You could consider that few women love their boyfriends when they actually first met. Liked him maybe although not even that much. I'd still be a virgin without making a complete idiot out of myself.
Jaavisst: Many years ago I learned that a pretty smile towards you is not necessarily an invite. A girl in the local food store was always smiling and chatting with me. I thought she might be interested in me until one day she stood up and turned out to be visibly pregnant. I felt stupid. Now a girl in the local post office, 25 years my junior is always chatting me up since I bought the equivalent of a thousand US dollars worth of stamps. She has one glas eye and might be because of that open to an age difference. Am I a typical male full of it or is she after my money or genuinely interested. What do you guys think?
A smile means just a smile Depends on what you consider the other girls chatting up to actually be...is she just making idle talk and being polite..because if that's all shes doing then no shes not interested she works in a public office and it's part of her duty to be polite to customers.
Try to keep your desperation levels in check, if your desperate to meet someone then you'll likely read too much into every interaction..either that or you think very highly of yourself. Plus a woman being polite for the sake of her job doesnt equate to a gold digger
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