You have to maintain your own balance by seeing the hate for what it is. Recognize it and then extricate yourself from it. Don't let it fester in your life. I avoid hateful people for my own sanity's sake.
mbken: You have to maintain your own balance by seeing the hate for what it is. Recognize it and then extricate yourself from it. Don't let it fester in your life. I avoid hateful people for my own sanity's sake.
Thanks for your contribution MB
I totally agree with you. Clarity helps to not internalise other people's negativity. I think it also helps not to "invite toxic people into our life" as well as walking away from those who we notice feed from hate.
I maybe a bit naive around this but I never realised so many men had such a low opinion of woman. The negative remarks and comments shock me at times. I’m female so I’ve heard the men hating remarks from my friends and don’t like hearing them either.
Every time I read one of these comments all I can think is poor man who hurt you that much.
These are the people that need love the most.
Unfortunately one of the downside to social media and sites like this is people can choose to be whatever or whoever they want and some people choose to be nasty.
Butterflygirl1: I maybe a bit naive around this but I never realised so many men had such a low opinion of woman. The negative remarks and comments shock me at times. I’m female so I’ve heard the men hating remarks from my friends and don’t like hearing them either.
Every time I read one of these comments all I can think is poor man who hurt you that much.
These are the people that need love the most.
Unfortunately one of the downside to social media and sites like this is people can choose to be whatever or whoever they want and some people choose to be nasty.
I put it down to bravado Butterfly. I don't think they realise how other people will interpret their caustic remarks. Hence my comment on keyboard warriors.
germanspitz: I put it down to bravado Butterfly. I don't think they realise how other people will interpret their caustic remarks. Hence my comment on keyboard warriors.
I actually hope so for their sakes or we will have a lot of sad lonely people. Because who would want to listen to that in real life.
germanspitz: I put it down to bravado Butterfly. I don't think they realise how other people will interpret their caustic remarks. Hence my comment on keyboard warriors.
One would have thought that at your age, you would have learnt a little about men
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