Pedro, with all due respect, when it comes to threads, "less is more" ... No woman likes feeling "swamped" by a multitude of promising conversations that never can get deep enough because before it reaches that stage "the conversation" is being diluted and buried under a multitude of others ... So many threads don't quite reach your goal (I think) of sounding interesting and well read, often making you sound "dispersed" and unsettled ...
May be writing down the new ideas that spring into your mind and starting a new thread when the few you have out have been a little more explored would be a way to achieve more depth ... Although I know sometimes it's not so easy to follow up on our own threads as I have done a few times
Only my observation and opinion. I might very well be mistaken but shared from the heart
Selenite: Pedro, with all due respect, when it comes to threads, "less is more" ... No woman likes feeling "swamped" by a multitude of promising conversations that never can get deep enough because before it reaches that stage "the conversation" is being diluted and buried under a multitude of others ... So many threads don't quite reach your goal (I think) of sounding interesting and well read, often making you sound "dispersed" and unsettled ...
May be writing down the new ideas that spring into your mind and starting a new thread when the few you have out have been a little more explored would be a way to achieve more depth ... Although I know sometimes it's not so easy to follow up on our own threads as I have done a few times
Only my observation and opinion. I might very well be mistaken but shared from the heart
2 be deadly honest i ain't banking on a girlfriend from here
I use this place as a social outlet
i enjoy the forums so much it become a norm 4 me
I think CS can be a bit of dairy where one writes every day
pedro27: ......and still no girlfriend............ ................ /////////////
Pedro, my honey If wishing and wanting and posting and spilling your heart out was the way to get a woman to notice you, you'd have a harem by now. It's all well and good but you also have to go outside, let the wind blow the stink off you and talk to real live people. Go to your local shelter and see if a dog needs to be walked. Take him/her to the park and mingle with the dog owners there. You'll look really cute because you took the time to care about a dog that isn't your own. Like to read? Go to the library. Great place to say "hi", get noticed but without too much pressure. Saying you need to get this in order or that fixed or whatever is called procrastinating. If the same old song and dance is being played over and over, you'll lose anyone who is concerned about you because you really don't want to help yourself. I would love to hear that you've given your number to a lady or had a small chat with a lady. Even better would be that you've made a date with a lady. I'll be dancing for you if that happens but you have to get out there.
Pedro you need to pm women and it seems a number of Irish women post on CS...so you have a choice...but are many of them sock puppet accounts or not? Send them a charming message and see if they reply
Taralyn: Pedro, my honey If wishing and wanting and posting and spilling your heart out was the way to get a woman to notice you, you'd have a harem by now. It's all well and good but you also have to go outside, let the wind blow the stink off you and talk to real live people. Go to your local shelter and see if a dog needs to be walked. Take him/her to the park and mingle with the dog owners there. You'll look really cute because you took the time to care about a dog that isn't your own. Like to read? Go to the library. Great place to say "hi", get noticed but without too much pressure. Saying you need to get this in order or that fixed or whatever is called procrastinating. If the same old song and dance is being played over and over, you'll lose anyone who is concerned about you because you really don't want to help yourself. I would love to hear that you've given your number to a lady or had a small chat with a lady. Even better would be that you've made a date with a lady. I'll be dancing for you if that happens but you have to get out there.
thanks for the tips and advise and your right 100%
Quantity has a quality of its own aka any hole is a goal aka another notch on the bedpost.
And woman is something altogether more selective than a communist. You're the worker the smart worker with an undertone of communism - this'll do, she'll do. Plenty of fish in the sea. You have to under-respect the selection process because eventually you are two people in a relationship, two equal people, and you are taking down the aristocracy every time you successfully date a woman.
Love is actually an abundant resource that turns up when you're not even looking for it. 5000 threads is sort of making women like toilet paper in a pandemic - a scarce yet banal resource when women are abundant and unique. There is only a love shortage through trying too hard and hoarding it all.
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