Mocking is catching ( Archived) (56)

Dec 21, 2020 9:39 AM CST Mocking is catching
Valerie_
Valerie_Valerie_Allar, Buenos Aires Argentina4 Threads 1 Polls 80 Posts
gonelikethewimd: For over 5 years, I talked with someone I met on another dating site with forums. It started with a message of a thumbs up, for a song I posted...He was a drummer..in a blues band....

We could talk for hours about anything and everything. But, there was this side of him..that would go Jekyll/Hyde...name calling..yelling...and then the silent treatment...I asked him to not call me anymore.

A few months ago, after not hearing from him in almost 2 years...I get a text from him asking me if I had sold my home and bought a condo....I probably should have never answered that text...

He was all nice at first, then started the little sarcastic put downs all over again....but, most of all it was the put downs of my family...things I had confided in him.

Long story short, he put down almost all of his women neighbors..even one’s who had done favors for him in the past....

Actions speak louder than words...I finally blocked his number....

I have given up on meeting anyone...if it happens in my real world..Great..if not, so be it.
He was a narcissist.
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Dec 21, 2020 9:45 AM CST Mocking is catching
gonelikethewimd
gonelikethewimdgonelikethewimdOsprey, Florida USA3,293 Posts
Valerie_: He was a narcissist.
I know..not the grandiose that most people relate the word to..

A covert one..or, vulnerable one....

I thought that after the first time I talked with him..

Second time...proved myself right.
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Dec 21, 2020 9:52 AM CST Mocking is catching
Bnaughty
BnaughtyBnaughtyMálaga, Andalusia Spain43 Threads 2 Polls 4,685 Posts
pedro27: Be careful of criticising others, lest the same happen to you.


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I love a bit of mockery professor
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Dec 21, 2020 10:18 AM CST Mocking is catching
Bnaughty: I love a bit of mockery
like shotting a gun it can back fire in your faceconversing
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Dec 21, 2020 10:20 AM CST Mocking is catching
Bnaughty
BnaughtyBnaughtyMálaga, Andalusia Spain43 Threads 2 Polls 4,685 Posts
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Dec 21, 2020 10:22 AM CST Mocking is catching
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Dec 21, 2020 10:28 AM CST Mocking is catching
Bnaughty
BnaughtyBnaughtyMálaga, Andalusia Spain43 Threads 2 Polls 4,685 Posts
pedro27: do I return a insult? or be wise and not? 2 questions
I'm testing your theory
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Dec 21, 2020 10:29 AM CST Mocking is catching
Bnaughty
BnaughtyBnaughtyMálaga, Andalusia Spain43 Threads 2 Polls 4,685 Posts
The thumbs down phantom is here.........
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Dec 21, 2020 10:31 AM CST Mocking is catching
Bnaughty: I'm testing your theory
i am only one in a hundred 1%
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Dec 21, 2020 10:33 AM CST Mocking is catching
Bnaughty
BnaughtyBnaughtyMálaga, Andalusia Spain43 Threads 2 Polls 4,685 Posts
pedro27: i am only one in a hundred 1%
There are 99 more like you?
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Dec 21, 2020 11:04 AM CST Mocking is catching
Valerie_
Valerie_Valerie_Allar, Buenos Aires Argentina4 Threads 1 Polls 80 Posts
gonelikethewimd: I know..not the grandiose that most people relate the word to..

A covert one..or, vulnerable one....

I thought that after the first time I talked with him..

Second time...proved myself right.
I hear ya, covert/vulnerable ones do the most damage in my experience.

Hugz teddybear
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Dec 21, 2020 1:02 PM CST Mocking is catching
Butterflygirl1
Butterflygirl1Butterflygirl1Dublin, Ireland1,080 Posts
gonelikethewimd: For over 5 years, I talked with someone I met on another dating site with forums. It started with a message of a thumbs up, for a song I posted...He was a drummer..in a blues band....

We could talk for hours about anything and everything. But, there was this side of him..that would go Jekyll/Hyde...name calling..yelling...and then the silent treatment...I asked him to not call me anymore.

A few months ago, after not hearing from him in almost 2 years...I get a text from him asking me if I had sold my home and bought a condo....I probably should have never answered that text...

He was all nice at first, then started the little sarcastic put downs all over again....but, most of all it was the put downs of my family...things I had confided in him.

