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Happygolucky4u: I go through those spells and then I take a good look around at my choices or accept an invitation out and that takes care of that
I could write a book on what not to say or do if you want to get a womans attention. Or maybe that is it they are trying to get rid of me all I know is I always feel like I dodged a bullet when I get home and am good for another six months.
I'd buy that book I could write a book on what not to say or do if you want to get a womans attention. Or maybe that is it they are trying to get rid of me all I know is I always feel like I dodged a bullet when I get home and am good for another six months.
What do you put that down to ?
Men are all plonkers ?
Geography, it's just the men where you live/socialise.
Too long being single ?
Mericans
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Aragorn11: I'd buy that book
What do you put that down to ?
Men are all plonkers ?
Geography, it's just the men where you live/socialise.
Too long being single ?
Mericans
I know all men are not plonkers. What do you put that down to ?
Men are all plonkers ?
Geography, it's just the men where you live/socialise.
Too long being single ?
Mericans
That is why the every six months I give it a try. I wish it was just where I live but to be honest I live in an area that host people from all over the United States and the world. So that also means it is not just mericans.
I have been single a long time but to be honest if I met someone decent with common sense I would be thrilled. 
I gave up a while back on even hoping. I put it down to several different things. And this is only based on what I have experienced.
I have common sense. It is apparently a uncommon thing for humans to have now a days.
Men absolutely have no idea what to do with me
I am self sufficient and only need their company.
I am a nice person and intend on staying that way.
I don't mind going to bars but also like to do other activities.
And to make things worse I am intelligent. And could possibly bore a dog off a meat truck
The last man I would of liked to of gotten to know .....I worried about his finances. Of course I did not say anything. I don't mind paying for my part
but as adults we need to be able to at least give a hint to what we can and can not afford. I don't want to break someone. There are a lot of things that a couple can do fun for very little money or none at all. Also please do not laugh at things or tell me jokes that involve women being battered by men. I don't find it funny and if you lay a hand on me I suggest you sleep the rest of your life with one eye open
I was born and raised Floridian not just Floridian but southern Floridian. Please if you have a drug problem keep in mind not everyone is cool No I do not know where you can buy drugs in my town. And thank you for sharing with me you have been in rehab for drugs seven times over dinner.
For the love of God if you have known for three days we were going out. Shower.
Hope this has enlightened you a little
I also have been told I intimidate men. If you want to date a decent woman then man up and be a decent man. I love my family, I enjoy what few friends I socialize with and I genuinely want to be a good person in life. I crave being out in nature away from the hustle and bustle of life. And I love to laugh. I don't need to know everything about you. Lets concentrate on who you are when you are with me. Not where you have been.
I think I attract A holes
Sorry you responded aren't you. We just need men like you in my area
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@Happygolucky4u
I know the feeling!!! I'm sure there are some guys who could say the same thing about women but..... what you are saying is so true.
I'm independent,
I can pay for what I want when I want it,
I'm a positive person,
I'm caring,
I'll even cook........
Just don't give me a load of BS and expect that I'll nod and that will be it.
Not happening......
Wish you luck!!
I know the feeling!!! I'm sure there are some guys who could say the same thing about women but..... what you are saying is so true.
I'm independent,
I can pay for what I want when I want it,
I'm a positive person,
I'm caring,
I'll even cook........
Just don't give me a load of BS and expect that I'll nod and that will be it.
Not happening......
Wish you luck!!
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Taralyn: @Happygolucky4u
I know the feeling!!! I'm sure there are some guys who could say the same thing about women but..... what you are saying is so true.
I'm independent,
I can pay for what I want when I want it,
I'm a positive person,
I'm caring,
I'll even cook........
Just don't give me a load of BS and expect that I'll nod and that will be it.
Not happening......
Wish you luck!!
Thank you I know the feeling!!! I'm sure there are some guys who could say the same thing about women but..... what you are saying is so true.
I'm independent,
I can pay for what I want when I want it,
I'm a positive person,
I'm caring,
I'll even cook........
