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Feb 17, 2021 11:15 AM CST It's been nice.....
Taralyn
TaralynTaralynFunk Island, Newfoundland Canada5 Threads 1,268 Posts
Stalkers.....
Apparently I have one and it orginated from this site. I didn't truly believe that they existed and certainly not stalking unimportant me. It started with a "hi, how are you?" and progressed to a point that I had to say goodbye. I made the mistake of accepting an apology and it has gone from there. All my emails have been compromised, Facebook, LinkedIn, the email that I made up just for this site and only for this site that no one should have unless I gave it to them specifically.
So to any and all, it's been a slice. It was fun while it lasted but all good things must end and all that crap. When you become afraid to turn on your computer for fear of what could be lurking behind the screen, it's time to go. He had even said that if it weren't for covid restrictions, he would be in my province looking for me.
I am afraid and the next step will be a police report.

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Feb 17, 2021 11:20 AM CST It's been nice.....
gonelikethewimd
gonelikethewimdgonelikethewimdOsprey, Florida USA1,587 Posts
I would be on the phone and call the police...

I do not answer messages on this site..and the reason why I stay invisible...you never know who you are replying to.
Feb 17, 2021 11:21 AM CST It's been nice.....
snowlynx
snowlynxsnowlynxgalway, Galway Ireland57 Threads 7,189 Posts
Taralyn: Stalkers.....
Apparently I have one and it orginated from this site. I didn't truly believe that they existed and certainly not stalking unimportant me. It started with a "hi, how are you?" and progressed to a point that I had to say goodbye. I made the mistake of accepting an apology and it has gone from there. All my emails have been compromised, Facebook, LinkedIn, the email that I made up just for this site and only for this site that no one should have unless I gave it to them specifically.
So to any and all, it's been a slice. It was fun while it lasted but all good things must end and all that crap. When you become afraid to turn on your computer for fear of what could be lurking behind the screen, it's time to go. He had even said that if it weren't for covid restrictions, he would be in my province looking for me.
I am afraid and the next step will be a police report.
Sorry to hear that Tara, keep a record of some of the things he sends so you can show it to the authorities.
Feb 17, 2021 11:29 AM CST It's been nice.....
TheDino1
TheDino1TheDino1Belfast, Antrim Ireland175 Threads 1 Polls 6,370 Posts
Taralyn: Stalkers.....
Apparently I have one and it orginated from this site. I didn't truly believe that they existed and certainly not stalking unimportant me. It started with a "hi, how are you?" and progressed to a point that I had to say goodbye. I made the mistake of accepting an apology and it has gone from there. All my emails have been compromised, Facebook, LinkedIn, the email that I made up just for this site and only for this site that no one should have unless I gave it to them specifically.
So to any and all, it's been a slice. It was fun while it lasted but all good things must end and all that crap. When you become afraid to turn on your computer for fear of what could be lurking behind the screen, it's time to go. He had even said that if it weren't for covid restrictions, he would be in my province looking for me.
I am afraid and the next step will be a police report.
Will miss you, stay safe..bouquet
Feb 17, 2021 11:30 AM CST It's been nice.....
tomcattyonline today!
tomcattyonline today!tomcattyocean city plymouth, Devon, England UK304 Threads 3 Polls 6,283 Posts
gonelikethewimd: I would be on the phone and call the police...

I do not answer messages on this site..and the reason why I stay invisible...you never know who you are replying to.
Yeh,

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Feb 17, 2021 11:42 AM CST It's been nice.....
Taralyn: Stalkers.....
Apparently I have one and it orginated from this site. I didn't truly believe that they existed and certainly not stalking unimportant me. It started with a "hi, how are you?" and progressed to a point that I had to say goodbye. I made the mistake of accepting an apology and it has gone from there. All my emails have been compromised, Facebook, LinkedIn, the email that I made up just for this site and only for this site that no one should have unless I gave it to them specifically.
So to any and all, it's been a slice. It was fun while it lasted but all good things must end and all that crap. When you become afraid to turn on your computer for fear of what could be lurking behind the screen, it's time to go. He had even said that if it weren't for covid restrictions, he would be in my province looking for me.
I am afraid and the next step will be a police report.
So sorry to hear..So far I haven’t been plagued by too much ( but a little) of this sort of thing. Lately I’m getting calls from (alleged) medical company I do do business with. When they say, “I can’t put you through/put you on a don’t call list, etc...) until you verify some statistics. At that point I hang up. A legitimate company will not do this. Years ago I had an actual “ brick and mortar” stalker— he would ‘pace’ me as I walked to the bus or subway, follow me and board, get off at university where I researched and/ or the hospital I worked at. This was before it had become so prevalent, in the news, that is. (The police, etc..did not take a complaint like this seriously back then, especially if no threat or actual harm had been done.) I eventually complained, and was told to try and confront him...I did, he was quite flustered, apologetic, and almost crying. He admitted to it, because he “ just liked me”. ( we did NOT know one another..) he agreed to stop following me, and it seemed he did. Broken man, probably..please don’t give up...but I do understandteddybear
Feb 17, 2021 11:43 AM CST It's been nice.....
gonelikethewimd
gonelikethewimdgonelikethewimdOsprey, Florida USA1,587 Posts
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This has been my experience from online men...lol

