secretagent09: You've got the wrong buccko. I've split the bill and paid for many bills in full in my lifetime. You are generalizing because of your experience with women.
I'm generalizing...cause this generally happens and women want to hold onto to that part of traditionalism and cherry pick the rest...cause that way...they can have their cake and eat it....their own income...plus a gullible money man...to pay for them
I'm saying the vast majority of women...want a man to foot the bill for a meal and a whole lot more...if they can get away with it...simp wimps will always throw money at women and serve women...but it don't mean they ever get laid
I think it's best to be direct with women and not beat about the bush....cause it's not worth playing mind game with women...
If a woman is interested in a man and not his money...she will offer to go dutch or foot the bill
I lived in NJ and made arrangements to meet a man from NY at a specific restaurant for lunch. I knew about 10 minutes after we sat down at the table that he wasn't for me. When the waitress put the tab on the table I grabbed it with the intention to pay the whole thing. I wanted to do that because he came all the way from NY and I knew I was going to tell him it wouldn't work for us.
He got livid and said he wouldn't allow me to pay the tab. I suggested that he leave the tip for the waitress. He grabbed the tab out of my hand and said "No, you leave the tip". And I did. I left twenty dollars the amount I was going to pay for the tab.
Of interest, this man was Italian. I told others about the story and they said that an Italian man would never let a woman pay the tab for a meal.
Cavalero: That's because you're doing it wrong, my friend. Never ever send the first message...ever. If a woman is really interested she'll send that damn message, than you can respond in kind. There are more women on planet earth than men. Don't let them fool ya, WE are the prize, they are not. It's simple mathematics.
I do not consider a male a prize until he proves to me he is one.
secretagent09: I lived in NJ and made arrangements to meet a man from NY at a specific restaurant for lunch. I knew about 10 minutes after we sat down at the table that he wasn't for me. When the waitress put the tab on the table I grabbed it with the intention to pay the whole thing. I wanted to do that because he came all the way from NY and I knew I was going to tell him it wouldn't work for us.
He got livid and said he wouldn't allow me to pay the tab. I suggested that he leave the tip for the waitress. He grabbed the tab out of my hand and said "No, you leave the tip". And I did. I left twenty dollars the amount I was going to pay for the tab.
Of interest, this man was Italian. I told others about the story and they said that an Italian man would never let a woman pay the tab for a meal.
Not exclusive to Italians . Greek men also foot the bill .
Kaybee50: Well hello Cav. Lovely to see your face here again...it's been a long while.
Hello, Kaybee! Not sure how long it's been but much too long to be deprived of your thoughtful posts. I trust you've been doing well and keeping out of trouble?
Cavalero: Hello, Kaybee! Not sure how long it's been but much too long to be deprived of your thoughtful posts. I trust you've been doing well and keeping out of trouble?
I am doing well, and unfortunately staying out of trouble due to the pandemic.
However, the social life is slowly picking up again and it actually feels strange getting ready to go out on a weekend again.
Kaybee50: I am doing well, and unfortunately staying out of trouble due to the pandemic.
However, the social life is slowly picking up again and it actually feels strange getting ready to go out on a weekend again.
I understand perfectly. Our pubs will reopen here on May the 8th. I can't wait to sit on a terrasse in the sun, drink me a cocktail, watch passersby and exchange a good convo with a total stranger.
Cavalero: I understand perfectly. Our pubs will reopen here on May the 8th. I can't wait to sit on a terrasse in the sun, drink me a cocktail, watch passersby and exchange a good convo with a total stranger.
That sounds so lovely. Simple wonderful moments we used to take for granted.
Kaybee50: That sounds so lovely. Simple wonderful moments we used to take for granted.
Indeed. I see all those businesses closed down and wonder where our civilization is going. That global reset better be worth it for a lot of people or I know plenty who will pissed and it will not be pretty. Meanwhile, enjoy life and friends as much as you can because it can be taken away in the blink of an eye.
Cavalero: Indeed. I see all those businesses closed down and wonder where our civilization is going. That global reset better be worth it for a lot of people or I know plenty who will pissed and it will not be pretty. Meanwhile, enjoy life and friends as much as you can because it can be taken away in the blink of an eye.
True words indeed. Hope you have a wonderful remainder of your Saturday Cav. I'm off to run some errands.
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You are generalizing because of your experience with women.
I'm saying the vast majority of women...want a man to foot the bill for a meal and a whole lot more...if they can get away with it...simp wimps will always throw money at women and serve women...but it don't mean they ever get laid
I think it's best to be direct with women and not beat about the bush....cause it's not worth playing mind game with women...
If a woman is interested in a man and not his money...she will offer to go dutch or foot the bill