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Dec 18, 2020 10:31 AM CST The Most Memorable Date
_Luna_
_Luna__Luna_Reykjavík, Capital Region Iceland1 Threads 82 Posts
While painting today I caught myself thinking about various previous dates. There were ordinary ones and unusual ones, romantic ones and funny ones, dinners at nice restaurants, going for a walk or drive afterwards, watching films at the cinema, going to a concert or a visit to a nearby interesting place (a spa, natural resort, amusement park, zoo or some historical monument, like a castle)... The ones I remember the most are the ones when I was most in love and happy. When you are in love - whatever you do with the loved one is fun and special. smile

However, I cannot chose one special date, something that I will always remember and would like to do again. Not any more, at least.

How about you? Is there a date with a special someone you will never forget and would like to repeat (with the same person or someone else)?
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Dec 18, 2020 10:50 AM CST The Most Memorable Date
_Luna_: While painting today I caught myself thinking about various previous dates. There were ordinary ones and unusual ones, romantic ones and funny ones, dinners at nice restaurants, going for a walk or drive afterwards, watching films at the cinema, going to a concert or a visit to a nearby interesting place (a spa, natural resort, amusement park, zoo or some historical monument, like a castle)... The ones I remember the most are the ones when I was most in love and happy. When you are in love - whatever you do with the loved one is fun and special.

However, I cannot chose one special date, something that I will always remember and would like to do again. Not any more, at least.

How about you? Is there a date with a special someone you will never forget and would like to repeat (with the same person or someone else)?
Yes. I couldn't believe how good looking she was. I had for some reason put it into my mind that she wasn't going to be attractive so I got a hell of a shock!
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Dec 18, 2020 11:46 AM CST The Most Memorable Date
_Luna_
_Luna__Luna_Reykjavík, Capital Region Iceland1 Threads 82 Posts
snowlynx: Yes. I couldn't believe how good looking she was. I had for some reason put it into my mind that she wasn't going to be attractive so I got a hell of a shock!
This happened to me once. I met a man from one forum. We never exchanged photos or messages, just met on threads here and there. He was coming to my town and sent me a message asking me if I wanted to meet. I said yes and when we met it was ... wow wow wow laugh We fell in love instantly. heart1 It was such a silly day! We were so enchanted with each other, talked all the time (I had no idea what we talked about laugh ), went here, there, to one cafe, to another, to a restaurant... He came in the morning for just a couple of hours and stayed until midnight! laugh
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Dec 18, 2020 11:50 AM CST The Most Memorable Date
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
Had many dates over the years. Very different ones from the other ... many as worthy as another in their own way ... daydream

... rather than recreate any past experience, I'd rather create new experiences with new memories of "unforgettable moments" smitten
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Dec 18, 2020 11:54 AM CST The Most Memorable Date
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
_Luna_: This happened to me once. I met a man from one forum. We never exchanged photos or messages, just met on threads here and there. He was coming to my town and sent me a message asking me if I wanted to meet. I said yes and when we met it was ... We fell in love instantly. It was such a silly day! We were so enchanted with each other, talked all the time (I had no idea what we talked about ), went here, there, to one cafe, to another, to a restaurant... He came in the morning for just a couple of hours and stayed until midnight!
A Croatian girl, we met in Split, I had seen her on Skype but nothing prepared me for her Blond hair and Green eyes. She was so beautiful. She had to go back to Oz two days later,smitten
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Dec 18, 2020 2:02 PM CST The Most Memorable Date
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
_Luna_: Did I write something wrong?

I wouldn't go back to the past, either. Only new men.
no, i just had a bet with the guys that you`re still a virgin grin
apparently i`ve lost the bet mumbling
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Dec 18, 2020 2:06 PM CST The Most Memorable Date
_Luna_
_Luna__Luna_Reykjavík, Capital Region Iceland1 Threads 82 Posts
Dedovix: no, i just had a bet with the guys that you`re still a virgin
apparently i`ve lost the bet
At my age - it would be a little strange, don't you think? uh oh laugh
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Dec 18, 2020 2:26 PM CST The Most Memorable Date
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
_Luna_: At my age - it would be a little strange, don't you think?
yeah it would but hey, im not judging
laugh
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Dec 18, 2020 3:16 PM CST The Most Memorable Date
_Luna_
_Luna__Luna_Reykjavík, Capital Region Iceland1 Threads 82 Posts
Dedovix: yeah it would but hey, im not judging
You reminded me of something that happened to me in the past.

I used to have pen-pals from various countries, including India. Several Indian men asked me if I had ever had a boyfriend. I was shocked! wow I practically lived with my boyfriend while we were studying at university and I was in my early 20's then and - 20 years later someone asks such a question! wow

But then they explained to me that for many of them dating and relationships were still forbidden before marriage and since I wasn't married they assumed that I'd never had a boyfriend. Then I explained to them that here people often had relationships and even lived together without getting married and they were so surprised!