Along with, You are just like all the other left wing woman..with the perfect leftie “homo” son..his words...
Then told me to F off....

So, I blocked him..

And, I voted for Trump..professor
Feb 17, 2021 11:45 AM CST It's been nice.....
Inthewoods
InthewoodsInthewoodsColorado Springs, Colorado USA7,651 Posts
Men are usually strange, thats why I avoid them... laugh

It's to bad you're not a black belt or something like that, you could meet up with him... and beat the crap out of him... boxing

Why are the stalkers always someone you're not interested in... doh ... If I was attracted to my stalker, I might stalk her back... laugh

Just be careful... handshake ... wave
Feb 17, 2021 11:48 AM CST It's been nice.....
TheDino1
TheDino1TheDino1Belfast, Antrim Ireland175 Threads 1 Polls 6,370 Posts
gonelikethewimd: This has been my experience from online men...lol

Along with, You are just like all the other left wing woman..with the perfect leftie “homo” son..his words...
Then told me to F off....

So, I blocked him..

And, I voted for Trump..
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*Just kiddin'..innocent tip hat
Feb 17, 2021 12:08 PM CST It's been nice.....
Taralyn: Stalkers.....
Apparently I have one and it orginated from this site. I didn't truly believe that they existed and certainly not stalking unimportant me. It started with a "hi, how are you?" and progressed to a point that I had to say goodbye. I made the mistake of accepting an apology and it has gone from there. All my emails have been compromised, Facebook, LinkedIn, the email that I made up just for this site and only for this site that no one should have unless I gave it to them specifically.
So to any and all, it's been a slice. It was fun while it lasted but all good things must end and all that crap. When you become afraid to turn on your computer for fear of what could be lurking behind the screen, it's time to go. He had even said that if it weren't for covid restrictions, he would be in my province looking for me.
I am afraid and the next step will be a police report.
Sorry to read this Taralyn. Not even remotely funny and frankly quite scary.

Stay safehug
Feb 17, 2021 12:13 PM CST It's been nice.....
Taralyn: Stalkers.....
Apparently I have one and it orginated from this site. I didn't truly believe that they existed and certainly not stalking unimportant me. It started with a "hi, how are you?" and progressed to a point that I had to say goodbye. I made the mistake of accepting an apology and it has gone from there. All my emails have been compromised, Facebook, LinkedIn, the email that I made up just for this site and only for this site that no one should have unless I gave it to them specifically.
So to any and all, it's been a slice. It was fun while it lasted but all good things must end and all that crap. When you become afraid to turn on your computer for fear of what could be lurking behind the screen, it's time to go. He had even said that if it weren't for covid restrictions, he would be in my province looking for me.
I am afraid and the next step will be a police report.
Tara, if I may make a suggestion......you said the next step will be a police report. I'm not being disrespectful to you but are you going to wait to file a police report after he attacks you? It's VERY important to get that report done now with copies of email/texts or any other way he contacted you.

Please don't wait. Filing a police report now will put you on record that there is a stalker in your life.
Feb 17, 2021 1:34 PM CST It's been nice.....
blathin
blathinblathinGlasgow, Central, Scotland UK2,300 Posts
Taralyn: Stalkers.....
Apparently I have one and it orginated from this site. I didn't truly believe that they existed and certainly not stalking unimportant me. It started with a "hi, how are you?" and progressed to a point that I had to say goodbye. I made the mistake of accepting an apology and it has gone from there. All my emails have been compromised, Facebook, LinkedIn, the email that I made up just for this site and only for this site that no one should have unless I gave it to them specifically.
So to any and all, it's been a slice. It was fun while it lasted but all good things must end and all that crap. When you become afraid to turn on your computer for fear of what could be lurking behind the screen, it's time to go. He had even said that if it weren't for covid restrictions, he would be in my province looking for me.
I am afraid and the next step will be a police report.
Good God, how much personal information did you give this fella, that he could find you on all those social media sites??
Feb 17, 2021 1:38 PM CST It's been nice.....
gonelikethewimd
gonelikethewimdgonelikethewimdOsprey, Florida USA1,587 Posts
Google your own full name..see what pops up..

