All in good time.... ( Archived) (34)

Sep 3, 2021 7:31 AM CST All in good time....
EtherealDude
EtherealDudeEtherealDudeLondon, Greater London, England UK14 Threads 96 Posts
Certain dating was always done by writing.
The good old fashioned love letter!
teddybear

In these more enlightened digital times, how many write letters now?
They possibly just 'email' instead, as faster for long-distant relationships!

While email has (mostly) fallen out of use, thanks to the instant messenger (or even the many and varied livechat systems currently available, including video calling), time has actually remained exactly the same and although this immediate contact method has a distinct advantage over the delayed letter (in that it arrives as soon as it's sent) there's something to always remember if involved with anyone living far away in another country...
Timezones!

When one person is getting up, the other could be going to bed, or even asleep (+ vice-versa)
They could also be busy at work, while you're not.

Having retired to my bedroom yesterday (unusually early at 9pm, but just chilling out listening to some newly downloaded music on my phone), after hearing a great track, I decided to send a quick message about it to someone special.

Had she heard this?
If not, would she like to?
Ah.....
uh oh
Ooops!
doh
(It was 4am when the instant message arrived. Unlikely those 'old' love letters caused anyone to be disturbed quite so easily!)

A suggestion of enabling the dual clock display on the phone proved to be an excellent idea, and possibly something anyone in a similar situation with a long distance relationship might also find of great use too.
thumbs up

The modern digital messenger will always deliver any love letter right away, but sometimes a slight delay is rather a good thing to have!
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Anyone else's timezone dating stories thus much appreciated!
Or recalling your own love letters.
Do you write any now, or maybe have kept special ones?

heart beating
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Sep 3, 2021 7:33 AM CST All in good time....
Name_Taken_Too
Name_Taken_TooName_Taken_TooBelfast, Down Ireland60 Threads 2,893 Posts
I still send postcards to friends around the world, it's always great to get one in return.. wave
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Sep 3, 2021 7:57 AM CST All in good time....
EtherealDude
EtherealDudeEtherealDudeLondon, Greater London, England UK14 Threads 96 Posts
Name_Taken_Too: I still send postcards to friends around the world, it's always great to get one in return..
very happy
Postcards yes, wow haven't sent any of those for ages
blushing
Such a nice surprise it must be to receive rather than the usual phone based junk sent now.
thumbs up
Not ideal for love letters (usually always read before delivery!) but yeah I'm going to retro-return to postcards.
Thanks for that
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Sep 3, 2021 8:01 AM CST All in good time....
Name_Taken_Too
Name_Taken_TooName_Taken_TooBelfast, Down Ireland60 Threads 2,893 Posts
EtherealDude: Postcards yes, wow haven't sent any of those for ages

Such a nice surprise it must be to receive rather than the usual phone based junk sent now.

Not ideal for love letters (usually always read before delivery!) but yeah I'm going to retro-return to postcards.
Thanks for that
No worries, Yes they are great, picking them up from the floor when the postie drops it off still gives a great buzz, and they usually end up on the wall as decoration...grin
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Sep 3, 2021 8:42 AM CST All in good time....
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
Name_Taken_Too: No worries, Yes they are great, picking them up from the floor when the postie drops it off still gives a great buzz, and they usually end up on the wall as decoration...
I used to have a wall almost competely covered in postcards from all over the world. Loved getting them from far flung places, but they had to be posted. If someone who was goung to a far off country said they would bring a postcard back for me, I'd say, it has to be posted to get on my wall. Not sure why, but there you go.