Different cultures, different rules and customs...
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Dec 18, 2020 3:26 PM CST The Most Memorable Date
Inthewoods
InthewoodsInthewoodsColorado Springs, Colorado USA9,896 Posts
_Luna_: You reminded me of something that happened to me in the past.

I used to have pen-pals from various countries, including India. Several Indian men asked me if I had ever had a boyfriend. I was shocked! I practically lived with my boyfriend while we were studying at university and I was in my early 20's then and - 20 years later someone asks such a question!

But then they explained to me that for many of them dating and relationships were still forbidden before marriage and since I wasn't married they assumed that I'd never had a boyfriend. Then I explained to them that here people often had relationships and even lived together without getting married and they were so surprised!

Different cultures, different rules and customs...
Yes, welcome to the free world... yay ... laugh

It's amazing how different we humans are on Mother earth, so close, but so different... conversing ... wave
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Dec 18, 2020 4:16 PM CST The Most Memorable Date
_Luna_
_Luna__Luna_Reykjavík, Capital Region Iceland1 Threads 82 Posts
Inthewoods: Yes, welcome to the free world... ...

It's amazing how different we humans are on Mother earth, so close, but so different... ...
And that shock when I said that we hadn't had arranged marriages for a hundred years! wow laugh

In India and many other countries people still have arranged marriages. Somewhere it's just an option, but somewhere it's a rule.

Human relationships can vary a lot from one country and culture to another and especially male-female relationships can be very different from what we are used to, so international dating might be rather difficult and demanding.
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Dec 18, 2020 4:59 PM CST The Most Memorable Date
KarloradoFL
KarloradoFLKarloradoFLDeLeon Springs, Florida USA50 Threads 3 Polls 9,475 Posts
Merry Christmas from Florida!!! santa waving reindeer gingerbread
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Dec 19, 2020 12:02 AM CST The Most Memorable Date
_Luna_
_Luna__Luna_Reykjavík, Capital Region Iceland1 Threads 82 Posts
@KarloradoFL

Merry Christmas to you, too! cheers


(I can see that my attempt at making at least one thread about dating and relating failed miserably. crying laugh )
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Dec 19, 2020 1:53 AM CST The Most Memorable Date
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
_Luna_: @KarloradoFL

Merry Christmas to you, too!


(I can see that my attempt at making at least one thread about dating and relating failed miserably. )
Keep tryinglaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
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Dec 19, 2020 2:30 AM CST The Most Memorable Date
_Luna_
_Luna__Luna_Reykjavík, Capital Region Iceland1 Threads 82 Posts
tomcatty: Keep trying
I'm more inclined toward taking another break from the site. laugh
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Dec 19, 2020 2:36 AM CST The Most Memorable Date
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
_Luna_: I'm more inclined toward taking another break from the site.
Ok' nice meeting you.grin
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Dec 19, 2020 3:29 AM CST The Most Memorable Date
_Luna_
_Luna__Luna_Reykjavík, Capital Region Iceland1 Threads 82 Posts
tomcatty: Ok' nice meeting you.
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Dec 28, 2020 7:24 AM CST The Most Memorable Date
Cavalero
CavaleroCavaleroVerviers, Liege Belgium12 Threads 4 Polls 701 Posts
I don't think about the past, I'm in the present and I like to look to the future.
If a date didn't bring a lasting relationship then the date was a mistake as far as I'm concerned and mistakes are to be understood, corrected if possible and we move on.
Because of that... thanks to that, I hardly remember any of the past dates but for maybe a couple.
Sometimes having a bad memory is a blessing in disguise.
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Dec 28, 2020 7:36 AM CST The Most Memorable Date
soulmate2021
soulmate2021soulmate2021Freeport, Exuma Bahamas1 Threads 16 Posts
Cavalero: I don't think about the past, I'm in the present and I like to look to the future.
If a date didn't bring a lasting relationship then the date was a mistake as far as I'm concerned and mistakes are to be understood, corrected if possible and we move on.
Because of that... thanks to that, I hardly remember any of the past dates but for maybe a couple.
Sometimes having a bad memory is a blessing in disguise.
Like someone said earlier whom i agree with..special depends how you felt about the person if there was a connection. If there was the date was a special moment in time no matter if a relationship developed or not
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Dec 28, 2020 8:16 AM CST The Most Memorable Date
Cavalero
CavaleroCavaleroVerviers, Liege Belgium12 Threads 4 Polls 701 Posts
soulmate2021: Like someone said earlier whom i agree with..special depends how you felt about the person if there was a connection. If there was the date was a special moment in time no matter if a relationship developed or not
Unlike many women for whom a "date" is the opportunity for a free meal - - many men ( if not all ) date for the opportunity to spend the rest of their lives with the person they go on a date with.
I can only express opinion from the point of view of a man, not a woman.
I understand that for many women dating is a big game where they have many advantages. Of course, most women are the recipients in a date and most will not even go on a date if they are expected Dutch it.
It's different for men but who cares about that, right?
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