I would ask the guy to just give me ten seconds with her and I would quickly wish her the best of luck and I would say: "Hey girl, I love you and I love that you are getting what you want... If you are happy, I am happy... By the way, you have a run in your stockings... Try to sit this or that way... Go het him, tiger! )...

Bottom line... It doesn't change anything... I care and I love to help... And that doesn't depends or is conditioned by others... It's me...
Jeez... I meant "Go get him, tiger"... Jajajajajajajja... Sorry for all the mistakes...
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Apr 8, 2020 1:31 PM CST To tell or not to tell: that's the question
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden103 Threads 5 Polls 3,298 Posts
2. They might lose the momentum, the feeling of being in a special bubble separated from the rest of the world. She might lose her cool and confidence. The run on her stocking (thanks for that word) might the crucial element, that encouraged him to answer to her signals. It made her, who's otherwise so scaringly impeccable and perfect, more human and approachable.

:)
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Apr 8, 2020 1:35 PM CST To tell or not to tell: that's the question
Melody1671
Melody1671Melody1671Maracaibo, Zulia Venezuela2,376 Posts
Tulefell: 2. They might lose the momentum, the feeling of being in a special bubble separated from the rest of the world. She might lose her cool and confidence. The run on her stocking (thanks for that word) might the crucial element, that encouraged him to answer to her signals. It made her, who's otherwise so scaringly impeccable and perfect, more human and approachable.

:)
You know... In my humble opinion if they are meant to be together, NO ONE and/or NOTHING will make them lose that feeling... bouquet wave And you are very welcome... I had to google the word myself... Jajajajajajajajajajajajajajajaja... laugh laugh laugh
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Apr 8, 2020 1:41 PM CST To tell or not to tell: that's the question
HarbalEsquire
HarbalEsquireHarbalEsquireDoncaster, South Yorkshire, England UK14 Threads 1 Polls 601 Posts
If I saw a man with his "gate" open I wouldn't say anything, particularly if something was coming through the gate. Life is all too short of entertainment, why ruin it when it does come along? dunno
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Apr 8, 2020 1:51 PM CST To tell or not to tell: that's the question
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden103 Threads 5 Polls 3,298 Posts
HarbalEsquire: If I saw a man with his "gate" open I wouldn't say anything, particularly if something was coming through the gate. Life is all too short of entertainment, why ruin it when it does come along?
A sybarite :D
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Apr 8, 2020 1:52 PM CST To tell or not to tell: that's the question
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden103 Threads 5 Polls 3,298 Posts
Melody1671: You know... In my humble opinion if they are meant to be together, NO ONE and/or NOTHING will make them lose that feeling... And you are very welcome... I had to google the word myself... Jajajajajajajajajajajajajajajaja...
So there's no reason to boring with telling her, is there :)
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Apr 8, 2020 1:56 PM CST To tell or not to tell: that's the question
Melody1671
Melody1671Melody1671Maracaibo, Zulia Venezuela2,376 Posts
Tulefell: So there's no reason to boring with telling her, is there :)
As I said, it doesn't depend on others but on my wish to help... I prefer to let her know and let her decide whatever she wants to do, accordingly... P.S. I like these kind of threads... Thank you for posting... Have a wonderful day/night... bouquet
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Apr 8, 2020 1:59 PM CST To tell or not to tell: that's the question
HarbalEsquire
HarbalEsquireHarbalEsquireDoncaster, South Yorkshire, England UK14 Threads 1 Polls 601 Posts
Tulefell: A sybarite
What does that mean confused
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Apr 8, 2020 2:07 PM CST To tell or not to tell: that's the question
Doesn't matter if it's my boss. I would write him a note telling him that he might want to check the front of his pants. That way he won't be embarrassed if I actually said it to him.

The other scenarios................stockings it's not the end of the world. Friend flirting, best to stay out of their business.
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Apr 8, 2020 2:16 PM CST To tell or not to tell: that's the question
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden103 Threads 5 Polls 3,298 Posts
HarbalEsquire: What does that mean
The one, who enjoys every moment.

In one way or the other :D
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Apr 8, 2020 2:20 PM CST To tell or not to tell: that's the question
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden103 Threads 5 Polls 3,298 Posts
secretagent09: Doesn't matter if it's my boss. I would write him a note telling him that he might want to check the front of his pants. That way he won't be embarrassed if I actually said it to him.

...

He won't find your note until much later, after he's returned from the rostrum, where he was talking to the masses for incredible lengths. It's now or never :)
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Apr 8, 2020 2:25 PM CST To tell or not to tell: that's the question
Tulefell: He won't find your note until much later, after he's returned from the rostrum, where he was talking to the masses for incredible lengths. It's now or never :)
You can keep changing the picture to suit the answer you want.

I'll go one more with you. Send him a text that your willy is about to pop out.
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Apr 8, 2020 2:34 PM CST To tell or not to tell: that's the question
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden103 Threads 5 Polls 3,298 Posts
secretagent09: You can keep changing the picture to suit the answer you want.

I'll go one more with you. Send him a text that your willy is about to pop out.
It's not me, it's the life: she changes the picture all day long :)



The answer depends on the personalities involved, doesn't it? Or you always do the same no matter what?
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Apr 8, 2020 2:48 PM CST To tell or not to tell: that's the question
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Tulefell: Three situations:

1. A man with his "gate" open.

2. A woman with one of her stocking with loose loop sliding down.

3. A person with an obvious health condition (not life threatening, but quite inconvenient), that you know the remedy for.


Would you tell them that they have their zip open, that their stocking needs replacement, that they should consider this or that cure?

Why? Why not?
It would depend on my relationship with them.

If I had a good relationship with them, no matter whether they were my boss or whatever, I would discreetly let them know.
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