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Jun 20, 2020 10:30 AM CST should I or not
tyersal
tyersaltyersalBradford, West Yorkshire, England UK3 Threads 8 Posts
I see some of the ladies want ( boy toys ) or ask for a male from 2 years younger to 60 years younger
I have turned doen any female under 60. should I think about dating someone in their 20s, 30, 40 or 50s?
I tell them I am not looking to adopt but it's hard to find a female near my age.

and why are their so many in London 1/2 my age looking for someone 2 times their own age ?
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Jun 21, 2020 9:24 PM CST should I or not
tyersal: I see some of the ladies want ( boy toys ) or ask for a male from 2 years younger to 60 years younger
I have turned doen any female under 60. should I think about dating someone in their 20s, 30, 40 or 50s?
I tell them I am not looking to adopt but it's hard to find a female near my age.

and why are their so many in London 1/2 my age looking for someone 2 times their own age ?
two words: Control/compliancy. professor
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Jun 22, 2020 2:36 AM CST should I or not
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand150 Threads 7 Polls 3,829 Posts
tyersal: I see some of the ladies want ( boy toys ) or ask for a male from 2 years younger to 60 years younger
I have turned doen any female under 60. should I think about dating someone in their 20s, 30, 40 or 50s?
I tell them I am not looking to adopt but it's hard to find a female near my age.

and why are their so many in London 1/2 my age looking for someone 2 times their own age ?
Simple economics - UK ( and many other western nations ) have divorce regulations that provide extremely generously for the woman in the event of a divorce, and often after remarkably short time spans.

Old guys have 'old skool attitudes' and are probably less likely to raise the issue of a pre-nuptial agreement again 'perhaps' because they regard marriage as 'permanent, maybe they don;t have family to leave wealth to.

There's an old saying that "love is blind'

That's not true, but certainly many have been dazzled into (at least) temporary blindness !

Just how it goes 'Marry in haste - repent (and pay for it ) at leisure eh ???

cheers
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Jun 22, 2020 2:57 AM CST should I or not
GeneralBeacon
GeneralBeaconGeneralBeaconNew York, USA2,381 Posts
I say go for it and report back to us. May the force be with you. dancing cheers
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Jun 22, 2020 2:59 AM CST should I or not
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
tyersal: I see some of the ladies want ( boy toys ) or ask for a male from 2 years younger to 60 years younger
I have turned doen any female under 60. should I think about dating someone in their 20s, 30, 40 or 50s?
I tell them I am not looking to adopt but it's hard to find a female near my age.

and why are their so many in London 1/2 my age looking for someone 2 times their own age ?
Why not if you are rich?

But after the second thought: you are allowed to think even if you are poor. As long as you keep it to yourself :)
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Jun 22, 2020 3:09 AM CST should I or not
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand150 Threads 7 Polls 3,829 Posts
Tulefell: Why not if you are rich?
But after the second thought: you are allowed to think even if you are poor. As long as you keep it to yourself :)
Question: Seen any profile where women are advertising for poverty as a trait of their find ?

Besides, she will need taxi fares ...

;-)
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Jun 22, 2020 3:13 AM CST should I or not
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
HexagonKeySet: Question: Seen any profile where women are advertising for poverty as a trait of their find ?

Besides, she will need taxi fares ...

;-)
1. I don't read women's profiles.

2. Can happens she's got her own car. Or kayak :)
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Jun 22, 2020 3:18 AM CST should I or not
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand150 Threads 7 Polls 3,829 Posts
Tulefell: 1. I don't read women's profiles.

2. Can happens she's got her own car. Or kayak :)
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1) I never say 'trust me on this' but it's either that or go do your own research thumbs up

2) Fewer and fewer people in London have cars ... expensive to park, and there's an horrendous 'daily congestion charging' racket in play ! I dunno ... maybe kayak is an option but anything that's not screwed down or at least heavily secured tends to go missing quite quickly!

But sporty gals ( such as would kayak anywhere anyway tend to have their pick of athletic younger men - so, less chance of her seeking a quick Life Insurance (or divorce payout maybe ? )



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Jun 22, 2020 3:30 AM CST should I or not
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
HexagonKeySet: 1) I never say 'trust me on this' but it's either that or go do your own research

2) Fewer and fewer people in London have cars ... expensive to park, and there's an horrendous 'daily congestion charging' racket in play ! I dunno ... maybe kayak is an option but anything that's not screwed down or at least heavily secured tends to go missing quite quickly!

But sporty gals ( such as would kayak anywhere anyway tend to have their pick of athletic younger men - so, less chance of her seeking a quick Life Insurance (or divorce payout maybe ? )
1. I will read yours, when you've conducted one.

2. That's often the misunderstanding between Ingerlunders and the rest of the world comes from: the Ingerlunders talk about their own problems as if those problems were global, but most often than not your wee problems are not especially known outside your village. The rest of the world tries to look on a problem brother, more inclusive, so to say, more general, but I doubt it's possible to explain to an Ingerlunder.

