HONEYC40OPJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa37 posts
tomcatty: Well you have broken your contract, to put it in the blunt way of the world, it appears there are no children involved, so why are you still in his house, you must come to some arrangement to compensate him for your breach of commitment to him.
I stand by my previous advice, but your ambivalence shows a certain immaturity.
I think you must set him free, I'm sure he will find someone to take your place quite quickly, someone not quite so selfish, who can give him what he needs.
But don't take his house you are breaking your contract don't become a scammer as well. Sorry, that is my opinion having thought about it.
Tom what contact are you talking about?? We are not married. He's just a boyfriend that moves in with me
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I stand by my previous advice, but your ambivalence shows a certain immaturity.
I think you must set him free, I'm sure he will find someone to take your place quite quickly, someone not quite so selfish, who can give him what he needs.
But don't take his house you are breaking your contract don't become a scammer as well.
Sorry, that is my opinion having thought about it.