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Oct 28, 2020 10:28 AM CST Overcoming Fear
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
Sometimes in places of great danger, you have to overcome fear to survive.

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Oct 28, 2020 10:38 AM CST Overcoming Fear
blathin
blathinblathinGlasgow, Central, Scotland UK3,125 Posts
bodleing2: Sometimes in places of great danger, you have to overcome fear to survive.
Oh I always wanted to do that climbing...but I never got the chance. There's no chance of it now though lol..

Danger isn't always so obvious as hanging of a cliff face by your bare fingers...sometimes it can be something as simple as your own mindset ..or believes.

Fear can be a great motivator too...and be the essential difference between success and failure...
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Oct 28, 2020 10:40 AM CST Overcoming Fear
Uncle_Bob
Uncle_BobUncle_BobBelgrade, Central Serbia Serbia5 Posts
Quite challenging
i think i can do this, after a few shots of Tequila laugh

joke aside this looks amazing and very demanding , but when it comes to overcoming fear , i often question what is it that Im scared of , pain? being crippled? or death ?
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Oct 28, 2020 10:44 AM CST Overcoming Fear
mikey4691
mikey4691mikey4691Knoxville, Tennessee USA8 Threads 6,868 Posts
Uncle_Bob: Quite challenging
i think i can do this, after a few shots of Tequila

joke aside this looks amazing and very demanding , but when it comes to overcoming fear , i often question what is it that Im scared of , pain? being crippled? or death ?
laugh .. Yeah, hold my beer, I got this... drinking
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Oct 28, 2020 10:47 AM CST Overcoming Fear
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Loooove and live by that quote... bouquet
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Oct 28, 2020 10:48 AM CST Overcoming Fear
Fear was the main element I went into psychotic episode state of mind
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Oct 28, 2020 10:58 AM CST Overcoming Fear
ElysianFields
ElysianFieldsElysianFieldsValletta, Gozo Malta35 Threads 3 Polls 197 Posts
You must be joking. I got sweaty hands just watching the video.
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Oct 28, 2020 11:00 AM CST Overcoming Fear
BTW the fear I had was me convinced I was in the real hell........
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Oct 28, 2020 11:02 AM CST Overcoming Fear
ElysianFields: You must be joking. I got sweaty hands just watching the video.
Have to agree, I find it hard to watch those guys.
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Oct 28, 2020 11:03 AM CST Overcoming Fear
pedro27: BTW the fear I had was me convinced I was in the real hell........
Never needs to happen again Pedro..handshake
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Oct 28, 2020 11:07 AM CST Overcoming Fear
snowlynx: Never needs to happen again Pedro..
Thank mate...thumbs up I feel it will never happen again I have been very well since 2010, Long live good healthwave
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Oct 28, 2020 11:08 AM CST Overcoming Fear
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
bodleing2: Sometimes in places of great danger, you have to overcome fear to survive.
Fear is an essential part of human survival, but sometimes a particular fear may become incapacitating, this is the one it is important to overcome and face, have seemed like Everest, was heights, that climbing wall would have filled me with terror.

I overcame it by familiarity, helped by my instructors . Once that main terror was overcome, it became easier with others.
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Oct 28, 2020 11:11 AM CST Overcoming Fear
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
bodleing2: Sometimes in places of great danger, you have to overcome fear to survive.
Fear is an essential part of human survival, but sometimes a particular fear may become incapacitating, this is the one it is important to overcome and face, mine was heights, that climbing wall would have filled me with terror. and just like everest

I overcame it by familiarity, helped by my instructors. Once that main terror was overcome, it became easier with others.
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Oct 28, 2020 11:11 AM CST Overcoming Fear
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
Uncle_Bob: Quite challenging
i think i can do this, after a few shots of Tequila

joke aside this looks amazing and very demanding , but when it comes to overcoming fear , i often question what is it that Im scared of , pain? being crippled? or death ?
Here's one for you Uncle B...wow

laugh

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Oct 28, 2020 11:31 AM CST Overcoming Fear
Taralyn
TaralynTaralynFunk Island, Newfoundland Canada3 Threads 907 Posts
I have no fear of heights.... can climb up something at any time.
It's the coming back down that poses a problem........

dunno
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Oct 28, 2020 12:32 PM CST Overcoming Fear
Aglaea
AglaeaAglaeaNuuk, Sermersooq Greenland3 Threads 80 Posts
Audaces fortuna iuvat! professor
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Oct 28, 2020 12:39 PM CST Overcoming Fear
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
Aglaea: Audaces fortuna iuvat!
Are you related to Dedovix??
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Oct 28, 2020 12:58 PM CST Overcoming Fear
Aglaea
AglaeaAglaeaNuuk, Sermersooq Greenland3 Threads 80 Posts
tomcatty: Are you related to Dedovix??
No, I'm not. laugh

We just come from the same country, although different parts of it.

I was here two years ago for several months, but nobody seems to remember me. moping laugh
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Oct 28, 2020 2:05 PM CST Overcoming Fear
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
blathin: Oh I always wanted to do that climbing...but I never got the chance. There's no chance of it now though lol..

Danger isn't always so obvious as hanging of a cliff face by your bare fingers...sometimes it can be something as simple as your own mindset ..or believes.

Fear can be a great motivator too...and be the essential difference between success and failure...
Yes, fear can manifest in different ways and one is your own 'mindset'. This is the kind of fear that's concerned about, doing the right thing in order to project a good image. Or to be afraid to say something that might make you seem , unfriendly, bad, stupid. In other words, it's the ego that's misguidedly trying to protect the imagined self. That is where the fear comes in, the gasoline in the vehicle of ego is fear. Anxiety (which is always based in fear) is quiet often a result of this kind of fear.

Then there is irrational fear. This is usually based in the future, disconnected from the present moment, but evaluated through the lens of the past. This is where most phobias reside, in fact the word phobia comes from the Greek phobos meaning fear. Most of our day to day fears are irrational to some degree. Irrational fears can be very powerful and cause great distress to some, causing them to freeze in absolute panic. The fear of heights is a prime example.

Real, authentic fear is a necessary part of our nature and is needed to guide us through life safely. But paradoxically it could be said, that starting out with the right kind of fear is the way to fearlessness. It's a quote I once read and I think it rings true, paticularly with regards to our seemingly fearless climber in the video.
She has evaluated the task, acknowledged the fear, dealt with it and cast it aside. She knows that if at any time on that climb she allows fear to creep in, she's going to come off. Her task is to stay absolutely in the moment in total control of mind and body, and it's a wonderful life confirming feeling.
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Oct 28, 2020 2:08 PM CST Overcoming Fear
TheDino1
TheDino1TheDino1Belfast, Antrim Ireland139 Threads 1 Polls 5,029 Posts
I couldn't watch the video, terrified of heights uh oh I get what Bob's saying though..grin
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