Feminists wanted men to be weak and pathetic...so they could walk all over men...but they did not ever think...that weak men...won't make a decent husband and father for children...you can't hold men back massively...demonise masculinity...blame men for everything etc and expect to have a society full of capable men...who ooze masculinity...confidence and line up for commitment.
With the absence of traditionalism...the vast majority of marriages simply don't work and women have to look at themselves...cause they created this problem
What do modern women bring to a marriage Women are no longer educated on the ways of a kitchen...the young women...live off pot noodles...ready meals and takeout ...would struggle making beans on toast and doubt they would know how to turn an oven on
The modern marriage...No homemaker around to keep the home spotless and create a beautiful environment for all...no home cooked meals...no freshly ironed shirts...no work lunches made...no pipe and slippers...no how was your day honey?
Trust me, LeeCharming, most men would have no "incentives" or reasons at all to become "husband material" as long as they are getting the "milk without buying or raising a cow". Sorry, it sounds a bit harsh but i just don't know any other better ways to put it.
I think it’s the opposite. Most women are not wifey materiel, at least most English speaking ones . Most don’t respect their bodies & would sleep with anyone who gave them a seat on the bus. They avoid any kind of responsibility connected with marriage . Their houses are like pig stys , they don’t cook , most never grow up , foul mouthed & they pass their children onto babysitters at any opportunity for a night out .
LeeCharming: What do modern women bring to a marriage Women are no longer educated on the ways of a kitchen...the young women...live off pot noodles...ready meals and takeout ...would struggle making beans on toast and doubt they would know how to turn an oven on
The modern marriage...No homemaker around to keep the home spotless and create a beautiful environment for all...no home cooked meals...no freshly ironed shirts...no work lunches made...no pipe and slippers...no how was your day honey?
When my son was a toddler he walked into the room where I was ironing something for myself and stopped dead in his tracks wanting to know what I was doing with his dad's iron and ironing board
In our household anyone over the age of 11 had to iron their own clothes. I mostly used non iron clothes but his dad prefered to iron his work shirt each day...
With all due respect, won't comment on anything else as same as technology isn't going to wind back to the 40/50's nor are humans on this planet. Much of what you write and your vision of gamilies sounds like trapped in a time capsule and so incoherent for 2021
Selenite: When my son was a toddler he walked into the room where I was ironing something for myself and stopped dead in his tracks wanting to know what I was doing with his dad's iron and ironing board
In our household anyone over the age of 11 had to iron their own clothes. I mostly used non iron clothes but his dad prefered to iron his work shirt each day...
With all due respect, won't comment on anything else as same as technology isn't going to wind back to the 40/50's nor are humans on this planet. Much of what you write and your vision of gamilies sounds like trapped in a time capsule and so incoherent for 2021
So it’s politically incorrect to say that some household chores are women’s jobs , yet DIY and other heavy chores are still classed as men jobs .
Youcannow: I think it’s the opposite. Most women are not wifey materiel, at least most English speaking ones . Most don’t respect their bodies & would sleep with anyone who gave them a seat on the bus. They avoid any kind of responsibility connected with marriage . Their houses are like pig stys , they don’t cook , most never grow up , foul mouthed & they pass their children onto babysitters at any opportunity for a night out .
Wow, what kind of women have you been meeting lately?
Youcannow: Non recently. But from past experiences, the women I dated were ideal for dating , but not marriage material . Fortunately, I had my head screwed on.
Youcannow: Not really . There are women who you would date & there are those women who are wifey material.
It works both ways . Women often date men who they know wouldn’t be good husband material . They look for stability & other family oriented aspects of their persona when looking to tie the knot .
Truth is we are all just waiting for the one who makes us be the real us and are comfortable yet excited by. Doesn't happen as quickly for some as others. Time and circumstance can make us wary and put walls up. But what's worth it is the one will see through all that and still want to be with you. Lee you have alot of work to do, as I'll admit do I....but at least I'm aware of my flaws, you seem to be miserably unaware of yours. You won't ever find the perfect woman as she doesn't exist..nor does the perfect man. Stop looking for perfection it doesn't exist. I will still wish you well as I feel everyone deserves to feel real love in their lifetime...even if it comes far too late for some simply because they are too stubborn to get out of their own way.
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