There seems to be some sort of instinct in women to mould men to their liking.
Even to the groceries, he buys.
Even my cleaner is trying to train me to buy food how she thinks best, to buy what she considers healthy food.
She even became quite stroppy when I ordered a nice sparkling wine online.
She doesn't consider wine is healthy.
Am I missing something here, I employ her as a cleaner, not as a nutritionist, but she is a woman as well as a cleaner and good cleaners are at a premium here.
So of course I smooth Clarabel, (contented cow) and fight for my democratic rights.
Nobody knows the answer to that. I wonder why their idea of giving directions is with a map on their lap upside down, saying- you were supposed to turn left back there.
pat8lanips: Nobody knows the answer to that. I wonder why their idea of giving directions is with a map on their lap upside down, saying- you were supposed to turn left back there.
You are saying this is another one those unexplained mysteries of the Universe
Because they're never satisfied there must always be something wrong. In history free time was for resting but for women free time was for scheming. A man's DNA rejects exercise because there could be a fight tomorrow. Only men are casual, at rest, and not looking for work on a day off. Weak and decadent men exercise as a means to simulate growth. This is now what sets the tone in wood of leisure.
Mercedes_00: Tom you've obviously allowed something that should be professional to become a personal issue..Put her in her place and tell her what she is paid to do as far as domestic help is concerned..Toilet seats and all that jazz don't bother me..I lift weights so fixing a toilet seat how I like it is nothing for me to do as it ain't heavy..Have no clue why woman b*tch about something so trivial..I have better things to do by wasting my time wanting to change a man..he ain't going to change me so I ain't going to change him..That's why I say best relationships are those living in separate homes.
Mercedes_00: Tom you've obviously allowed something that should be professional to become a personal issue..Put her in her place and tell her what she is paid to do as far as domestic help is concerned..Toilet seats and all that jazz don't bother me..I lift weights so fixing a toilet seat how I like it is nothing for me to do as it ain't heavy..Have no clue why woman b*tch about something so trivial..I have better things to do by wasting my time wanting to change a man..he ain't going to change me so I ain't going to change him..That's why I say best relationships are those living in separate homes.
Call it rut avoidance it's here to prevent what men so commonly do. Laziness and respect for peoples boundaries, an innate tendency to let it be for better or worse.
Contrast this with roads to nowhere and sisyphus exercising with that boulder. Postmodern moral blank that it's all about the journey, it's not going anywhere but is very busy indeed. Matriarchy. Rude busiedness.
ChesneyChrist: Let the blind lead the blind so long as there be movement. Incessant amateur activity.
Imagine what could be achieved with incessant amateur activity behind a great man who isn't blind. Eleanor practically became FDR's legs by the end. A woman who can move combined with a man who can, this is the balance of the world.
We might not care about fashion, but all the trendsetters are men. You have to wonder why that is. The changes she would make are merely the activity of recycling. A month later she'll be on again. The best way to avoid nagging is for him to make a change voluntarily. In this way change will be as good as a rest, an actual reprieve from the nagging.
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Even to the groceries, he buys.
Even my cleaner is trying to train me to buy food how she thinks best, to buy what she considers healthy food.
She even became quite stroppy when I ordered a nice sparkling wine online.
She doesn't consider wine is healthy.
Am I missing something here, I employ her as a cleaner, not as a nutritionist, but she is a woman as well as a cleaner and good cleaners are at a premium here.
So of course I smooth Clarabel, (contented cow) and fight for my democratic rights.
But why??