When you feel lonely and need someone to talk to. ( Archived) (17)

There is always plenty of scammers around 24/7. They will always agree with you and tell you sweet things.
It's easier and cheaper then going to the local bar.
In both cases keep an eye on your credit card though.

When you feel lonely , it is a good opportunity to work on yourself and find a real reason of your loneliness.
Loneliness more likely means that you don't have a good connection to your inner being and you don't enjoy your own company.
Having someone easy your loneliness , it will not solve the issue on the long term.

so, there is hope after all

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They never contact me.

I feel so left out.

Hmm, I'm not sure I'd entirely agree with that ana_g and am wondering if you've ever actually given it any serious thought? The real reason for loneliness is just that, being alone. Being able to live and enjoy your own company is great. But, as a species we're hardwired to socialise and connect with others. We're hardwired to lean on and need others. That's why we lived as communities. So it's a very basic (emotional) need. Even the most introverted introverts need someone to talk to every now and then, in a meaningful way. Tittle tatlle and silly shop talk/gossip isn't connecting.

I believe most of society's problems can be found rooted in loneliness. Chronic crazy consumerism, hedonistic behaviours, frantic rushing to and fro, shallow/poor relationships, inability to listen, talking about oneself aaaallll the time, never showing any compassion, they're all symptomatic of loneliness .

All these kids that are talking about having social anxiety, I'm pretty convinced that's borne out of lonliness too. They've been smothered by parents who won't let the child out of their sight and were rarely, if ever, given the opportunity to develop social skills that would help them connect with others. And the parents themselves were clueless as well , so not really their fault.

What's saddening, is that most don't even know or realise that they're actually lonely. What's even worse, is that it's so stigmatised, and considered shameful people would rather die of loneliness than admit they're lonely.

Having someone ( a genuine friend, a kind listening ear, or doing something for someone else e.g. charitable work) will ease your loneliness and " is" the solution. Telling people to learn how to be happy "on their own" is (and I don't think you meant it to be) cruel.

I've forgotten the original post now and wondering if I've rambled off on some mad tangent there....oops lol

Me neither But not complaining about it though

I dunno, I do wonder sometimes if half the people that go on and on about scammers aren't the scammers themselves..