TTRacer: I'm extremely accurate in my assessment and Adam is irrelevant. My upbringing also is irrelevant... unlike your issues. Profiling you is easy... easier than most.
spl123: I found myself in the same position about just over a week ago. I was totally smitten. He is High IQ, and gorgeous. Needs lots of maintenance. I subsequently found his personality obnoxious, and demanding, and he has No respect for women! They only have one purpose, to keep him satisfied.
I cannot fall in love with just a picture. I sadly cannot fall in love with a man standing right in front of me I need to get to know them. I need to physically be there to read their body language, to look into their eyes, to look into their soul. I think some people fall in love with what they think a person is or can be. I am not that person. I need to fall in love with someone for who they are. Might not make sense to some but makes sense to me. I do know when you make a life time commitment to someone you best be able to love them when they are not lovable or it will not work.
spl123OPNelspruit, Mpumalanga South Africa68 posts
Happygolucky4u: I cannot fall in love with just a picture. I sadly cannot fall in love with a man standing right in front of me I need to get to know them. I need to physically be there to read their body language, to look into their eyes, to look into their soul. I think some people fall in love with what they think a person is or can be. I am not that person. I need to fall in love with someone for who they are. Might not make sense to some but makes sense to me. I do know when you make a life time commitment to someone you best be able to love them when they are not lovable or it will not work.
Hi there. Yes generally speaking, I will agree with you, but this is so different, I still don't get it...
raphael119: Past two months I've been hoarding food on delivery and getting TP from a friend- god knows how she finds it. The only dating I've been doing is the birds and critters in my back yard.
This made me smile when I read it. I did not date often before the last two months. And I have had the tp challenge also. So far doing good in that area I have more food in my house than I have had in a decade. My freezer is packed and guess what? Hurricane season is almost here so.... I also have been spending a lot of time in my back yard. I am not use to not working and a month ago I had a boo boo and hurt myself so I cannot work till maybe the end of this month. Go back to dr on 26th I have discovered I enjoy the peace and solitude of the back yard.
spl123OPNelspruit, Mpumalanga South Africa68 posts
Happy: You are the nicest person here. All I can say, from the bottom of my heart is: Disregard others, and just be yourself. If they don't like it, they can go fly a kite... We are all different... Acceptance is the law... If you can't, avoid...
spl123: Happy: You are the nicest person here. All I can say, from the bottom of my heart is: Disregard others, and just be yourself. If they don't like it, they can go fly a kite... We are all different... Acceptance is the law... If you can't, avoid...
spl123: I found myself in the same position about just over a week ago. I was totally smitten. He is High IQ, and gorgeous. Needs lots of maintenance. I subsequently found his personality obnoxious, and demanding, and he has No respect for women! They only have one purpose, to keep him satisfied.
i suppose some people can and do. Look at the news and talk shows where someone sends expensive gifts and loads of money to a smooth talker writer blogger he or she has never even met, but are somehow “in love” with. ??? Happens rather frequently, too. You’d think even the neediest person would be wise enough to avoid it, but they’re not. My question to the masses...if you can’t find true love with someone you can see and visit with in person, do you honestly believe you can with a complete stranger you have never met? Honestly!!!
Happygolucky4u: I cannot fall in love with just a picture. I sadly cannot fall in love with a man standing right in front of me I need to get to know them. I need to physically be there to read their body language, to look into their eyes, to look into their soul. I think some people fall in love with what they think a person is or can be. I am not that person. I need to fall in love with someone for who they are. Might not make sense to some but makes sense to me. I do know when you make a life time commitment to someone you best be able to love them when they are not lovable or it will not work.
spl123: Hi there. Yes generally speaking, I will agree with you, but this is so different, I still don't get it...
as an empathizing CS member, I’m a little concerned for you. Response #37 was especially unsettling. Remember the “Blade Runner” from your country? He has, what we all now know, is a very, very dark side that he concealed so well that a high class fashion-model-attorney with a doctoral degree was fooled (and lost her life over). One must be optimistic AND courageously wise. Light-heartedness is wonderful and should be embraced but must also be born of uncommon sageness. Be bright and brilliantly happy, but BE CAREFUL.
spl123OPNelspruit, Mpumalanga South Africa68 posts
My answer: I have responded in writing / phone / he came to visit / he end. You see, You first get to know the person face to face, even from a distance, and if the spark is there for both, viola...You tend to correspond now again, when it's over...
spl123: My answer: I have responded in writing / phone / he came to visit / he end. You see, You first get to know the person face to face, even from a distance, and if the spark is there for both, viola...You tend to correspond now again, when it's over...
spl123: I found myself in the same position about just over a week ago. I was totally smitten. He is High IQ, and gorgeous. Needs lots of maintenance. I subsequently found his personality obnoxious, and demanding, and he has No respect for women! They only have one purpose, to keep him satisfied.
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