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Jan 25, 2021 8:13 AM CST Sparks..
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
What is it that ignites your original desire in someone? Lust? Money? Looks?

If you eventually get into a relationship with that person how would you maintain that spark?

So I have been in a Zoom dance party and this woman that I have never met is driving me crazy with her dance moves and choice of song requests to the host. We texted a few times while in the Zoom party but never offline. Am I crazy? smitten
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Jan 25, 2021 8:20 AM CST Sparks..
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
I say enjoy the connection and get to chat to her 'off line' as in outside of dance zoom time ... cheering yay
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Jan 25, 2021 8:38 AM CST Sparks..
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
Selenite: I say enjoy the connection and get to chat to her 'off line' as in outside of dance zoom time ...
I am planning to do that at some point if she shows more interest..but nowadays she could be in an open relationship, have a boyfriend who does not live with her (not sure if he’s in the Zoom party too laugh), live 2,000 miles away, or might be more into women sigh
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Jan 25, 2021 8:54 AM CST Sparks..
Tiger_Moth
Tiger_MothTiger_MothYeovil, Somerset, England UK23 Threads 2,833 Posts
Lonely1: I am planning to do that at some point if she shows more interest..but nowadays she could be in an open relationship, have a boyfriend who does not live with her (not sure if he’s in the Zoom party too ), live 2,000 miles away, or might be more into women
You'll never know until you pose the question.grin
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Jan 25, 2021 9:17 AM CST Sparks..
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
Attractive? Someone who is switched on and has the same mind set as me. Strangely enough I seem to be attracted to intelligent mad women, my son
says, there you go again dadlaugh laugh but i love a woman with a sense of humour who is not put off by my large family, I am related to many people in my city, oh I didn't mean my own kids only but a large number of cousins etc.

I love a natural woman , who enjoys being feminine, and is good at it, and one who is honest.
laugh
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Jan 25, 2021 9:19 AM CST Sparks..
TheDino1
TheDino1TheDino1Belfast, Antrim Ireland139 Threads 1 Polls 5,029 Posts
Lonely1: What is it that ignites your original desire in someone? Lust? Money? Looks?

If you eventually get into a relationship with that person how would you maintain that spark?

So I have been in a Zoom dance party and this woman that I have never met is driving me crazy with her dance moves and choice of song requests to the host. We texted a few times while in the Zoom party but never offline. Am I crazy?
A "Zoom dance party" first I heard of this activity.. cheering It's best to be brave and just go for whatever you feel is right, if it's a no goer then at least you don't have to waste time wondering.. tip hat
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Jan 25, 2021 9:27 AM CST Sparks..
Lonely1: What is it that ignites your original desire in someone? Lust? Money? Looks?

If you eventually get into a relationship with that person how would you maintain that spark?

So I have been in a Zoom dance party and this woman that I have never met is driving me crazy with her dance moves and choice of song requests to the host. We texted a few times while in the Zoom party but never offline. Am I crazy?
This is not so much about intimate friendship but rather my view and observation about what is attractive in people, in general. I’m good friends with a married couple. She is a physician, he teaches High School. They’re both very busy in their respective careers. They ALWAYS have time for me, never even hinting that they might have anything else to do ( which they most assuredly do..) no ego, no condescending, just total down- home relaxed class. They compliment me on my achievements, rather than focusing on themselves. They always seem excited to see me, very, very warm, completely tactful friends. These are the kind of folks I’M attracted to. And you know, if they can do it, ANYONE can.rose
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Jan 25, 2021 9:45 AM CST Sparks..
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
Tiger_Moth: You'll never know until you pose the question.
I went on a walk with a group of five on Saturday (our COVID-19 limit here) and met a nice woman who works from home, is divorced, and is single, like me. She likes her freedom.
I think men are the ones who are more affected when single because it’s in our nature to do the chasing.

The last relationship I had was with a retired female. I don’t want that again because it’s not fair to both of us when one is stuck at work and the other has all that free time. comfort
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Jan 25, 2021 9:50 AM CST Sparks..
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
rohaan: This is not so much about intimate friendship but rather my view and observation about what is attractive in people, in general. I’m good friends with a married couple. She is a physician, he teaches High School. They’re both very busy in their respective careers. They ALWAYS have time for me, never even hinting that they might have anything else to do ( which they most assuredly do..) no ego, no condescending, just total down- home relaxed class. They compliment me on my achievements, rather than focusing on themselves. They always seem excited to see me, very, very warm, completely tactful friends. These are the kind of folks I’M attracted to. And you know, if they can do it, ANYONE can.
Rare friendships are priceless cheers

