tomcatty: There seems to be some sort of instinct in women to mould men to their liking.
Even to the groceries, he buys.
Even my cleaner is trying to train me to buy food how she thinks best, to buy what she considers healthy food.
She even became quite stroppy when I ordered a nice sparkling wine online.
She doesn't consider wine is healthy.
Am I missing something here, I employ her as a cleaner, not as a nutritionist, but she is a woman as well as a cleaner and good cleaners are at a premium here.
So of course I smooth Clarabel, (contented cow) and fight for my democratic rights.
But why??
My experience of women is limited, so I can only say I love them all..
May 8, 2021 5:54 PM CST Why do women always want to change.
Condor009Victoria, British Columbia Canada200 Posts
Condor009Victoria, British Columbia Canada200 posts
tomcatty: There seems to be some sort of instinct in women to mould men to their liking.
Even to the groceries, he buys.
Even my cleaner is trying to train me to buy food how she thinks best, to buy what she considers healthy food.
She even became quite stroppy when I ordered a nice sparkling wine online.
She doesn't consider wine is healthy.
Am I missing something here, I employ her as a cleaner, not as a nutritionist, but she is a woman as well as a cleaner and good cleaners are at a premium here.
So of course I smooth Clarabel, (contented cow) and fight for my democratic rights.
But why??
Because we are fundamentally different...not better or worse, just different with very little in common other than we belong in the same species. We live in different worlds, with different values and a totally different 'set of rules'. We all know this but few, particularly males are willing to admit it. Men and women of every culture,creed,and colour constantly argue over their partners' opinions,behaviour, attitudes, and beliefs. Prime example is that which is always obvious, such as when a male goes to the bathroom, he usually goes for one reason and only one reason.Women use 'rest rooms' as social lounges and therapy rooms. Women can go to a rest room as strangers can come out as best friends and lifelong companions. But...everyone would be instantly suspicious of any man who calls out, "Hey Tom, I'm going to the toilet, you wanna come with me?" And as for men criticizing women about their not being able to read maps, for turning maps upside down is simply due to their own need for spatial rotation . Men and women have different functions for their right and left sides of their brains.Most men do not comprehend that women need to rotate maps as what she sees affects her abilities for spatial orientation to read maps correctly. I personally have never met any women in the military that could not read a map or how and where to fond 'north', yet I've know many 'junior officers' that could not read their maps and got their patrols lost or in one case, walked around a huge Baobab tree 3 times with his face a few inches from his map while some troopers stood aside watching this imbecile until he suddenly realized what he was doing... Needless to say he was sent back to remedial level for a junior Lt. Incompetence is not good for either men or women.
We see the same problem in real estate. When a woman buys a house, the first thing she does is change the kitchen. There may be nothing wrong with the kitchen at all, she may replace it with an identical kitchen more or less... She wouldn't even consider buying a place with no kitchen at all, despite it being less work removing the old one. It's the same thing with men.
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