I see some of the ladies want ( boy toys ) or ask for a male from 2 years younger to 60 years younger I have turned doen any female under 60. should I think about dating someone in their 20s, 30, 40 or 50s? I tell them I am not looking to adopt but it's hard to find a female near my age.
and why are their so many in London 1/2 my age looking for someone 2 times their own age ?
tyersal: I see some of the ladies want ( boy toys ) or ask for a male from 2 years younger to 60 years younger I have turned doen any female under 60. should I think about dating someone in their 20s, 30, 40 or 50s? I tell them I am not looking to adopt but it's hard to find a female near my age.
and why are their so many in London 1/2 my age looking for someone 2 times their own age ?
tyersal: I see some of the ladies want ( boy toys ) or ask for a male from 2 years younger to 60 years younger I have turned doen any female under 60. should I think about dating someone in their 20s, 30, 40 or 50s? I tell them I am not looking to adopt but it's hard to find a female near my age.
and why are their so many in London 1/2 my age looking for someone 2 times their own age ?
Simple economics - UK ( and many other western nations ) have divorce regulations that provide extremely generously for the woman in the event of a divorce, and often after remarkably short time spans.
Old guys have 'old skool attitudes' and are probably less likely to raise the issue of a pre-nuptial agreement again 'perhaps' because they regard marriage as 'permanent, maybe they don;t have family to leave wealth to.
There's an old saying that "love is blind'
That's not true, but certainly many have been dazzled into (at least) temporary blindness !
Just how it goes 'Marry in haste - repent (and pay for it ) at leisure eh ???
tyersal: I see some of the ladies want ( boy toys ) or ask for a male from 2 years younger to 60 years younger I have turned doen any female under 60. should I think about dating someone in their 20s, 30, 40 or 50s? I tell them I am not looking to adopt but it's hard to find a female near my age.
and why are their so many in London 1/2 my age looking for someone 2 times their own age ?
Why not if you are rich?
But after the second thought: you are allowed to think even if you are poor. As long as you keep it to yourself :)
1) I never say 'trust me on this' but it's either that or go do your own research
2) Fewer and fewer people in London have cars ... expensive to park, and there's an horrendous 'daily congestion charging' racket in play ! I dunno ... maybe kayak is an option but anything that's not screwed down or at least heavily secured tends to go missing quite quickly!
But sporty gals ( such as would kayak anywhere anyway tend to have their pick of athletic younger men - so, less chance of her seeking a quick Life Insurance (or divorce payout maybe ? )
HexagonKeySet: 1) I never say 'trust me on this' but it's either that or go do your own research
2) Fewer and fewer people in London have cars ... expensive to park, and there's an horrendous 'daily congestion charging' racket in play ! I dunno ... maybe kayak is an option but anything that's not screwed down or at least heavily secured tends to go missing quite quickly!
But sporty gals ( such as would kayak anywhere anyway tend to have their pick of athletic younger men - so, less chance of her seeking a quick Life Insurance (or divorce payout maybe ? )
1. I will read yours, when you've conducted one.
2. That's often the misunderstanding between Ingerlunders and the rest of the world comes from: the Ingerlunders talk about their own problems as if those problems were global, but most often than not your wee problems are not especially known outside your village. The rest of the world tries to look on a problem brother, more inclusive, so to say, more general, but I doubt it's possible to explain to an Ingerlunder.
I'd agree, though, that parking space costs more in bigger town overall in the world, but sure it's not a problem for the rich or?
Tulefell: 1. I will read yours, when you've conducted one. Rolls eyes, my post IS based upon my personal research, and supported by any number of global studied
2. That's often the misunderstanding between Ingerlunders and the rest of the world comes from: the Ingerlunders talk about their own problems as if those problems were global, but most often than not your wee problems are not especially known outside your village. The rest of the world tries to look on a problem brother, more inclusive, so to say, more general, but I doubt it's possible to explain to an Ingerlunder. Oh Gawd ... rolls eyes again! I'd forgotten that you Turnips (I mean Swedes, spend half your life in complete darkness, half the time unable to sleep because of the long hours of daylight and most of all the time driving old volvos while under the affluence of incohol ) ** See Link
I'd agree, though, that parking space costs more in bigger town overall in the world, but sure it's not a problem for the rich or?
AT LAST something to agree upon ... but, if the woman were already RICH would she be looking for an elderly (prospective) Sugar Daddy
Svedish Volvo Cross Country Police car ... Fine car ( though Volvo is now a Chinese (Geely) owned brand - but who knows what the guy is gibbering on about though
but, if the woman were already RICH would she be looking for an elderly (prospective) Sugar Daddy
Do they really? Ain't it the case that OP is talking about scammers?
It's not so difficult to find a woman in her 60s, here or in the real life. It's also not so difficult to block certain ages (nationalities), if OP is so much disturbed by the attention from younger women. But why should he?
Tulefell: but, if the woman were already RICH would she be looking for an elderly (prospective) Sugar Daddy
Thanks for reiterating the point I was making myself
Do they really? Ain't it the case that OP is talking about scammers?
I'm not certain that the OP was actually talking about, or is much aware of the extent of scamming that goes on on these sites (though CS have acted very promptly when I or others I know have reported them)
It's not so difficult to find a woman in her 60s, here or in the real life. It's also not so difficult to block certain ages (nationalities), if OP is so much disturbed by the attention from younger women. But why should he?
Do I need to / have to point that YOU are a woman and that y've been here since Moses brought the tablets down the mountain. IF IT WERE truly that easy then SURELY someone would have found you and swept you away from this place by now
tyersal: I see some of the ladies want ( boy toys ) or ask for a male from 2 years younger to 60 years younger I have turned doen any female under 60. should I think about dating someone in their 20s, 30, 40 or 50s? I tell them I am not looking to adopt but it's hard to find a female near my age.
and why are their so many in London 1/2 my age looking for someone 2 times their own age ?
Personally, I would be inclined to think the nearer to one's own age the better. Once someone moves into the realm of two or three times their age (or multiples younger) then it gets a bit creepy and their motives may well be questionable.
You should do what makes you happy really...and not worry about what other's may think....However, if you do decide to go for some girl way younger than you then have fun, enjoy it, but be aware their motives may not be genuine...especially if they have no ambition, and/or interest in serious education, and/or future plans that involve hard work on her part.....run a mile from the femme fatales, regardless of age.
It's like every ounce of common sense that was ever written by all the women here (since inception of the site) had been distilled down and put into your profile !!!
( pssst, can ye teach some of the others on here, I know ... bl**dy big ask !!!! )
HexagonKeySet: @ Blathin ... you cannot possibly be real !!!
It's like every ounce of common sense that was ever written by all the women here (since inception of the site) had been distilled down and put into your profile !!!
( pssst, can ye teach some of the others on here, I know ... bl**dy big ask !!!! )
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I have turned doen any female under 60. should I think about dating someone in their 20s, 30, 40 or 50s?
I tell them I am not looking to adopt but it's hard to find a female near my age.
and why are their so many in London 1/2 my age looking for someone 2 times their own age ?