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Help me in or out of my coat, open the door for me to the store. Take care of me like a lady , but don't treat me like an incapable invalid either. Use common sense.
The way I was raised is manner is if you reach a door first, you hold it for the next person who is close. I have held it for women and been thanked. And had some sail through like she thinks she is the Queen without a glance. I have held it for men too.
I feel sorry for men today. They have to tip toe around because of some bi**hes who think a compliment is a put down or hit upon.
So, depends on the situation...if there is a lion lurking..YOU go first!