Ya know, there are so many people out in this world that say that they are it. Are there actual people out there that are and on these sites for the real things and not just head games?
Some don't always start out that way but some of them change. I feel like I have met honest people on here. I had enough head games before treatment don't need them, either. Games that you can play like checkers and games in that category are different. There are really people who are really looking to find mates on here. There are people on here who are looking for friendships. There are people who are looking for a combination of the two. Don't be impatient like I have been and just take your time. Having friends will take the lonliness away. I have found that true friendships feel like love at first time. It is amazing what you can learn and how much fun it is to interact with others.
Sure,I beleive there are honest people or I wouldn't be here! You might have to pick and chose to get to them,but I beleive they are here. How does one spot someone playing head games anyway?
It is not easy. Head games can be stereotyped just like people. I went through rehab and most people don't realize how many different kinds of head games there are really. The fine art of manipulation can be learned down to a science. But the old values still apply. If it looks too good to be true then it probably isn't. Your gut instinct will help you. People who are trying to fool others still wind up only fooling themselves. As my good friend says be true. Say ouch when it hurts and get feedback. Take the time to get to know someone for sure. The more time you get to know someone here the less time you will have to pay for it later. Stick with the winners by hanging out with your friends. Go for the friendships first. Study the questions more than the answers. Have fun most of all. Fun people are fun to be around. Don't take it too seriously and learn how to adapt. There are varied types of people in here.
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