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Why do a lot of women settle for jerks ? (64)

Sep 21, 2020 8:59 AM CST Why do a lot of women settle for jerks ?
I think this mostly happens for one simple reason. Can you guess what the reason is?

I would like to see you have Free lifetime membership on CS if you can guess what I believe creates this fatal attraction.


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beer
Sep 21, 2020 9:32 AM CST Why do a lot of women settle for jerks ?
Mountains of pistachios. dunno
Sep 21, 2020 9:33 AM CST Why do a lot of women settle for jerks ?
AI_1984
AI_1984AI_1984Pueblo del Mar, Murcia Spain17 Threads 1,010 Posts
galrads: I think this mostly happens for one simple reason. Can you guess what the reason is?

I would like to see you have Free lifetime membership on CS if you can guess what I believe creates this fatal attraction.
Probably because they don't value themselves and settle for second bests?
Sep 21, 2020 9:34 AM CST Why do a lot of women settle for jerks ?
galrads: I think this mostly happens for one simple reason. Can you guess what the reason is?

I would like to see you have Free lifetime membership on CS if you can guess what I believe creates this fatal attraction.
What do you consider to be ''a jerk''?
Sep 21, 2020 9:38 AM CST Why do a lot of women settle for jerks ?
Maybe because they think life is short and do not want to lose their chance.
Sep 21, 2020 9:42 AM CST Why do a lot of women settle for jerks ?
Selenite: What do you consider to be ''a jerk''?
To me, a jerk gets angry and has melt downs and goes ballistic usually without provocation. He is the center of a woman’s world. He cues in on what a lot of women try and keep secret and then uses it clandestinely against her making himself kind of addictive to please,


dunno
Sep 21, 2020 9:44 AM CST Why do a lot of women settle for jerks ?
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia25 Threads 1 Polls 6,445 Posts
galrads: I think this mostly happens for one simple reason. Can you guess what the reason is?

I would like to see you have Free lifetime membership on CS if you can guess what I believe creates this fatal attraction.
When i hear that a Guy say Why do a lot of women settle for jerks - its in 99.95 percent cause his Woman left him for a bigger schwanzstückerlaugh
Sep 21, 2020 9:45 AM CST Why do a lot of women settle for jerks ?
GeneralBeacon: Mountains of pistachios.
laugh from Iran, Turkey or Sicily?
Sep 21, 2020 9:49 AM CST Why do a lot of women settle for jerks ?
Dedovix: When i hear that a Guy say Why do a lot of women settle for jerks - its in 99.95 percent cause his Woman left him for a bigger schwanzstücker
Hah! friends told me yesterday about their friend who was a marriage counselor with a daylight-depressive issue during winter days. Her husband and sons recommended she take a vacation to Jamaica. After a couple weeks there she wrote home, sell everything send money, I fell in love with dreadlocks on the beach. True story. laugh
Sep 21, 2020 9:54 AM CST Why do a lot of women settle for jerks ?
galrads: To me, a jerk gets angry and has melt downs and goes ballistic usually without provocation. He is the center of a woman’s world. He cues in on what a lot of women try and keep secret and then uses it clandestinely against her making himself kind of addictive to please,
Thanks for clarifying Gal!

And you reckon that women choose to be with that kind of immature emotional abuser? confused
Or do you reckon may be they (the jerks) put on a great act of being caring people in order to find out all the vulnerable spots of their prey before letting their façade slip?

I think it takes about 90 days (3 months) for the façades of people to slip ...
So paying attention to red flags a little before is useful and especially if not spending lots of time in ano anothers company ...

I don't think women prefer 'jerks'. I think 'jerks' have a kind of 'skill' at making themselves appear and sound 'charming' ...
conversing
Sep 21, 2020 9:58 AM CST Why do a lot of women settle for jerks ?
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia25 Threads 1 Polls 6,445 Posts
galrads: Hah! friends told me yesterday about their friend who was a marriage counselor with a daylight-depressive issue during winter days. Her husband and sons recommended she take a vacation to Jamaica. After a couple weeks there she wrote home, sell everything send money, I fell in love with dreadlocks on the beach. True story.
laugh laugh laugh
Sep 21, 2020 10:08 AM CST Why do a lot of women settle for jerks ?
Selenite: Thanks for clarifying Gal!

