marriage vs live in relationship (42)
Maintain a relationship whilst living in separate dwellings
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Mr_Amor: which one is better?
marriage?
live in relationship?
Being from India you most have an opinion yourself, what is it?marriage?
live in relationship?
You do know marriage has somewhat different meanings around the world right.
So here on Norway it means very little, it's almost considered slightly old fashioned.
But many do.
I personally prefer no official marriage. Instead I would maybe like one day to take my future gf up on a high mountain all alone and before God show that we intend to be together for all time. That is to more of a marriage than signing some papers and getting good photos for instagram and fb.
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Grandsiozzie: Being from India you most have an opinion yourself, what is it?.....
I am agree with you.value of marriage is different from country to country.
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Mercedes_00: Maintain a relationship whilst living in separate dwellings
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Mr_Amor: your option is best for easy separation
No not at all..My idea is so to keep the relationship solid..Further down the track if he asked me to think about living together I would do just that..I would way up the pros and cons then make my decision.------ This thread is Archived ------
Mercedes_00: Maintain a relationship whilst living in separate dwellings
I agree with Merc.Perfect living situation...if he could be on the opposite end of the world while he's at it.. that would be fantastic..
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deedee123xo: I agree with Merc.
Perfect living situation...if he could be on the opposite end of the world while he's at it.. that would be fantastic..
hi dee Perfect living situation...if he could be on the opposite end of the world while he's at it.. that would be fantastic..
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oneniceguy11: hi dee
Hi 
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deedee123xo: Hi
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oneniceguy11: can you private message ?
Not in the best form at the minute...sorry...lost someone yesterday...dead at 46...just don't really fancy chat, if that's OK.Mind yourself.
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deedee123xo: Not in the best form at the minute...sorry...lost someone yesterday...dead at 46...just don't really fancy chat, if that's OK.
Mind yourself.
no prob ........another time xxMind yourself.
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Mercedes_00: No not at all..My idea is so to keep the relationship solid..Further down the track if he asked me to think about living together I would do just that..I would way up the pros and cons then make my decision.
I thought deeply about your idea. The advantage of living apart is that one does not have to tolerate each other's shortcomings, bad habits.
Because no one is perfect, there will be some flaws and we do not have the capacity to tolerate. If there is any problem in the relationship then it will be easy to separate.
This would be better only for the happy life of two people. But if we want to make a family, have children, how will it be managed? I Could not think on it.
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marriage obviously if a couple truely loves each other theyll take that leap.
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In my personal opinion, and without being overly-religious about it. I appreciate the Christian road when it comes to moving in with someone. Some may say "if you don't live with someone first, how could you marry them ?" But I believe if you wait, things will be "new" and exciting for much longer and a better chance of going the distance.
Wishing the best to all, no matter which road you choose.
Wishing the best to all, no matter which road you choose.
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Mr_Amor: I thought deeply about your idea.
The advantage of living apart is that one does not have to tolerate each other's shortcomings, bad habits.
Because no one is perfect, there will be some flaws and we do not have the capacity to tolerate. If there is any problem in the relationship then it will be easy to separate.
This would be better only for the happy life of two people. But if we want to make a family, have children, how will it be managed? I Could not think on it.
When people have lived alone for so long we're all set in our ways..I love to clean..Some men probably don't like a woman to be like that..I love watching sport..Not all men like watching sport..The list goes on..Me personally I like to see all sides to a mans personality..Anyone who says they're perfect are liars..I'm a very patient woman but I too have my moments of frustration..I don't pretend to be all things sugar and spice just for the sake of snagging a man.The advantage of living apart is that one does not have to tolerate each other's shortcomings, bad habits.
Because no one is perfect, there will be some flaws and we do not have the capacity to tolerate. If there is any problem in the relationship then it will be easy to separate.
This would be better only for the happy life of two people. But if we want to make a family, have children, how will it be managed? I Could not think on it.
If an attraction eventuates to an honest genuine meaningful relationship then yes down the track things could be discussed about moving in together..We all like our own space..A man deserves time out with his mates just as I deserve time out with my friends..In saying that if I was in a relationship with a man after working all week I would be spending time with my man not my friends.
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To give my personal opinion about this , first I need to experience both of this at least once in practical life... 
Otherwise I have to talk based upon second hand experience gathered by books and movies and gossips or rumours roaming around the neighbourhood !!
Otherwise I have to talk based upon second hand experience gathered by books and movies and gossips or rumours roaming around the neighbourhood !!
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Rilli? not lived with a man yet?
Aha, well at least you have the dream of how sweet it can be intact then
Aha, well at least you have the dream of how sweet it can be intact then
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marriage?
live in relationship?