Long story short, he put down almost all of his women neighbors..even one’s who had done favors for him in the past....

Actions speak louder than words...I finally blocked his number....

I have given up on meeting anyone...if it happens in my real world..Great..if not, so be it.
Sorry to read this happened to you people can be cruel teddybear
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Dec 21, 2020 5:36 PM CST Mocking is catching
Butin
ButinButinIngatestone, Essex, England UK17 Threads 1,900 Posts
pedro27: do I return a insult? or be wise and not? 2 questions
. My advice to you. Pedro......agree. With every one.......don't voice your opinions. .......there are thos. Who love rubbing your nose in the mud.........just to give the impression of how clever they are.........just. To impress others..........wave wave wave beware. wave professor
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Dec 22, 2020 4:39 AM CST Mocking is catching
Butin
ButinButinIngatestone, Essex, England UK17 Threads 1,900 Posts
Butin: do I return a insult? or be wise and not? 2 questions
. My advice to you. Pedro......agree. With every one.......don't voice your opinions. .......there are thos. Who love rubbing your nose in the mud.........just to give the impression of how clever they are.........just. To impress others.......... beware. bing...grin
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Dec 26, 2020 7:07 PM CST Mocking is catching
Cavalero
CavaleroCavaleroVerviers, Liege Belgium12 Threads 4 Polls 701 Posts
Melody1671: Don't give anyone the power to determine how you feel, Pedro... What a person posts here, says more about them than about the person they are trying to mock, damage, or hurt in any way... Never forget that...
Well said thumbs up
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Dec 26, 2020 7:38 PM CST Mocking is catching
rohaan
rohaanrohaanCoos Bay, Oregon USA229 Threads 10,460 Posts
gonelikethewimd: For over 5 years, I talked with someone I met on another dating site with forums. It started with a message of a thumbs up, for a song I posted...He was a drummer..in a blues band....

We could talk for hours about anything and everything. But, there was this side of him..that would go Jekyll/Hyde...name calling..yelling...and then the silent treatment...I asked him to not call me anymore.

A few months ago, after not hearing from him in almost 2 years...I get a text from him asking me if I had sold my home and bought a condo....I probably should have never answered that text...

He was all nice at first, then started the little sarcastic put downs all over again....but, most of all it was the put downs of my family...things I had confided in him.

Long story short, he put down almost all of his women neighbors..even one’s who had done favors for him in the past....

Actions speak louder than words...I finally blocked his number....

I have given up on meeting anyone...if it happens in my real world..Great..if not, so be it.
There are an astonishing number of people out there who just snipe all the time...and seem to think it’s “ normal”. Sorry you had to go through this.teddybear
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Dec 28, 2020 7:59 AM CST Mocking is catching
rohaan
rohaanrohaanCoos Bay, Oregon USA229 Threads 10,460 Posts
pedro27: I mostly talk from the heart
Just a thought: go to some other members’ forum threads and read/participate instead of just creating more and more threads of your own. Hint: many of the diverse topics you present are legion— it’s like asking why the sky is blue...absorb some adages from others— it’s good for you.handshake
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Dec 28, 2020 8:02 AM CST Mocking is catching
rohaan: Just a thought: go to some other members’ forum threads and read/participate instead of just creating more and more threads of your own. Hint: many of the diverse topics you present are legion— it’s like asking why the sky is blue...absorb some adages from others— it’s good for you.
I can do what I want ignore or don't post on them its a choice
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Dec 28, 2020 8:05 AM CST Mocking is catching
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
Bnaughty: I love a bit of mockery
You are a bit of mockerylaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

sorry palbeer
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Dec 28, 2020 9:18 AM CST Mocking is catching
rohaan
rohaanrohaanCoos Bay, Oregon USA229 Threads 10,460 Posts
pedro27: I can do what I want ignore or don't post on them its a choice
Hey guy— it was just a suggestion. Look at the comments you’re getting...it’s not that I don’t like some of your rhetoric, so your snotty retort was displaced. And I’ll write in this, or any other topic thread, as I want to. If YOU don’t like it, YOU can do something else. You are not making any headway with your attitude. Try again, but think first. If you want folks to be interested in what you have to say, you need to do it in a way that causes them to WANT to...but to step away from negativity, I’ll go...don’t have time for blathering poopers — so, Pedro, a victory for you— one less reader. Bon chance, Bouche- pet...cool
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