Just don't give me a load of BS and expect that I'll nod and that will be it.
Not happening......
Wish you luck!!
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Happygolucky4u: I know all men are not plonkers. That is why the every six months I give it a try.
I wish it was just where I live but to be honest I live in an area that host people from all over the United States and the world. So that also means it is not just mericans. I have been single a long time but to be honest if I met someone decent with common sense I would be thrilled. I gave up a while back on even hoping.
I put it down to several different things. And this is only based on what I have experienced.
I have common sense. It is apparently a uncommon thing for humans to have now a days.
Men absolutely have no idea what to do with me
I am self sufficient and only need their company.
I am a nice person and intend on staying that way.
I don't mind going to bars but also like to do other activities.
And to make things worse I am intelligent. And could possibly bore a dog off a meat truck
The last man I would of liked to of gotten to know .....I worried about his finances. Of course I did not say anything. I don't mind paying for my part but as adults we need to be able to at least give a hint to what we can and can not afford. I don't want to break someone. There are a lot of things that a couple can do fun for very little money or none at all.
Also please do not laugh at things or tell me jokes that involve women being battered by men. I don't find it funny and if you lay a hand on me I suggest you sleep the rest of your life with one eye open I was born and raised Floridian not just Floridian but southern Floridian.
Please if you have a drug problem keep in mind not everyone is cool No I do not know where you can buy drugs in my town. And thank you for sharing with me you have been in rehab for drugs seven times over dinner.
For the love of God if you have known for three days we were going out. Shower.
Hope this has enlightened you a little I also have been told I intimidate men. If you want to date a decent woman then man up and be a decent man.
I love my family, I enjoy what few friends I socialize with and I genuinely want to be a good person in life. I crave being out in nature away from the hustle and bustle of life. And I love to laugh. I don't need to know everything about you. Lets concentrate on who you are when you are with me. Not where you have been.
I think I attract A holes
Sorry you responded aren't you. We just need men like you in my area
Jeez a lot to unpack, but thanks for responding I wish it was just where I live but to be honest I live in an area that host people from all over the United States and the world. So that also means it is not just mericans. I have been single a long time but to be honest if I met someone decent with common sense I would be thrilled. I gave up a while back on even hoping.
I put it down to several different things. And this is only based on what I have experienced.
I have common sense. It is apparently a uncommon thing for humans to have now a days.
Men absolutely have no idea what to do with me
I am self sufficient and only need their company.
I am a nice person and intend on staying that way.
I don't mind going to bars but also like to do other activities.
And to make things worse I am intelligent. And could possibly bore a dog off a meat truck
The last man I would of liked to of gotten to know .....I worried about his finances. Of course I did not say anything. I don't mind paying for my part but as adults we need to be able to at least give a hint to what we can and can not afford. I don't want to break someone. There are a lot of things that a couple can do fun for very little money or none at all.
Also please do not laugh at things or tell me jokes that involve women being battered by men. I don't find it funny and if you lay a hand on me I suggest you sleep the rest of your life with one eye open I was born and raised Floridian not just Floridian but southern Floridian.
Please if you have a drug problem keep in mind not everyone is cool No I do not know where you can buy drugs in my town. And thank you for sharing with me you have been in rehab for drugs seven times over dinner.
For the love of God if you have known for three days we were going out. Shower.
Hope this has enlightened you a little I also have been told I intimidate men. If you want to date a decent woman then man up and be a decent man.
I love my family, I enjoy what few friends I socialize with and I genuinely want to be a good person in life. I crave being out in nature away from the hustle and bustle of life. And I love to laugh. I don't need to know everything about you. Lets concentrate on who you are when you are with me. Not where you have been.
I think I attract A holes
Sorry you responded aren't you. We just need men like you in my area
Can I copy and paste and start a thread
It certainly seems you are not meeting the right sort of person for you and I don't know why that is.
Sure at our age, there is going to be baggage, but financial independence, hygiene, drug free and someone who want's to actually listen and care about what we are saying is not too much to ask for.