It’ll make you see how we don’t have much privacy.
Feb 17, 2021 2:01 PM CST It's been nice.....
blathin
blathinblathinGlasgow, Central, Scotland UK2,300 Posts
gonelikethewimd: Google your own full name..see what pops up..

It’ll make you see how we don’t have much privacy.
And how did he get her full name I wonder??? hmmm
Feb 17, 2021 2:06 PM CST It's been nice.....
gonelikethewimd: Google your own full name..see what pops up..

It’ll make you see how we don’t have much privacy.
I must be boring as heck as nothing came up.laugh
Feb 17, 2021 2:10 PM CST It's been nice.....
gonelikethewimd
gonelikethewimdgonelikethewimdOsprey, Florida USA1,587 Posts
I will tell you a story that happened to me. When I first went on a dating site, they had a widow/er forum. I started messaging on the site with a man who had lost his wife...I thought I could trust him...and we went to talking over the phone...To me, it was just talking to someone who had experienced loss of a spouse...

He got my address from my phone number..He showed up at my from door...I had no idea he was coming to my home, nor had I given him my full name...It was my cell phone number...

Through the door, I told him to leave and I was calling the cops...

I stayed the weekend with a girlfriend cause it scared the bejesus out of me.

I do not think he was a stalker...he was just a man who made a stupid mistake and acted out of grief..

I never heard from him again after that.
Feb 17, 2021 2:16 PM CST It's been nice.....
gonelikethewimd: I will tell you a story that happened to me. When I first went on a dating site, they had a widow/er forum. I started messaging on the site with a man who had lost his wife...I thought I could trust him...and we went to talking over the phone...To me, it was just talking to someone who had experienced loss of a spouse...

He got my address from my phone number..He showed up at my from door...I had no idea he was coming to my home, nor had I given him my full name...It was my cell phone number...

Through the door, I told him to leave and I was calling the cops...

I stayed the weekend with a girlfriend cause it scared the bejesus out of me.

I do not think he was a stalker...he was just a man who made a stupid mistake and acted out of grief..

I never heard from him again after that.
I totally believe you.handshake

I have had female pals who have been so totally gullible on dating sites it's scared the s--t out of me.
Feb 17, 2021 2:26 PM CST It's been nice.....
Tiger_Moth: I totally believe you.

I have had female pals who have been so totally gullible on dating sites it's scared the s--t out of me.
I really respect this comment. We are way too hard on victims. You know what the first thing police say when you report a car stolen? “ Well, did you leave the door unlocked”, or, “Did you leave the key inside the car?”—-

( like it’s YOUR fault someone else deliberately breaks the law!)

Likewise, if you keep things a little cluttered, have a few cobwebs, etc...why, you’re a slob. If you’re neat, tidy, and organized, why, you’re obsessive-compulsive. Knowwhatimeanjellybean? Can’t win...stop victim-blaming. It’s not fair.professor
Feb 17, 2021 2:26 PM CST It's been nice.....
blathin
blathinblathinGlasgow, Central, Scotland UK2,300 Posts
gonelikethewimd: I will tell you a story that happened to me. When I first went on a dating site, they had a widow/er forum. I started messaging on the site with a man who had lost his wife...I thought I could trust him...and we went to talking over the phone...To me, it was just talking to someone who had experienced loss of a spouse...

He got my address from my phone number..He showed up at my from door...I had no idea he was coming to my home, nor had I given him my full name...It was my cell phone number...

Through the door, I told him to leave and I was calling the cops...

I stayed the weekend with a girlfriend cause it scared the bejesus out of me.

I do not think he was a stalker...he was just a man who made a stupid mistake and acted out of grief..

I never heard from him again after that.
Your address cannot be found from just your phone number. that's not possible.
Feb 17, 2021 2:30 PM CST It's been nice.....
gonelikethewimd
gonelikethewimdgonelikethewimdOsprey, Florida USA1,587 Posts
blathin: Your address cannot be found from just your phone number. that's not possible.
In my case it could....

My late husband owned a business and the number was used for it...

My name googled...even shows my last address (house is sold now)...all my relatives and old neighbors...

Phone number also still has my old address...

There are sites that you can pay for that info..I have never used them..but one could..
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