What kind of relationship trigger(s) have you experienced lately? (37)
galradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 PostsOne that has tripper my trigger is seeing my complaints or opinions dismissed too often. The integrity of a relationship is hosed if supposed partners don’t take the other’s concerns seriously imho.
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I'm not in a relationship to be triggered by anything..When I am triggered I don't stay silent..I say how I feel.
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Mercedes_00: I'm not in a relationship to be triggered by anything..When I am triggered I don't stay silent..I say how I feel.
your right..with me you would see how I feel........
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Butin: your right..with me you would see how I feel........
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Give it your best shot.........
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galrads: One that has tripper my trigger is seeing my complaints or opinions dismissed too often. The integrity of a relationship is hosed if supposed partners don’t take the other’s concerns seriously imho.
The chain on my mood swing just broke......... RUN!------ This thread is Archived ------
galrads: One that has tripper my trigger is seeing my complaints or opinions dismissed too often. The integrity of a relationship is hosed if supposed partners don’t take the other’s concerns seriously imho.
the more I listen to him the smarter he thinks I am...
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galrads: One that has tripper my trigger is seeing my complaints or opinions dismissed too often. The integrity of a relationship is hosed if supposed partners don’t take the other’s concerns seriously imho.
Anyone can complain and share opinions whether what is being put forward is deemed resonable or not.... In my book complaining is playing the victim card, very rarely resolves anything in a healthy way and giving one's opinion on things that have no direct impact on the quality of one's life is just that. An unrequested giving of opinion.
SI find the word 'complain' not very conductive to positive resolutions. I prefer sharing my concern about something and offering a couple of possible solutions to resolve it and ready to listen to any other possible solutions.
My opinion or preference is only important if the ensuing decision will impact the quality of my life.
That's my opinion on it. Not sure if you wanted opinions of just a list of triggers ...
My biggest trigger is when somebody twists what I just said to them in order to manipulate a situation ...
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Well trigger is alive and kicking on here that's for sure.
I've just been told by Tomcatty that none of the men like me on here ,only to be told by Generalbeacon that I'm secretly in love with Tomcatty.
What can one do with such opinionated men
Not that I'm looking but.................
I've just been told by Tomcatty that none of the men like me on here ,only to be told by Generalbeacon that I'm secretly in love with Tomcatty.
What can one do with such opinionated men Not that I'm looking but.................
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galrads: One that has tripper my trigger is seeing my complaints or opinions dismissed too often. The integrity of a relationship is hosed if supposed partners don’t take the other’s concerns seriously imho.
Very littles triggers me on here because I don’t know these people so their opinion of me really doesn’t matter. You need to remember your opinion is exactly that so why worry if some stranger on the internet dismisses it. There are people that log on here just to stir things up and put people down. We are never going to agree with all the things people say so you got to learn to toughen up and let it go over your head.
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Butterflygirl1: Very littles triggers me on here because I don’t know these people so their opinion of me really doesn’t matter. You need to remember your opinion is exactly that so why worry if some stranger on the internet dismisses it. There are people that log on here just to stir things up and put people down. We are never going to agree with all the things people say so you got to learn to toughen up and let it go over your head.
Oh! now, after reading your post I understand A lot of other posts in my threads. I intended to be referring to triggers in real life, not with regard to anyone on cs. I am here a cs member primarily to be entertained. I wish others would realize that and amuse me more often.. 
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galrads: Oh! now, after reading your post I understand A lot of other posts in my threads. I intended to be referring to triggers in real life, not with regard to anyone on cs. I am here a cs member primarily to be entertained. I wish others would realize that and amuse me more often.. Be .
Ah that makes more sense I was wondering why you’d let anyone bother you on here.In real life one of my tiggers is having to repeat myself . I hate having the same conversation over and over again
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Selenite:
My biggest trigger is when somebody twists what I just said to them in order to manipulate a situation ...
Yes, it's totally off-putting, especially so in the real life. It triggers me to discretely disappear out of that person's life without letting them now why. (Which, I think, is one of my (numerous) weaknesses, but that's another subject.)My biggest trigger is when somebody twists what I just said to them in order to manipulate a situation ...
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rohaan: the more I listen to him the smarter he thinks I am...
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Tulefell: Yes, it's totally off-putting, especially so in the real life. It triggers me to discretely disappear out of that person's life without letting them now why. (Which, I think, is one of my (numerous) weaknesses, but that's another subject.)
Ohh yeah!!! I mean in real life …For me it's a bit of a slower process when it happens after you're " a couple" but the tediousness of it becomes a deal breaker after "edition" number "too many" …
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Selenite: Ohh yeah!!! I mean in real life …
For me it's a bit of a slower process when it happens after you're " a couple" but the tediousness of it becomes a deal breaker after "edition" number "too many" …
But we also have a couple of gentlemen on this fair forum as well, who think they can manipulate other participants, especially women :)For me it's a bit of a slower process when it happens after you're " a couple" but the tediousness of it becomes a deal breaker after "edition" number "too many" …
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Tulefell: But we also have a couple of gentlemen on this fair forum as well, who think they can manipulate other participants, especially women :)
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Selenite: There could also be a couple of women who could appear to being manipulated but are having a real laugh
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galrads: hahaha my biggest trigger is when someone has to say, “hey galrads zip up, your barn-door is open.”
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Tulefell: So what are you waiting for?
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