Would you ever.... ( Archived) (17)

.....start cursing at your love one if they got you mad?

All the time

Nope..you can't ever take words back

sure..

You mean I'm supposed to be mad first???

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if he was the one who got me mad then yes i would

Gotta agree JJ

I think it's human for anyone to snap in a moment of extreme frustration. Although, I can't honestly remember the last time I've done that.

But I think the important thing is that if you can realize what you've done the instant you've done it, and then take a deep breath to regain your composure and apologize, then you are doing very well.

Those who go off the deep end and allow their anger to escalate into an endless rant are the people who have some serious issues to contend with.

If a person's frustration and anger lasts for more than a full minute (which would already be an eternity) then they have serious self-control problems and should look into attending anger management classes.

Couples who argue at the top of their lungs for extended periods of time both have serious maturity issues to deal with. That kind of arguing is NOT healthy, nor is it 'natural'.

See: Anger Managment 101