If this is the fundamental difference between a girl and a woman how do they become the woman of their dreams? Is it little thrills versus seeing the whole picture? Do they have to find galrads first? Does anything matter?
Ah everyone loves a bit of romance..even those who swear black and blue they don't...
What has been the woman of her dreams got to do with romance? Galrads? They're not mutually exclusive you know
secretagent09: I'm not a gold digger however I do prefer to pay for my own food/drink on the first meeting. If it turns into a real first date I still offer to pay for half of the check.
One time I had a first meeting with someone in a restaurant. I offered to pay for half of the check. He was highly insulted and wouldn't take the money. He said "give it to the waitress" and I did. It was $20.
I later learned that Italian men will never let a woman pay for any part of a date.
I agree SA, my American friend is Italian. We go to this awesome restaurant called Italiano Joe's in Hammonton. They make their own pasta. bread etc......He always pays but when we go to Walmart or another supermarket. I foot the bill and also do all the cooking at his place. I pay for the petrol for his truck. After all, I'm staying at his house. Fair's fair in my book
If this is the fundamental difference between a girl and a woman how do they become the woman of their dreams? Is it little thrills versus seeing the whole picture? Do they have to find galrads first? Does anything matter?
Do what you want to do Gally. It's your life not anyone else's. Yeah! it's a bit of a laugh on this site, just go with the flow
Your life and your choice. You don't need anyones approval..............
I think we all like a bit of romance no matter what age we are. But what I see as romantic has changed as I got older before it was material things . Now it would be actions and words
secretagent09: What you suggest is partly true. A young girl does look for romance.....gazing at the stars, walks on the beach, holding hands, candlelight dinners all that B.S.
A woman doesn't look for someone to "make" her life. She looks for someone to enhance the life she already has.
Nothing wrong with a little romance and making dates forever
If this is the fundamental difference between a girl and a woman how do they become the woman of their dreams? Is it little thrills versus seeing the whole picture? Do they have to find galrads first? Does anything matter?
Life just seems to have a way of turning many of us into a woman of our dreams. What we have experienced and how we have handled it. As humans each of us have our own vision as what is the woman of OUR dreams. For me it was to be able to live comfortable inside my own skin. To look in the mirror and be happy where I am at in life. It is funny how this simple question turned into conversation of romance and etc. I know for me romance and men have had very little if at all anything to do with me turning from girl to woman. With that I must say I have appreciated the romance that has visited me in my life time. And would love to find someone to hold me close and dance with me once more to the music of Frank Sinatra and Dean Martin as our dinner is cooking in the kitchen. Does anything matter? Only if you want it to
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