Yes I've met one a long time ago ( my old similar profile). He actually came all the way from NZ. It turned out that he was very depressed since his divorce and could' nt let it go.... Also one from France There is not many from my country to choose from. So right now the chances for meeting someone are very small due to travel restrictions.
U2kitti: Yes I've met one a long time ago ( my old similar profile). He actually came all the way from NZ. It turned out that he was very depressed since his divorce and could' nt let it go.... Also one from France There is not many from my country to choose from. So right now the chances for meeting someone are very small due to travel restrictions.
There was just a guy writing to me from Denmark.. mind you he got a bit annoying so I blocked him but just shows that there are guys from Denmark on this site!!!
Selenite: There was just a guy writing to me from Denmark.. mind you he got a bit annoying so I blocked him but just shows that there are guys from Denmark on this site!!!
Cavalero: No, we just had very different experiences. I think the way your family dealt with in-laws and stuff is the exception, not the rule.
I know there's a lot of emtional blackmail that goes on within families and between couples... I loved my first mother in law ... she was a formidable woman! I was glad she'd passed away by the time got divorced so she wouldn't be upset ...
You don't think the differences depend also on countries and culture?
Dan_777: Yes, I've met quite a few for coffee, for lunch, for a walk on the beach, and second and third dates as well. But nothing serious. Just not my type!
Same with me over the past 14 years on this site. Just for coffee etc... most were only after one thing. Some just talked to my chest . I'm not saying that all men are like that but that was just my experience. One guy who was a great friend got kicked off this site. I think a few oldies on here would remember him... I've met a guy off here ( he doesn't do the forums etc.) Met for lunch a couple of times before this second lockdown. He's only about 45 mins drive from me. We got on really well and still talk. This bloody virus ain't helping things
Selenite: I know there's a lot of emtional blackmail that goes on within families and between couples... I loved my first mother in law ... she was a formidable woman! I was glad she'd passed away by the time got divorced so she wouldn't be upset ...
You don't think the differences depend also on countries and culture?
Sure. Culture plays a big role in family affairs. My mother-in-law is still alive and still loves me like I was her own son. She sent me lots of stuff when I was in jail and showed up at my 20-minute trial in a wheelchair even though she's sick, old and week. She's THE most decent woman I've ever met. Equal with my own mother. I have good convos with my kids' mother and we been clearing out quite a few misunderstandings.
In other countries and other cultures it would not have happen the same way.
Cavalero: Sure. Culture plays a big role in family affairs. My mother-in-law is still alive and still loves me like I was her own son. She sent me lots of stuff when I was in jail and showed up at my 20-minute trial in a wheelchair even though she's sick, old and week. She's THE most decent woman I've ever met. Equal with my own mother. I have good convos with my kids' mother and we been clearing out quite a few misunderstandings.
In other countries and other cultures it would not have happen the same way.
She sure sounds like a great woman!! Clearing up misunderstandings between the parents is so good for the kids ... they pick up so much from what isn't said as much as from what is ...
Selenite: She sure sounds like a great woman!! Clearing up misunderstandings between the parents is so good for the kids ... they pick up so much from what isn't said as much as from what is ...
She is a great woman.
As for clearing up misunderstandings with the ex, the kids are gown and live in their own houses. They're not part of the conversation. Also, there's 8000 miles seperating us.
As for clearing up misunderstandings with the ex, the kids are gown and live in their own houses. They're not part of the conversation. Also, there's 8000 miles seperating us.
Energy and vibration doesn't know miles... your kids are not part of your private conversations but they pick up any 'vibes' when you talk about anything connected to the family... the more healed the connection the healthier the vibe they'll pick up...
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There is not many from my country to choose from.
So right now the chances for meeting someone are very small due to travel restrictions.