Or is it ?
The reason your post struck a chord with me was because of Covid Lockdown measures here. I'm happy out normally on y own and have been in some relationships since I divorced 15 years ago, which I enjoyed but have also enjoyed being on my own and doing my own thing. The Lockdown got to me though, there was suddenly a void where intimacy was not available. I'm a hugger
and not being able to go out and meet friends was difficult for me. I'm not just talking physical intimacy, I began to long for looking at a partner, and her returning your look, and all you see is love and reassurance. But it got me thinking, am I too long on my own, and would I be able to allow someone into my life fully. I'd like to think so, but I like the toilet seat up
You get my drift, my habits are not someone else's and vice versa.Thank you,
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Ahem.....cough cough
Very thirsty all of a sudden.
Could do with a nice warm fluffy duck!!
Very thirsty all of a sudden.
Could do with a nice warm fluffy duck!!
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Aragorn11: Jeez a lot to unpack, but thanks for responding
Can I copy and paste and start a thread
It certainly seems you are not meeting the right sort of person for you and I don't know why that is.
Sure at our age, there is going to be baggage, but financial independence, hygiene, drug free and someone who want's to actually listen and care about what we are saying is not too much to ask for.
Or is it ?
The reason your post struck a chord with me was because of Covid Lockdown measures here. I'm happy out normally on y own and have been in some relationships since I divorced 15 years ago, which I enjoyed but have also enjoyed being on my own and doing my own thing. The Lockdown got to me though, there was suddenly a void where intimacy was not available. I'm a hugger and not being able to go out and meet friends was difficult for me. I'm not just talking physical intimacy, I began to long for looking at a partner, and her returning your look, and all you see is love and reassurance.
But it got me thinking, am I too long on my own, and would I be able to allow someone into my life fully. I'd like to think so, but I like the toilet seat up You get my drift, my habits are not someone else's and vice versa.
Thank you, the climate and golf courses would probably suit me
Can I copy and paste and start a thread
It certainly seems you are not meeting the right sort of person for you and I don't know why that is.
Sure at our age, there is going to be baggage, but financial independence, hygiene, drug free and someone who want's to actually listen and care about what we are saying is not too much to ask for.
Or is it ?
The reason your post struck a chord with me was because of Covid Lockdown measures here. I'm happy out normally on y own and have been in some relationships since I divorced 15 years ago, which I enjoyed but have also enjoyed being on my own and doing my own thing. The Lockdown got to me though, there was suddenly a void where intimacy was not available. I'm a hugger and not being able to go out and meet friends was difficult for me. I'm not just talking physical intimacy, I began to long for looking at a partner, and her returning your look, and all you see is love and reassurance.
But it got me thinking, am I too long on my own, and would I be able to allow someone into my life fully. I'd like to think so, but I like the toilet seat up You get my drift, my habits are not someone else's and vice versa.
Thank you, the climate and golf courses would probably suit me
It felt awful good to get it off my chest. I do understand the lockdown measures playing with peoples emotions. The not being to get close to anyone anymore. You can't even see their facial expressions with the stupid mask 
You talk about bad habits, most reasonable bad habits if you love and care about someone you adjust to them. I don't think we have been single to long. I think as we age our time here becomes more important and we are less likely to settle. Leaving the toilet seat up I could handle. Drugs, rudeness or being obnoxious. Not bathing. No I could not. If you like to golf yes this is the place for you Copy and paste away. ------ This thread has reached the limit ------
deedee123xo: Ahem.....cough cough
Very thirsty all of a sudden.
That'll be all the pinot grigio. Drink more water to stay hydrated.Very thirsty all of a sudden.
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There's some right nut jobs out there. Still, gave me a larf.
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Happygolucky4u: I know all men are not plonkers. That is why the every six months I give it a try.
I wish it was just where I live but to be honest I live in an area that host people from all over the United States and the world. So that also means it is not just mericans. I have been single a long time but to be honest if I met someone decent with common sense I would be thrilled. I gave up a while back on even hoping.
