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Dec 27, 2020 2:20 PM CST Any dates on Connecting Singles
U2kitti
U2kittiU2kittiHovedstaden, Zealand Denmark78 Posts
Yes I've met one a long time ago ( my old similar profile). He actually came all the way from NZ. It turned out that he was very depressed since his divorce and could' nt let it go.... Also one from France
There is not many from my country to choose from. uh oh
So right now the chances for meeting someone are very small due to travel restrictions.
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Dec 27, 2020 2:28 PM CST Any dates on Connecting Singles
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
U2kitti: Yes I've met one a long time ago ( my old similar profile). He actually came all the way from NZ. It turned out that he was very depressed since his divorce and could' nt let it go.... Also one from France
There is not many from my country to choose from.
So right now the chances for meeting someone are very small due to travel restrictions.
There was just a guy writing to me from Denmark.. mind you he got a bit annoying so I blocked him but just shows that there are guys from Denmark on this site!!!
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Dec 27, 2020 2:31 PM CST Any dates on Connecting Singles
U2kitti
U2kittiU2kittiHovedstaden, Zealand Denmark78 Posts
Selenite: There was just a guy writing to me from Denmark.. mind you he got a bit annoying so I blocked him but just shows that there are guys from Denmark on this site!!!
There are, but maybe I'm picky wine grin
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Dec 27, 2020 2:33 PM CST Any dates on Connecting Singles
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
U2kitti: There are, but maybe I'm picky
Ahhhh! May be you're wise!!! laugh
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Dec 27, 2020 2:35 PM CST Any dates on Connecting Singles
U2kitti
U2kittiU2kittiHovedstaden, Zealand Denmark78 Posts
Selenite: Ahhhh! May be you're wise!!!
At least I hope so, but even the (danish) nicknames are a turn off laugh
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Dec 27, 2020 3:53 PM CST Any dates on Connecting Singles
Chambellaonline today!
Chambellaonline today!ChambellaCanberra (ACT) & Batemans Bay, New South Wales Australia525 Posts
No, not one.. dunno
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Dec 27, 2020 4:13 PM CST Any dates on Connecting Singles
Butterflygirl1
Butterflygirl1Butterflygirl1Dublin, Ireland1,080 Posts
spungey: Just curious as if anyone on here has met a single person for a cup of coffee or a meal? I have not!
I’ve been few dates from here some really nice guys just not compatible.

Last one great fella just bad timing dunno
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Dec 27, 2020 4:23 PM CST Any dates on Connecting Singles
Cavalero
CavaleroCavaleroVerviers, Liege Belgium12 Threads 4 Polls 701 Posts
Selenite: My mother never interfered with any of my relationships (2 marriages) and I don't interfere with my children's.

My son is not married with his partner and they have one child together, they just bought a house without interference from either "mother in law"

My daughter only has a mother right now but when she had a partner I didn't interfere in their relationship ...

Our perceptions about what goes on in relationships and marriages are so different, I think we live on different planet Cavalero
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No, we just had very different experiences.
I think the way your family dealt with in-laws and stuff is the exception, not the rule.
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Dec 27, 2020 4:34 PM CST Any dates on Connecting Singles
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
Cavalero: No, we just had very different experiences.
I think the way your family dealt with in-laws and stuff is the exception, not the rule.
I know there's a lot of emtional blackmail that goes on within families and between couples...
I loved my first mother in law ... she was a formidable woman! I was glad she'd passed away by the time got divorced so she wouldn't be upset ...

You don't think the differences depend also on countries and culture?
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Dec 27, 2020 4:44 PM CST Any dates on Connecting Singles
Miss_Cellaneous
Miss_CellaneousMiss_CellaneousWyre, Lancashire, England UK1 Threads 2,444 Posts
Dan_777: Yes, I've met quite a few for coffee, for lunch, for a walk on the beach, and second and third dates as well.
But nothing serious.
Just not my type!
Same with me over the past 14 years on this site. Just for coffee etc... most were only after one thing. Some just talked to my chestlaugh . I'm not saying that all men are like that but that was just my experience.
One guy who was a great friend got kicked off this site. I think a few oldies on here would remember him...
I've met a guy off here ( he doesn't do the forums etc.) Met for lunch a couple of times before this second lockdown. He's only about 45 mins drive from me. We got on really well and still talk. This bloody virus ain't helping thingscrying
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Dec 27, 2020 4:45 PM CST Any dates on Connecting Singles
Cavalero
CavaleroCavaleroVerviers, Liege Belgium12 Threads 4 Polls 701 Posts
Selenite: I know there's a lot of emtional blackmail that goes on within families and between couples...
I loved my first mother in law ... she was a formidable woman! I was glad she'd passed away by the time got divorced so she wouldn't be upset ...

You don't think the differences depend also on countries and culture?
Sure. Culture plays a big role in family affairs.
My mother-in-law is still alive and still loves me like I was her own son. She sent me lots of stuff when I was in jail and showed up at my 20-minute trial in a wheelchair even though she's sick, old and week.
She's THE most decent woman I've ever met. Equal with my own mother.
I have good convos with my kids' mother and we been clearing out quite a few misunderstandings.

In other countries and other cultures it would not have happen the same way.
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Dec 27, 2020 4:59 PM CST Any dates on Connecting Singles
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
Cavalero: Sure. Culture plays a big role in family affairs.
My mother-in-law is still alive and still loves me like I was her own son. She sent me lots of stuff when I was in jail and showed up at my 20-minute trial in a wheelchair even though she's sick, old and week.
She's THE most decent woman I've ever met. Equal with my own mother.
I have good convos with my kids' mother and we been clearing out quite a few misunderstandings.

In other countries and other cultures it would not have happen the same way.
She sure sounds like a great woman!! Clearing up misunderstandings between the parents is so good for the kids ... they pick up so much from what isn't said as much as from what is ...

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Dec 27, 2020 8:35 PM CST Any dates on Connecting Singles
Cavalero
CavaleroCavaleroVerviers, Liege Belgium12 Threads 4 Polls 701 Posts
Selenite: She sure sounds like a great woman!! Clearing up misunderstandings between the parents is so good for the kids ... they pick up so much from what isn't said as much as from what is ...
She is a great woman.

As for clearing up misunderstandings with the ex, the kids are gown and live in their own houses. They're not part of the conversation. Also, there's 8000 miles seperating us.
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Dec 31, 2020 5:36 AM CST Any dates on Connecting Singles
Firmus
FirmusFirmus6833, Vorarlberg Austria1 Posts
not really, seems finding a match is not easy
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Dec 31, 2020 5:43 AM CST Any dates on Connecting Singles
TheDino1
TheDino1TheDino1Belfast, Antrim Ireland139 Threads 1 Polls 5,029 Posts
Firmus: not really, seems finding a match is not easy
And the pandemic makes it less easier, but never lose hope..tip hat
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Dec 31, 2020 6:20 AM CST Any dates on Connecting Singles
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
Cavalero: She is a great woman.

As for clearing up misunderstandings with the ex, the kids are gown and live in their own houses. They're not part of the conversation. Also, there's 8000 miles seperating us.
thumbs up

Energy and vibration doesn't know miles... your kids are not part of your private conversations but they pick up any 'vibes' when you talk about anything connected to the family... the more healed the connection the healthier the vibe they'll pick up... cool
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Jan 11, 2021 12:27 PM CST Any dates on Connecting Singles
lexanna1
lexanna1lexanna1Rotterdam, South Holland Netherlands4 Threads 27 Posts
I did not
Most people did not devil
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