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Sep 3, 2021 8:46 AM CST All in good time....
Name_Taken_Too
Name_Taken_TooName_Taken_TooBelfast, Down Ireland60 Threads 2,893 Posts
bodleing2: I used to have a wall almost competely covered in postcards from all over the world. Loved getting them from far flung places, but they had to be posted. If someone who was goung to a far off country said they would bring a postcard back for me, I'd say, it has to be posted to get on my wall. Not sure why, but there you go.
It's the same if someone types me a letter, I'd rather the penmanship than I corrected text.. I used to Dj in my local and met loads of people from around the world, I would always ask them to send me a postcard when they got home, got a lot addressed to the bar with "To Mr Dj Dino" loved getting them.. grin cheers
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Sep 3, 2021 8:50 AM CST All in good time....
Name_Taken_Too: I still send postcards to friends around the world, it's always great to get one in return..
Got a postcard from a friend in Patagonia—then Galapagos...how coolthumbs up
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Sep 3, 2021 8:53 AM CST All in good time....
Packersbabe1
Packersbabe1Packersbabe1Green Bay, Wisconsin USA3 Threads 16,508 Posts
I use to send postcards to, they keep going
up on the stampslaugh, texting is so much easy
now
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Sep 3, 2021 8:54 AM CST All in good time....
Name_Taken_Too
Name_Taken_TooName_Taken_TooBelfast, Down Ireland60 Threads 2,893 Posts
rohaan: Got a postcard from a friend in Patagonia—then Galapagos...how cool
Fantastic, and you don't need to write loads on them, just a "Wish you were here" kinda thang works..beer
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Sep 3, 2021 8:55 AM CST All in good time....
Name_Taken_Too
Name_Taken_TooName_Taken_TooBelfast, Down Ireland60 Threads 2,893 Posts
Packersbabe1: I use to send postcards to, they keep going
up on the stamps, texting is so much easy
now
laugh Texting is much easier but having the hard copy to for a keepsake is priceless..grin
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Sep 3, 2021 9:06 AM CST All in good time....
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
rohaan: Got a postcard from a friend in Patagonia—then Galapagos...how cool
Yes, I had one from a friend out climbing in Patagonia....the Galapagos is cool though??
I didnt mind if they were from somewhere just ten miles down the road, so long as they'd been posted.
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Sep 3, 2021 9:09 AM CST All in good time....
Packersbabe1
Packersbabe1Packersbabe1Green Bay, Wisconsin USA3 Threads 16,508 Posts
Name_Taken_Too: Texting is much easier but having the hard copy to for a keepsake is priceless..



If you have a IPhone you can store messages
to your iCloud, i think not bad
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Sep 3, 2021 9:19 AM CST All in good time....
Name_Taken_Too
Name_Taken_TooName_Taken_TooBelfast, Down Ireland60 Threads 2,893 Posts
Packersbabe1: If you have a IPhone you can store messages
to your iCloud, i think not bad
Yes indeed, some lady's like to spray the card/letter with perfume too, so it's double the pleasure..blushing laugh

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Sep 3, 2021 9:23 AM CST All in good time....
bodleing2: Yes, I had one from a friend out climbing in Patagonia....the Galapagos is cool though??
I didnt mind if they were from somewhere just ten miles down the road, so long as they'd been posted.
My understanding about The Galapagos is that they’re very interesting. The down-side is that they are administered quite strictly, can’t do this, can’t do that, can’t touch this, can’t touch that, etc...
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Sep 3, 2021 9:27 AM CST All in good time....
Packersbabe1
Packersbabe1Packersbabe1Green Bay, Wisconsin USA3 Threads 16,508 Posts
Name_Taken_Too: Yes indeed, some lady's like to spray the card/letter with perfume too, so it's double the pleasure..
rolling on the floor laughing Yeah but a naked picture is so much
better on the IPhone tongue
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Sep 3, 2021 9:28 AM CST All in good time....
Name_Taken_Too
Name_Taken_TooName_Taken_TooBelfast, Down Ireland60 Threads 2,893 Posts
Packersbabe1: Yeah but a naked picture is so much
better on the IPhone
And a naked woman is so much better in Dino's arms..laugh banana
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Sep 3, 2021 9:29 AM CST All in good time....
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
bodleing2: Yes, I had one from a friend out climbing in Patagonia....the Galapagos is cool though??
I didnt mind if they were from somewhere just ten miles down the road, so long as they'd been posted.
Not sure where the question marks came from, should have been....thumbs up
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Sep 3, 2021 9:30 AM CST All in good time....
Packersbabe1
Packersbabe1Packersbabe1Green Bay, Wisconsin USA3 Threads 16,508 Posts
Name_Taken_Too: And a naked woman is so much better in Dino's arms..
rolling on the floor laughing See
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Sep 3, 2021 9:31 AM CST All in good time....
Name_Taken_Too
Name_Taken_TooName_Taken_TooBelfast, Down Ireland60 Threads 2,893 Posts
Packersbabe1: See
blushing laugh teddybear
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Sep 3, 2021 9:33 AM CST All in good time....
bodleing2: Not sure where the question marks came from, should have been....
thanks for clarifying—what a difference punctuation marks make !!laugh
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