I put it down to several different things. And this is only based on what I have experienced.
I have common sense. It is apparently a uncommon thing for humans to have now a days.
Men absolutely have no idea what to do with me
I am self sufficient and only need their company.
I am a nice person and intend on staying that way.
I don't mind going to bars but also like to do other activities.
And to make things worse I am intelligent. And could possibly bore a dog off a meat truck
The last man I would of liked to of gotten to know .....I worried about his finances. Of course I did not say anything. I don't mind paying for my part but as adults we need to be able to at least give a hint to what we can and can not afford. I don't want to break someone. There are a lot of things that a couple can do fun for very little money or none at all.
Also please do not laugh at things or tell me jokes that involve women being battered by men. I don't find it funny and if you lay a hand on me I suggest you sleep the rest of your life with one eye open I was born and raised Floridian not just Floridian but southern Floridian.
Please if you have a drug problem keep in mind not everyone is cool No I do not know where you can buy drugs in my town. And thank you for sharing with me you have been in rehab for drugs seven times over dinner.
For the love of God if you have known for three days we were going out. Shower.
Hope this has enlightened you a little I also have been told I intimidate men. If you want to date a decent woman then man up and be a decent man.
I love my family, I enjoy what few friends I socialize with and I genuinely want to be a good person in life. I crave being out in nature away from the hustle and bustle of life. And I love to laugh. I don't need to know everything about you. Lets concentrate on who you are when you are with me. Not where you have been.
I think I attract A holes
Sorry you responded aren't you. We just need men like you in my area
Empathise!!! I wish it was just where I live but to be honest I live in an area that host people from all over the United States and the world. So that also means it is not just mericans. I have been single a long time but to be honest if I met someone decent with common sense I would be thrilled. I gave up a while back on even hoping.
I put it down to several different things. And this is only based on what I have experienced.
I have common sense. It is apparently a uncommon thing for humans to have now a days.
Men absolutely have no idea what to do with me
I am self sufficient and only need their company.
I am a nice person and intend on staying that way.
I don't mind going to bars but also like to do other activities.
And to make things worse I am intelligent. And could possibly bore a dog off a meat truck
The last man I would of liked to of gotten to know .....I worried about his finances. Of course I did not say anything. I don't mind paying for my part but as adults we need to be able to at least give a hint to what we can and can not afford. I don't want to break someone. There are a lot of things that a couple can do fun for very little money or none at all.
Also please do not laugh at things or tell me jokes that involve women being battered by men. I don't find it funny and if you lay a hand on me I suggest you sleep the rest of your life with one eye open I was born and raised Floridian not just Floridian but southern Floridian.
Please if you have a drug problem keep in mind not everyone is cool No I do not know where you can buy drugs in my town. And thank you for sharing with me you have been in rehab for drugs seven times over dinner.
For the love of God if you have known for three days we were going out. Shower.
Hope this has enlightened you a little I also have been told I intimidate men. If you want to date a decent woman then man up and be a decent man.
I love my family, I enjoy what few friends I socialize with and I genuinely want to be a good person in life. I crave being out in nature away from the hustle and bustle of life. And I love to laugh. I don't need to know everything about you. Lets concentrate on who you are when you are with me. Not where you have been.
I think I attract A holes
Sorry you responded aren't you. We just need men like you in my area
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Only 30 degrees here, cold
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deviantsIice: That'll be all the pinot grigio. Drink more water to stay hydrated.
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Keep it going
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Popped on to see if some people were here, and they aren't.
Nap time, my head hurts.
Nap time, my head hurts.
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serene56: So annoying when you go out to do a big grocery shop and come home with a bag of dog kibble, a loaf of bread, two cans of sardines and a packet of crackers
It wasn't your fault Serene. Those were the only things in the store
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I haven't felt like this for quite some time.
It's a good sign.
I could write a book on what not to say or do if you want to get a womans attention. Or maybe that is it they are trying to get rid of me