Selenite: I was contacted by a very white American guy here on CS who "really was attracted to my smile" blah blah blah .. On his profile it states that he will not date Latino/Hispanic women ... When I asked him about that he answered that he had friends of every culture and background but "when it comes to my girlfriend/wife I have standards"!!!! I could not believe what I was reading! Totally outraged! So I told him I'm not "white", I have olive skin and I'm Hispanic ... he replied he would make an exception because he was very attracted ... He couldn't understand why I didn't feel honoured that he should make an exception for me (just me, not the rest of Hispanic people ) or why I wouldn't continue conversing with him ... He didn't understand he has insulted my whole culture and lineage and family and relatives by implying we are "substandard" and hopes one day I'll understand his standpoint and what he means
It's very scary to think there are people like that walking the earth ...
Well, I for one KNOW you’re beautiful all over / inside and out. You know, if I thought I had a snowball’s chance, I’d change to straight for you— (even if I had to get hypnotized or electrical- shock treatment or severe camp !
rohaan: Well, I for one KNOW you’re beautiful all over / inside and out. You know, if I thought I had a snowball’s chance, I’d change to straight for you— (even if I had to get hypnotized or electrical- shock treatment or severe camp !
OMG Ro what a beautiful message to read on a Sunday morning! I'm sure you will meet a beautiful in and out male human to be happy with without needing to change the essence of what makes you YOU
Selenite: OMG Ro what a beautiful message to read on a Sunday morning! I'm sure you will meet a beautiful in and out male human to be happy with without needing to change the essence of what makes you YOU
I dunno, I see monobrow and think of Bert of Ernie and Bert fame. Sesame Street ruined me for life. Selenite, I do believe I was contacted by that same guy..no Hispanics.... what a blot against manhood! Then there was this guy, (who blocked me btw) because I said his beliefs were draconian and his wife probably left due to the vise like grip, he claims on his profile, he had on her life i.e. what clothes to wear, how to do her hair, no cosmetics, who to befriend, his desire for her to be seen and not heard. He was shocked that she had left him! It takes all kinds, doncha think??
Taralyn: I dunno, I see monobrow and think of Bert of Ernie and Bert fame. Sesame Street ruined me for life. Selenite, I do believe I was contacted by that same guy..no Hispanics.... what a blot against manhood! Then there was this guy, (who blocked me btw) because I said his beliefs were draconian and his wife probably left due to the vise like grip, he claims on his profile, he had on her life i.e. what clothes to wear, how to do her hair, no cosmetics, who to befriend, his desire for her to be seen and not heard. He was shocked that she had left him! It takes all kinds, doncha think??
Selenite: OMG Ro what a beautiful message to read on a Sunday morning! I'm sure you will meet a beautiful in and out male human to be happy with without needing to change the essence of what makes you YOU
Yes, I know what you’re saying. I do believe that we (some of us) fall in love with the spiritual being in the person, as I did with a lady in the 1980’s.....”LOVE” is more powerful than gender. Don’t get me wrong...cowboys, construction workers, and jack- hammer operators yell loud to my Eros, and that’s what I “ want” , hands down. But then, along comes true, genuine love... Now, I’m not looking. Doesn’t mean I’m not open to the idea. Know any cowboys who moonlight as jack-hammer operators?
And you make ME smile...I can’t tell you how much your friendship means to me— you are a light in the tunnel, a stalwart anchor in this stormy sea of troubles we’re all in, and you keep it all buoyed up with fun, and laughter, and scrumptious music, and genuine warmth and encouragement and sage commentary and, as we say in the medical field, TLC..
rohaan: And you make ME smile...I can’t tell you how much your friendship means to me— you are a light in the tunnel, a stalwart anchor in this stormy sea of troubles we’re all in, and you keep it all buoyed up with fun, and laughter, and scrumptious music, and genuine warmth and encouragement and sage commentary and, as we say in the medical field, TLC..
I nominate you Man Of The Year!
Now you're making me blush here.. I'll except graciously though..
rohaan: Yes, I know what you’re saying. I do believe that we (some of us) fall in love with the spiritual being in the person, as I did with a lady in the 1980’s.....”LOVE” is more powerful than gender. Don’t get me wrong...cowboys, construction workers, and jack- hammer operators yell loud to my Eros, and that’s what I “ want” , hands down. But then, along comes true, genuine love... Now, I’m not looking. Doesn’t mean I’m not open to the idea. Know any cowboys who moonlight as jack-hammer operators?
The streets around my house are full of them They've been digging up and resurfacing the streets for weeks now ... might be jack-hammer operators moonlighting as cowboys though
Selenite: The streets around my house are full of them They've been digging up and resurfacing the streets for weeks now ... might be jack-hammer operators moonlighting as cowboys though
Wellll... I’ll have to think about it (jackhammer operators moonlighting as cowboys) .
..OK, I’ve thought about it. But he has 45 minutes to get his hands off me, and I mean it...
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