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May 23, 2020 2:35 PM CST New to the dating scene
I have a question, I am new to the dating scene as I have just come out of a long term relationship. It seems that ALL the men I meat expect sex on the first date. Is this the new trend ? Maybe I am meeting the wrong type?

Please help
May 23, 2020 2:52 PM CST New to the dating scene
Princess4U1: I have a question, I am new to the dating scene as I have just come out of a long term relationship. It seems that ALL the men I meat expect sex on the first date. Is this the new trend ? Maybe I am meeting the wrong type?

Please help
Hello, welcome to the madhouse! wave

You didn't say whether you have been corresponding/texting/phoning prior to meeting, and for how long?

If you have for some time and decide to meet, maybe you've already established some kind of emotional bond and the guy might see you as his gf, in which case he expects sex on the first date because he's already sexually aroused? dunno
May 23, 2020 2:57 PM CST New to the dating scene
AI_1984: Hello, welcome to the madhouse!

You didn't say whether you have been corresponding/texting/phoning prior to meeting, and for how long?

If you have for some time and decide to meet, maybe you've already established some kind of emotional bond and the guy might see you as his gf, in which case he expects sex on the first date because he's already sexually aroused?
Hi, Nice to meet you.

I live in a small country and it is very easy to meet up and no need for long term correspondence. So it is not a case of establishing an emontional bond and the guy seeing me already as his gf.
May 23, 2020 3:03 PM CST New to the dating scene
Princess4U1: I have a question, I am new to the dating scene as I have just come out of a long term relationship. It seems that ALL the men I meat expect sex on the first date. Is this the new trend ? Maybe I am meeting the wrong type?

Please help
yea see in that case, you should watch your back
tomcat is the biggest womanizer on this site -uh oh
May 23, 2020 3:06 PM CST New to the dating scene
AI_1984: he expects sex on the first date because he's already sexually aroused?
Yes, get to know people before you start sexually arousing them. scold smile
May 23, 2020 3:14 PM CST New to the dating scene
Princess4U1: I have a question, I am new to the dating scene as I have just come out of a long term relationship. It seems that ALL the men I meat expect sex on the first date. Is this the new trend ? Maybe I am meeting the wrong type?

Please help
What kind of help do you expect? A body guard?
May 23, 2020 3:23 PM CST New to the dating scene
Princess4U1: I have a question, I am new to the dating scene as I have just come out of a long term relationship. It seems that ALL the men I meat expect sex on the first date. Is this the new trend ? Maybe I am meeting the wrong type?

Please help
Yes... You are meeting the wrong type... And you don't have to follow any trends... YOU set the limits... The right one will be ok with you wanting to wait until you feel safe and/or comfortable enough to engage in s*xual relationships... wave bouquet
May 23, 2020 3:26 PM CST New to the dating scene
Princess4U1: I have a question, I am new to the dating scene as I have just come out of a long term relationship. It seems that ALL the men I meat expect sex on the first date. Is this the new trend ? Maybe I am meeting the wrong type?

Please help
Welcom to CS cswelcome

Your profile says you are separated. Does that mean separated from a husband or a significant other?

You also say "you get what you see, i dont like to beat around the bush". If you are straight forward maybe the guy you are referring to assumed that you weren't beating around the bush if you were talking about sex.

I was divorced in 1971 and even then men expected sex on the first date so it's not a new trend for today's world.

It doesn't matter what he wants or expects. It's about what you want to do or not do.

The two letter word has the power...........NO
May 23, 2020 3:37 PM CST New to the dating scene
HarbalEsquire: Yes, get to know people before you start sexually arousing them.
Are you talking from personal experience, Herbie?
May 23, 2020 3:40 PM CST New to the dating scene
hijack The OP is probably thinking why did she bother asking for help.
May 23, 2020 3:45 PM CST New to the dating scene
AI_1984: Are you talking from personal experience, Herbie?
I practice what I preach, Daniela. Just ask any woman who knows me. I never sexually aroused a single one of them. scold
May 23, 2020 3:51 PM CST New to the dating scene
Can't help it...….. rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
May 23, 2020 3:52 PM CST New to the dating scene
HarbalEsquire: I practice what I preach, Daniela. Just ask any woman who knows me. I never sexually aroused a single one of them.
laugh we were talking about YOU being aroused, not them! roll eyes
May 23, 2020 3:57 PM CST New to the dating scene
AI_1984: we were talking about YOU being aroused, not them!
I take steps not to get aroused since a certain incident at the public baths, Daniela.
May 23, 2020 4:00 PM CST New to the dating scene
Princess4U1: I have a question, I am new to the dating scene as I have just come out of a long term relationship. It seems that ALL the men I meat expect sex on the first date. Is this the new trend ? Maybe I am meeting the wrong type?

Please help
Most women I meet on a first date want sex before we leave, but they don’t admit it until before the next date, if there is one.

wave
May 23, 2020 4:08 PM CST New to the dating scene
galrads: Most women I meet on a first date want sex before we leave,
Who with? confused
May 23, 2020 4:21 PM CST New to the dating scene
HarbalEsquire: I take steps not to get aroused since a certain incident at the public baths, Daniela.
Oh well..sorry, can't help you dunno
May 23, 2020 4:47 PM CST New to the dating scene
HarbalEsquire: Who with?
I don’t know. I thought it might be rude of me to ask my date that question. wave
May 23, 2020 8:19 PM CST New to the dating scene
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Princess4U1: I have a question, I am new to the dating scene as I have just come out of a long term relationship. It seems that ALL the men I meat expect sex on the first date. Is this the new trend ? Maybe I am meeting the wrong type?

Please help


You probably should take a break, sense you
come out of a long term relationship, you gone
picking through a lot of apples on here to find
somebody descent
May 24, 2020 2:15 AM CST New to the dating scene
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Princess4U1: Hi, Nice to meet you.

I live in a small country and it is very easy to meet up and no need for long term correspondence. So it is not a case of establishing an emontional bond and the guy seeing me already as his gf.
Have to ask the question. Why are you even contemplating sex with a man who you know already has a girlfriend?

Would you like it if your regular fella had a bit on the sidedunno
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