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Oct 11, 2020 3:14 PM CST Stuck in your ways .
One2note
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I’ve notice that most people when they age, have formed an opinion on certain things in life & are unwilling to compromise on their ideology towards it .
In an ever changing world , and I’m not just talking about the technological part, but the way the younger generation perceive thing , are you ready to adapt, or are you stuck in your ways ?
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Oct 11, 2020 3:32 PM CST Stuck in your ways .
Selenite
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One2note: I’ve notice that most people when they age, have formed an opinion on certain things in life & are unwilling to compromise on their ideology towards it .
In an ever changing world , and I’m not just talking about the technological part, but the way the younger generation perceive thing , are you ready to adapt, or are you stuck in your ways ?
I've totally radically changed the way I live and work, my diet, my lifestyle since moving to the mountains in Spain …

It's a lifestyle I enjoy now so wouldn't want to change it back to a more unhealthy one but open to expansion on further improvement …
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Oct 11, 2020 3:39 PM CST Stuck in your ways .
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Selenite: I've totally radically changed the way I live and work, my diet, my lifestyle since moving to the mountains in Spain …

It's a lifestyle I enjoy now so wouldn't want to change it back to a more unhealthy one but open to expansion on further improvement …
I was thinking more about you mindset, but I agree about wanting a more tranquil life ..
I’m not sure about the fact that I’m getting old in years , but London is not somewhere I can imagine myself living for much longer .
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Oct 11, 2020 3:50 PM CST Stuck in your ways .
Selenite
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One2note: I was thinking more about you mindset, but I agree about wanting a more tranquil life ..
I’m not sure about the fact that I’m getting old in years , but London is not somewhere I can imagine myself living for much longer .
I think my mind set is ageless … I know younger people than me who feel old and say things like "at my age blah blah blah" as if they were ancient! doh

I think our needs change with experience rather than with just age … it's about making informed choices of what we want for ourselves rather than sticking with what we know for fear of change …
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Oct 11, 2020 3:58 PM CST Stuck in your ways .
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Selenite: I think my mind set is ageless … I know younger people than me who feel old and say things like "at my age blah blah blah" as if they were ancient!

I think our needs change with experience rather than with just age … it's about making informed choices of what we want for ourselves rather than sticking with what we know for fear of change …
When I hear people complaining about the youth of today , I often think myself , I did the exact same thing at that age ..
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Oct 11, 2020 4:07 PM CST Stuck in your ways .
blathin
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One2note: I’ve notice that most people when they age, have formed an opinion on certain things in life & are unwilling to compromise on their ideology towards it .
In an ever changing world , and I’m not just talking about the technological part, but the way the younger generation perceive thing , are you ready to adapt, or are you stuck in your ways ?
I reckon that's what happens as you get older..you gradually trade youth and the enthusiasm of ignorance for age, wisdom and insight...
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Oct 11, 2020 4:12 PM CST Stuck in your ways .
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blathin: I reckon that's what happens as you get older..you gradually trade youth and the enthusiasm of ignorance for age, wisdom and insight...
I think humans are adaptable creatures.
Society expects us to behave in a certain manner..
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Oct 11, 2020 4:15 PM CST Stuck in your ways .
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One2note: I think humans are adaptable creatures.
Society expects us to behave in a certain manner..
If you look at sport for example, there are many sportsman that carry on in their 50s and beyond. There are gym enthusiasts, especially among women , who are fitter in their 60s than in their 20s.
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Oct 11, 2020 4:48 PM CST Stuck in your ways .
I decided at 30 I would get a year younger every year afterwards. I had been reading about the doctor who claimed to cure cancer with visualization and decided to try to be younger . i don't know if it worked but i never think too old for blah blah . i take up new interests all the time
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Oct 11, 2020 4:48 PM CST Stuck in your ways .
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
One2note: When I hear people complaining about the youth of today , I often think myself , I did the exact same thing at that age ..
There are quotes around from scholars in the 1400's complaining about "the youth of today" and about standards of intelligence having "dropped" laugh
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Oct 11, 2020 4:53 PM CST Stuck in your ways .
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WordsAndPics: I decided at 30 I would get a year younger every year afterwards. I had been reading about the doctor who claimed to cure cancer with visualization and decided to try to be younger . i don't know if it worked but i never think too old for blah blah . i take up new interests all the time
Whatever works for you .
It’s not always about physical appearance, but training your brain to believe that time can stand still ..
I may try your theory .wave
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Oct 11, 2020 4:55 PM CST Stuck in your ways .
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Selenite: There are quotes around from scholars in the 1400's complaining about "the youth of today" and about standards of intelligence having "dropped"
It’s not getting better with technology, I can assure you !
Modern day computers have taken over our brains . ( not me personally ) confused laugh
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Oct 11, 2020 5:02 PM CST Stuck in your ways .
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
One2note: I think humans are adaptable creatures.
Society expects us to behave in a certain manner..
I never set "my clock" by society's expectations … there are 3 different society's (countries/cultures) in my family and if I tried to set my clock by any of them I'd be in a permanent quandary …