I have known a few women who were by themselves who invited me inside their house, once when I was too young and once where her hubby was thousands of miles away. I declined both offers. I was dumb laugh
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Jan 25, 2021 10:32 AM CST Sparks..
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
I'm attracted to laughter that creates a relaxed environment. I'm not looking for a relationship but people like Dino and Tom make me smile and sometimes giddy.
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Jan 25, 2021 10:37 AM CST Sparks..
TheDino1
TheDino1TheDino1Belfast, Antrim Ireland139 Threads 1 Polls 5,029 Posts
secretagent09: I'm attracted to laughter that creates a relaxed environment. I'm not looking for a relationship but people like Dino and Tom make me smile and sometimes giddy.
Awe secret gal, that comment is like a big warm hug on this cold day..hug You ain't too bad yourself..wink bouquet
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Jan 25, 2021 10:55 AM CST Sparks..
Dan_777
Dan_777Dan_777Nowhereland, Murcia Spain3 Threads 439 Posts
Lonely1: What is it that ignites your original desire in someone? Lust? Money? Looks?

If you eventually get into a relationship with that person how would you maintain that spark?

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For me, what's inside his brain is a great turn on.
I could listen to him for hours...

And, of course, a spiritual connection to go with it.

How would I maintain the spark?
Feeding him with some stimulating conversations and counting the stars at night looking in the same direction...smitten
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Jan 25, 2021 11:09 AM CST Sparks..
Brains... Huge turn on... devil
And, if by any chance, that brain is accompanied by a good looking face and attractive body, that wouldn't hurt... laugh A deep voice (An ugly voice is a deal breaker, for me), very masculine hands, nice eyes or smile... Any of those traits can ignite a spark of desire in me... But, if there are no brains, it's doomed to fail... dunno laugh bouquet

P.S. I was invited to attend a zoom meeting (daily prayers) for a friend that passed away in November... And I asked what zoom was about, because I had no idea... Well, a friend of mine who is a computer pro, told me not to join, because there are very bad safety issues linked to zoom... Anyway, I hope you can get to know your zoom lady better and have a wonderful time with her... bouquet
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Jan 25, 2021 11:24 AM CST Sparks..
Dan_777
Dan_777Dan_777Nowhereland, Murcia Spain3 Threads 439 Posts
Melody1671: Brains... Huge turn on...
And, if by any chance, that brain is accompanied by a good looking face and attractive body, that wouldn't hurt... A deep voice (An ugly voice is a deal breaker, for me), very masculine hands, nice eyes or smile... Any of those traits can ignite a spark of desire in me... But, if there are no brains, it's doomed to fail...
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Si claro linda Melodia..
All the above as well, but I didn't want to sound too demanding. wink

But...I've gone past desire and lust..so the spiritual connection is all I'm interested in...with lots of laughter, humour and wit.

Unas flores para ti guapa bouquet
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Jan 25, 2021 11:37 AM CST Sparks..
Dan_777: Si claro linda Melodia..
All the above as well, but I didn't want to sound too demanding.

But...I've gone past desire and lust..so the spiritual connection is all I'm interested in...with lots of laughter, humour and wit.

Unas flores para ti guapa
Jajajajajajajajajajaj, I am laughing so hard!... laugh rolling on the floor laughing

Dani, you always make me smile, laugh, reflect... Thank you, sweet soul!... Unas flores y un abrazo de oso enorme, para ti, ¡hermosa!... bouquet teddybear
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Jan 25, 2021 11:54 AM CST Sparks..
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
Melody1671: Brains... Huge turn on...
And, if by any chance, that brain is accompanied by a good looking face and attractive body, that wouldn't hurt... A deep voice (An ugly voice is a deal breaker, for me), very masculine hands, nice eyes or smile... Any of those traits can ignite a spark of desire in me... But, if there are no brains, it's doomed to fail...

P.S. I was invited to attend a zoom meeting (daily prayers) for a friend that passed away in November... And I asked what zoom was about, because I had no idea... Well, a friend of mine who is a computer pro, told me not to join, because there are very bad safety issues linked to zoom... Anyway, I hope you can get to know your zoom lady better and have a wonderful time with her...
Just remember to mind your P’s and Q’s while online and remember to turn off the software or plug out your video/microphone after the call.
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Jan 25, 2021 12:49 PM CST Sparks..
Dan_777
Dan_777Dan_777Nowhereland, Murcia Spain3 Threads 439 Posts
Melody1671: Jajajajajajajajajajaj, I am laughing so hard!...

Dani, you always make me smile, laugh, reflect... Thank you, sweet soul!... Unas flores y un abrazo de oso enorme, para ti, ¡hermosa!...
So glad I can make you laugh M e l o d i a smile
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