I'd agree, though, that parking space costs more in bigger town overall in the world, but sure it's not a problem for the rich or?
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Jun 22, 2020 3:38 AM CST should I or not
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand150 Threads 7 Polls 3,829 Posts
Tulefell: 1. I will read yours, when you've conducted one.
Rolls eyes, my post IS based upon my personal research, and supported by any number of global studied

2. That's often the misunderstanding between Ingerlunders and the rest of the world comes from: the Ingerlunders talk about their own problems as if those problems were global, but most often than not your wee problems are not especially known outside your village. The rest of the world tries to look on a problem brother, more inclusive, so to say, more general, but I doubt it's possible to explain to an Ingerlunder.
Oh Gawd ... rolls eyes again! I'd forgotten that you Turnips (I mean Swedes, spend half your life in complete darkness, half the time unable to sleep because of the long hours of daylight and most of all the time driving old volvos while under the affluence of incohol ) ** See Link

I'd agree, though, that parking space costs more in bigger town overall in the world, but sure it's not a problem for the rich or?

AT LAST something to agree upon ... but, if the woman were already RICH would she be looking for an elderly (prospective) Sugar Daddy
cheers

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Jun 22, 2020 3:41 AM CST should I or not
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand150 Threads 7 Polls 3,829 Posts
Svedish Volvo Cross Country Police car ...
Fine car ( though Volvo is now a Chinese (Geely) owned brand - but who knows what the guy is gibbering on about though

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Jun 22, 2020 3:47 AM CST should I or not
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
but, if the woman were already RICH would she be looking for an elderly (prospective) Sugar Daddy


Do they really? Ain't it the case that OP is talking about scammers?

It's not so difficult to find a woman in her 60s, here or in the real life. It's also not so difficult to block certain ages (nationalities), if OP is so much disturbed by the attention from younger women. But why should he?
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Jun 22, 2020 4:22 AM CST should I or not
PeKaatje
PeKaatjePeKaatjeAnkeveen, North Holland Netherlands59 Threads 3 Polls 6,334 Posts
Should I or not?

No, you shan't.
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Jun 22, 2020 5:19 AM CST should I or not
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand150 Threads 7 Polls 3,829 Posts
Tulefell: but, if the woman were already RICH would she be looking for an elderly (prospective) Sugar Daddy

Thanks for reiterating the point I was making myself

Do they really? Ain't it the case that OP is talking about scammers?

I'm not certain that the OP was actually talking about, or is much aware of the extent of scamming that goes on on these sites (though CS have acted very promptly when I or others I know have reported them)

It's not so difficult to find a woman in her 60s, here or in the real life. It's also not so difficult to block certain ages (nationalities), if OP is so much disturbed by the attention from younger women. But why should he?
Do I need to / have to point that YOU are a woman and that y've been here since Moses brought the tablets down the mountain. IF IT WERE truly that easy then SURELY someone would have found you and swept you away from this place by now

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Jun 22, 2020 5:43 AM CST should I or not
blathin
blathinblathinGlasgow, Central, Scotland UK3,125 Posts
tyersal: I see some of the ladies want ( boy toys ) or ask for a male from 2 years younger to 60 years younger
I have turned doen any female under 60. should I think about dating someone in their 20s, 30, 40 or 50s?
I tell them I am not looking to adopt but it's hard to find a female near my age.

and why are their so many in London 1/2 my age looking for someone 2 times their own age ?
Personally, I would be inclined to think the nearer to one's own age the better. Once someone moves into the realm of two or three times their age (or multiples younger) then it gets a bit creepy and their motives may well be questionable.

You should do what makes you happy really...and not worry about what other's may think....However, if you do decide to go for some girl way younger than you then have fun, enjoy it, but be aware their motives may not be genuine...especially if they have no ambition, and/or interest in serious education, and/or future plans that involve hard work on her part.....run a mile from the femme fatales, regardless of age.

Best of luck with it :)
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Jun 22, 2020 5:44 AM CST should I or not
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
If I had a daughter who was 20 and you even dared try to date her..You would be choking on your dentures.
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Jun 22, 2020 6:04 AM CST should I or not
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand150 Threads 7 Polls 3,829 Posts
Mercedes_00: If I had a daughter who was 20 and you even dared try to date her..You would be choking on your dentures.
I'd imagine any gal of yours would not need your assistance to feed him his dentures



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Jun 22, 2020 6:05 AM CST should I or not
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
HexagonKeySet: I'd imagine any gal of yours would not need your assistance to feed him his dentures
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Jun 22, 2020 6:08 AM CST should I or not
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand150 Threads 7 Polls 3,829 Posts
@ Blathin ... you cannot possibly be real !!!

It's like every ounce of common sense that was ever written by all the women here (since inception of the site) had been distilled down and put into your profile !!!

yay yay yay cheers

( pssst, can ye teach some of the others on here, I know ... bl**dy big ask !!!! )
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Jun 22, 2020 6:09 AM CST should I or not
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
HexagonKeySet: @ Blathin ... you cannot possibly be real !!!

It's like every ounce of common sense that was ever written by all the women here (since inception of the site) had been distilled down and put into your profile !!!



( pssst, can ye teach some of the others on here, I know ... bl**dy big ask !!!! )
Don't speak for me mister laugh
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