I set my clock by what I want to do irrespective of if it's been done before or not …

When I was in secondary school (in France) I was told I wasn't clever enough to study maths and science at Bacalaureat level (A levels) so I'd have to do some general studies and become a secretary or similar … I told them I would do no such thing. I wanted to study "Travel and Tourism" … They told me it didn't exist... I replied I didn't care! That's what I wanted to study. I was so insistent that they ended up doing some research on courses and discovered that at the same Bac school where I was going to be doing my supposed "general studies to become a secretary" there was also a "Travel and Tourism" 3 year Bacalaureat course which they had known nothing about! I took the entry exam and passed!!

That's how I tend to go about my life laugh
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Oct 11, 2020 5:03 PM CST Stuck in your ways .
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
One2note: It’s not getting better with technology, I can assure you !
Modern day computers have taken over our brains . ( not me personally )
only if you turn them on laugh
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Oct 11, 2020 5:04 PM CST Stuck in your ways .
blathin
blathinblathinGlasgow, Central, Scotland UK3,125 Posts
WordsAndPics: I decided at 30 I would get a year younger every year afterwards. I had been reading about the doctor who claimed to cure cancer with visualization and decided to try to be younger . i don't know if it worked but i never think too old for blah blah . i take up new interests all the time
yeh, shaking it up and keeping things fresh and/or doing new things and never letting yourself get into a rut is always a good way to keep yourself in good form...and young at heart too I guess...I never really gave the last bit too much thought though, so dunno
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Oct 11, 2020 5:07 PM CST Stuck in your ways .
One2note: Whatever works for you .
It’s not always about physical appearance, but training your brain to believe that time can stand still ..
I may try your theory .
that is what i mean. I am amazed when people consider themselves too old for what they want to do.
In the 80s i heard of a woman of one hundred who went tk Australia to start a new !ife. The doctor was wrong though, now his estate say he never claimed it
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Oct 11, 2020 5:08 PM CST Stuck in your ways .
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Selenite: I never set "my clock" by society's expectations … there are 3 different society's (countries/cultures) in my family and if I tried to set my clock by any of them I'd be in a permanent quandary …

I set my clock by what I want to do irrespective of if it's been done before or not …

When I was in secondary school (in France) I was told I wasn't clever enough to study maths and science at Bacalaureat level (A levels) so I'd have to do some general studies and become a secretary or similar … I told them I would do no such thing. I wanted to study "Travel and Tourism" … They told me it didn't exist... I replied I didn't care! That's what I wanted to study. I was so insistent that they ended up doing some research on courses and discovered that at the same Bac school where I was going to be doing my supposed "general studies to become a secretary" there was also a "Travel and Tourism" 3 year Bacalaureat course which they had known nothing about! I took the entry exam and passed!!

That's how I tend to go about my life
Determination.. a great attribute to have in your persona , especially in a business sense.
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Oct 11, 2020 5:09 PM CST Stuck in your ways .
blathin: yeh, shaking it up and keeping things fresh and/or doing new things and never letting yourself get into a rut is always a good way to keep yourself in good form...and young at heart too I guess...I never really gave the last bit too much thought though, so
I'll send you the bill
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Oct 11, 2020 5:09 PM CST Stuck in your ways .
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
Selenite: only if you turn them on
I think you learn that in the first year of secondary school , if I’m not mistaken dunno laugh
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Oct 11, 2020 5:10 PM CST Stuck in your ways .
Selenite: I never set "my clock" by society's expectations … there are 3 different society's (countries/cultures) in my family and if I tried to set my clock by any of them I'd be in a permanent quandary …

I set my clock by what I want to do irrespective of if it's been done before or not …

When I was in secondary school (in France) I was told I wasn't clever enough to study maths and science at Bacalaureat level (A levels) so I'd have to do some general studies and become a secretary or similar … I told them I would do no such thing. I wanted to study "Travel and Tourism" … They told me it didn't exist... I replied I didn't care! That's what I wanted to study. I was so insistent that they ended up doing some research on courses and discovered that at the same Bac school where I was going to be doing my supposed "general studies to become a secretary" there was also a "Travel and Tourism" 3 year Bacalaureat course which they had known nothing about! I took the entry exam and passed!!

That's how I tend to go about my life
well done.
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