SimonLSOPAdelaide, South Australia Australia28 posts
Seriously, are Aussie women so introverted, insecure or just stuck up? I'm Aussie so I know what I'm talking about and have had no trouble ever connecting when I've been overseas, but women here act like they all deserve movie stars or something. Even women in the eastern states are more easy going. Here's a tip, you're not a movie star. But when you ask where all the good guys are you seem pretty arrogant because you can't recognise a good guy when you see one.
Apr 17, 2021 7:28 PM CST Why do younger Aussie women have unreasonably high expectations?
kiwidude883Wanganui, Manawatu-Wanganui New Zealand2 Posts
kiwidude883Wanganui, Manawatu-Wanganui New Zealand2 posts
It's called taking the red pill and you are starting to see a glimpse of things but don't look too hard or you will be shocked, Look to women of different cultures that are not too westernised. In our culture its only the top 10 % of guys that do well with women but overseas its different as they stay away from that top 10 % alot just want good hearted guys.
SimonLS: Seriously, are Aussie women so introverted, insecure or just stuck up? I'm Aussie so I know what I'm talking about and have had no trouble ever connecting when I've been overseas, but women here act like they all deserve movie stars or something. Even women in the eastern states are more easy going. Here's a tip, you're not a movie star. But when you ask where all the good guys are you seem pretty arrogant because you can't recognise a good guy when you see one.
It doesn't really bother me because I don't know any Australian women, but if I did....they'd be on it like a car bonnet, I'll tell you that for free!
It used to be like that here in Christchurch many years ago with young ladies at pubs wanting to know what job you had or type of car you drove or whether you went to a prestigious high school...if not up to standard they were after then you were ignored. I used to tell them, when asked what job I did, and my mates would have made out they were lawyers, doctors, police, firemen etc, I would say..."You know when you get to the end of the Glad Wrap roll and there is that sticker that tells you that you are about to run out? Well, I attach those for a job..." Or, I would tell them I attached cats eyes to the road for a living.... Not one did I have continue the conversation after that. Then, I went to London for my OE and suddenly these young ladies realised they were being left alone in pubs as Aussie ladies were keen for a chat and a beer and a flirt...it was amazing how quickly they lost their snobbiness when they realised guys didn't flock to them... So, what you are noticing is probably Aussie ladies whose mothers were originally from Christchurch...
For a long time I thought there was a huge ratio difference of men to women in Australia—- just googled it and it is right on 50/50. But to answer your question— having unreasonably high expectations of the dating pool overall, is always a problem. People are becoming more and more spoiled, narcicisstic. Picky picky picky....
SimonLS: Seriously, are Aussie women so introverted, insecure or just stuck up? I'm Aussie so I know what I'm talking about and have had no trouble ever connecting when I've been overseas, but women here act like they all deserve movie stars or something. Even women in the eastern states are more easy going. Here's a tip, you're not a movie star. But when you ask where all the good guys are you seem pretty arrogant because you can't recognise a good guy when you see one.
Government-run schools and leftist media and parents who only teach sons they are girls, daughters they are boys and a little about how to obtain and take drugs.
You cant expect much from kids who've been intentionally and maliciously brought up wrong and horribly misinformed.
I think it's not limited to Australians or women. The online world has made people impatient and shallow. If you don't like what you see or don't have an attention span you just click, click, click your way to something else. It spills over to real life.
In the old days people were willing to meet. Now the only thing anyone's willing to do is evaluate your pic.
I'm one who reads profiles and I try to write a helpful profile so people can understand me rather than rate my pic.
I agree with those who wrote that the world is a world of intolerance and hatred. It's more and more difficult to find people willing to give each other a chance on their own merits.
Oh yeah it's all our fault because you mothballs do everything right from start to finish
For the record men aren't allowed to whinge & nag..That is our right not your right to do so & any man who nags & whinges should be prosecuted
I reckon you mothballs are due for the bingo hall now..Win a coupon to spend at Woolies or Coles that will give you all something to whinge & nag about when you lose at bingo.
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