And you reckon that women choose to be with that kind of immature emotional abuser?
Or do you reckon may be they (the jerks) put on a great act of being caring people in order to find out all the vulnerable spots of their prey before letting their façade slip?

I think it takes about 90 days (3 months) for the façades of people to slip ...
So paying attention to red flags a little before is useful and especially if not spending lots of time in ano anothers company ...

I don't think women prefer 'jerks'. I think 'jerks' have a kind of 'skill' at making themselves appear and sound 'charming' ...
handshake This settling thing happens with men too but, for other reasons. I am not talking about a preference preference but I agree about the skill set you mention.
Sep 21, 2020 10:21 AM CST Why do a lot of women settle for jerks ?
You will struggle to find many women...who would admit to choosing jerks...but a good number have done and they knew the kind of men...they were getting involved with.

Some date men...who remind them of their fathers and think they can change these men...like their mothers never could with their fathers...It's about women thinking they can do the impossible...thinking they can tame these men.... control these men and shape these men into what they think...they want them to be...but it rarely works the way they want it too and then women blame the men for the failed relationshipsroll eyes
Sep 21, 2020 10:26 AM CST Why do a lot of women settle for jerks ?
LeeCharming: You will struggle to find many women...who would admit to choosing jerks...but a good number have done and they knew the kind of men...they were getting involved with.

Some date men...who remind them of their fathers and think they can change these men...like their mothers never could with their fathers...It's about women thinking they can do the impossible...thinking they can tame these men.... control these men and shape these men into what they think...they want them to be...but it rarely works the way they want it too and then women blame the men for the failed relationships
Do you know any guys who admit to choosing 'female jerks'?
May be there aren't any! laugh
Sep 21, 2020 10:31 AM CST Why do a lot of women settle for jerks ?
Selenite: Do you know any guys who admit to choosing 'female jerks'?
May be there aren't any!
Sure i do and some of them usually and eventually use sex as a weapon .... kind of like either a reward or punishment. wave wow
Sep 21, 2020 10:36 AM CST Why do a lot of women settle for jerks ?
I'd settle for this jerk any day Galhug

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Sep 21, 2020 10:37 AM CST Why do a lot of women settle for jerks ?
galrads: To me, a jerk gets angry and has melt downs and goes ballistic usually without provocation. He is the center of a woman’s world. He cues in on what a lot of women try and keep secret and then uses it clandestinely against her making himself kind of addictive to please,
Whether you realize this or not by posting the type of threads you do you're the one who seems angry that you can't find a woman using your methods, your meltdown is more subtle, and yet you still feel intimidated by what other men do and in essence blame women for not responding better to you. If a woman falls for a jerk nothing you say will change this and you simply have to find the female who is attracted to your unusual personality and love for pistachios. Changing your approach may help... but you may need a full makeover. grin
Sep 21, 2020 10:38 AM CST Why do a lot of women settle for jerks ?
galrads: Sure i do and some of them usually and eventually use sex as a weapon .... kind of like either a reward or punishment.
doh using sex as a weapon or manipulative tool! So very very ancient 'technique' from when women had little or no say in the decisions made in the household ... it saddens me that it happened and that it still does ...
I perceive it as a form of prostitution ... uh oh
Sep 21, 2020 10:49 AM CST Why do a lot of women settle for jerks ?
GeneralBeacon: Whether you realize this or not by posting the type of threads you do you're the one who seems angry that you can't find a woman using your methods, your meltdown is more subtle, and yet you still feel intimidated by what other men do and in essence blame women for not responding better to you. If a woman falls for a jerk nothing you say will change this and you simply have to find the female who is attracted to your unusual personality and love for pistachios. Changing your approach may help... but you may need a full makeover.
rolling on the floor laughing
Sep 21, 2020 10:50 AM CST Why do a lot of women settle for jerks ?
Selenite: using sex as a weapon or manipulative tool! So very very ancient 'technique' from when women had little or no say in the decisions made in the household ... it saddens me that it happened and that it still does ...
I perceive it as a form of prostitution ...
Care to discuss the question in the op? wave
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